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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Wetlink: 7:38pm On Nov 11, 2021
silvoclaira:
@Op your moniker says my-lord-my-god instead of my-devil-my-satan...

grin grin grin this one off me cheesy
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Spherical77(m): 7:44pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
i want it to be in the form of a set up, i don't want her to blame me because i don't know how she will feel
don't bring curse upon yourself

Sit her down and tell her calmly
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by buramide(m): 7:46pm On Nov 11, 2021
Danielkelly:
Don't marry does you love, don't marry does who don't love you but marry does that love you. E get why.. Nana holds your ears let me speak something to your ears.



RIP English
You murdered it!

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by mudiana(m): 7:49pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
advice na the gal need advice. u b devil

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by godblessuyirich(f): 7:51pm On Nov 11, 2021
THUNDER WEY GO FIRE U DEY DO PRESS UP. WICKED SOUL. THIS WILL BE D POTION OF ALL UR DAUGHTERS AND UR SISTERS IN JESUS, AMEN

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Danielkelly: 7:52pm On Nov 11, 2021
buramide:






RIP English You murdered it!
It was beautiful mistake
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by dnawah(m): 7:56pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
y u no want marry am? No worry she go make better wife for some one else.e go do vam for eyes
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by samwillyco1(m): 8:03pm On Nov 11, 2021
Na cult you enter, to enter dey very easy but to comot no easy grin grin grin grin

Back to the main issue, why is it that you don't want to marry her,
is her character bad ?
is her background evil ?
Is she a chest ?
Is she a dirty type ?
Is she a troublesome type ?
Is she not respectful type ?
Is she a parasite ?

What exactly is your main reason of not wanting to marry her, please tell us so that we can help/ learn from the whole issue.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Otunla236: 8:10pm On Nov 11, 2021
You are a evil man with lack of conscience. Honestly, you are not fear of God at all.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Clinghton: 8:14pm On Nov 11, 2021
I pray this mission ends well.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by samwillyco1(m): 8:16pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Na cult you enter, to enter dey very easy but to comot no easy grin grin grin grin

Back to the main issue, why is it that you don't want to marry her,
is her character bad ?
is her background evil ?
Is she a chest ?
Is she a dirty type ?
Is she a troublesome type ?
Is she not respectful type ?
Is she a parasite ?

What exactly is your main reason of not wanting to marry her, please tell us so that we can help/ learn from the whole issue.

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Sambab(m): 8:24pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
i want it to be in the form of a set up, i don't want her to blame me because i don't know how she will feel

You're very wicked with a devil soul... You are planning to setup a girl you have been banging for the past 3 yrs, and yet you want to put a blame for her.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray your own daughter will meet a real type of yours in her life.... Can I hear your loud amen...
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by abdullahi45: 8:34pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Can you seat yourself down and sincerely ponder on why you don't want her for marriage. Is it because you have seen her all or due to a problem with her? Or because you are the problem and would keep wasting the time of every girl that comes your path. Make sure you are sincere with yourself, evaluate what you need in a girl and marriage, if she has everything that you desire, then I would say go for it. I am not saying you should pity her and marry her. All I am saying is be rational, you can't just say you can't marry a lady you have spent up to 3 years with without a substantial reason.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by hardon1(m): 8:39pm On Nov 11, 2021
Some times I perceive myself as irresponsible, but when I read post like this I come to the conclusion that I am far more responsible that lots of people

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by ityP(m): 8:40pm On Nov 11, 2021
Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person


Sex is enjoyed by both parties. She was doing wifely duties, and he was doing husbandly duties too. I don't see a problem. You ladies should stop painting this picture of innocent beings who don't like sex. Na konji catch una pass

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by ityