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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by MPESA(m): 4:41pm On Nov 11, 2021
iceybux:


There’s. I we here pls... it’s him.. he he did tat then I don’t support abt aside that I said don’t always expect such outcomes.. read the lines mate

No wahala King, Peace.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by MadamExcellency: 4:42pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

You can't end it without restitution and reparations.

If she goes to court, your name na sorry. Go and check the legal implications. You're married already because you told her so. Three years now and you're talking rubbish.

Just build a house for her as a compensation.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Midas01: 4:42pm On Nov 11, 2021
Oh pls shut up. No one said all relationships must end in marriage? The problem here is you deceiving her with marriage and wasting her time when you know fully well you won't marry her and also wanting to pin the relationship failure on her.

Let me tell you something.... you're already cursed wether she curses you or not.

Don't worry, you'll meet your match soon.
Mylordmygod1:
You people should'nt blame me, its not a must that all relationship leads to marriage. All i need is how i can end the relationship before it is too late.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by jaxxy(m): 4:44pm On Nov 11, 2021
Iyaebe:
He's playing with her life

Every relationship may not lead to marriage. Marriage shouldn’t be by force or pity. That’s why he wants to end it now bt she gets hurt.

He’s only mistake was lying to her that he would marry her.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Mogajunior(m): 4:46pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
Olusola continue...
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Maobichek: 4:46pm On Nov 11, 2021
merits:
tell her you want to use her for ritual grin,na she go run by herself.

Hahahaaaaa!!! What if she agreed to be used for money ritual?

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by chieni(f): 4:46pm On Nov 11, 2021
iceybux:

Exactly... anyways how re you?
I am great! Thanks.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by when2(f): 4:46pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.


Evil generation!

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by kunle75(m): 4:46pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.


You're a pure devil,I am not holding anything back from telling you the truth.
In your statement you said you knew all along that it won't lead anywhere but you continue to lead her on with no marriage in your plan.
You need to fear God and remember what goes around comes around, someday you will have a daughter too or even your own blood sister. Your mother was right to tell you to let her off your hook in time so she can move on with her life.
My answer for you is simple, tell her in simple term the same way you told her when you first met her that you are the best thing ever happened to her and make her fall for you.
Don't put any blame on her,please man up bro
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by SirMichael1: 4:48pm On Nov 11, 2021
Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person


Lol. I don't support premarital sex but I'm going to fault you for blaming him here. He didn't have sex with her alone. It wasn't one sided. They both had sex with each other. She performed wifely duty and he performed husbandly duty. So if you'll just shut up about making him take the blame. What happens if she was the one leaving, would you say? Besides, why get into a life long commitment in the first place when you no longer want that commitment? Even siblings break apart, so what is the big deal about him wanting out? Abegggggggiiii.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Viper231: 4:49pm On Nov 11, 2021
Did you read the part where he said he has been promising to marry her?
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See them useless Nigeria girls that think every relationship ends with marriage, please grow up. No curse will work on him , it's not today we hear those word from biitch like you people
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Iamziggy: 4:49pm On Nov 11, 2021
Bola146:
May we never meet agbako people in life sad Hummmmmm... People should be very careful with your type of human being, as friends oo shocked shocked 3years and you can't still tell her You don't want to offend her or you are done with her? Koburu embarassed The same way you rise her legs, use the same method to tell her undecided undecided intentionally you are really hurting her seriously by still wasting her time when you could said the truth to your people since, haba!!!! It's better you tell her the truth now! If you still continue making use of her to dump her later hummmm... if she curse you it will come to pass for sure but if you tell her now, she will shout and keep quiet. Some ladies don suffer in the name of bad and crazy relationship sad

Abegi nothing go happen....curse werey wo. Abi aye curse ofe da ni?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Midas01: 4:49pm On Nov 11, 2021
B!tch like your mother right?

Nigerian men will never cease to support evil as long as the victim is a woman...Lol.

Someone is has been deceiving his gf with marriage and you're supporting him?

The crux of the matter here is not that all relationships must end but rather that the op is a deceptive, manipulative being but don't worry, continue supporting evil. What goes around, comes around.
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See them useless Nigeria girls that think every relationship ends with marriage, please grow up. No curse will work on him , it's not today we hear those word from biitch like you people

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Nobody: 4:50pm On Nov 11, 2021
jaxxy:


Every relationship may not lead to marriage. Marriage shouldn’t be by force or pity. That’s why he wants to end it now bt she gets hurt.

He’s only mistake was lying to her that he would marry her.
What is "only" in that mistake? we are talking about her life here and yes all relationship should lead to marriage for any sensible lady.If its not leading to marriage then what am I in it for?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Midas01: 4:50pm On Nov 11, 2021
Lmao grin
izzy4shizzy:
You never gave any reason to why you can't marry her...
Dating for three years? But don't see a wife in her?

I hope you are not the type that keep saying 'i don't love my wife' but the wife keeps getting pregnant

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Newboss(m): 4:51pm On Nov 11, 2021
Fûck her female friends. As many as possible.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Lucyfa10: 4:51pm On Nov 11, 2021
This guy no serious at all... you kept promising her yet you dont wanna marry her... Oju kokoro

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Exczz: 4:52pm On Nov 11, 2021
Think for yourself
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Olakunleyakub(m): 4:53pm On Nov 11, 2021
Can you tell me the reason with this your decision?

I know you are entitled to your own opinion but I will advise you to give it second thought.


Recently have came to realised that every bad thing we do always come back to us directly or indirectly.

Leaving a relationship for a good reason is not really a big deal but wasting someone daughter time for 3years still counting for nothing is not acceptable.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by David160(m): 4:54pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
she can actually sue you for breach of promise of marriage. Google it.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by IGoComotYaTeeth: 4:55pm On Nov 11, 2021
Danielkelly:
tell her she i the one who doesn't derseve you overrate her value and like ballon dat you are pumping air into till it exceeds it elastic limit and bust she will bust and leave you manipulation technque. Don't tel her you want to break up just don't act manly act with low selfesteem and while overating her. Thank me later.
you have sense oo
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by merits(m): 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
Maobichek:


Hahahaaaaa!!! What if she agreed to be used for money ritual?
and she will be no more na.case closed. grin
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Newboss(m): 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
silvoclaira:
@Op your moniker says my-lord-my-god instead of my-devil-my-satan...

The word "lord" is a title. The word "god" is also a title. You can make anyone your lord and you can also make anyone your god.

When someone say "lord" or "god", they could be referring to anything or anyone imaginable. Don't always assume they're talking about the person that you're thinking about.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by jimmychang: 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.


You shot yourself in the foot grin
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Maobichek: 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
PeaceJoyLove:








What you sow, you will reap. I have nothing much to tell you than pray for you. What you sow exactly, God will make you reap it exponentially in Jesus' name. A big Amen!

You are quoting scriptures but you failed to point out that God hate sin; they have been having sex and she might have even done abortion for him. Once again, God don't answer prayers of sinners and He will not change His standard.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by omoadeleye(m): 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
I'm about to start up a business, and i don't need her assistance since i'm not marrying her..

lalasticlala help me reach out to more people.. Thanks


Lol. You are a bad guy
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Nobody: 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
SirMichael1:



Lol. I don't support premarital sex but I'm going to fault you for blaming him here. He didn't have sex with her alone. It wasn't one sided. They both had sex with each other. She performed wifely duty and he performed husbandly duty. So if you'll just shut up about making him take the blame. What happens if she was the one leaving, would you say? Besides, why get into a life long commitment in the first place when you no longer want that commitment? Even siblings break apart, so what is the big deal about him wanting out? Abegggggggiiii.
He admitted to have deceived her all these years and have used her body to learn all the sex styles and now leaving her for who? He's to be blamed and he will reap what he sow. And yes every relationship should lead to marriage for any reasonable lady,nothing like ehnnn we are just dating yen yen yen,no marriage intended.Dating me is marrying me anything less I throw you to the street which you truly belong so that your prick can carry out its community services well.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by jaxxy(m): 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
Iyaebe:
What is "only" in that mistake? we are talking about her life here and yes all relationship should lead to marriage for any sensible lady.If its not leading to marriage then what am I in it for?

Yes it should bt it may not and it’s not a crime. So u will prefer he keeps deceiving rather than break up?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by chatinent: 4:57pm On Nov 11, 2021
After shining congo.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 11, 2021
"With great powers, comes great responsibility" Peter Parker.

With such wickedness, you must not shy away from your responsibility. Look her in the eyes and tell her.

Successful marriages are not built on compatibility, they're sustained by understanding. Understand this and see your perception of that lady change.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by maxzzo1(m): 4:57pm On Nov 11, 2021
Idiot after u don promise n chop yaka yaka na u wan run?

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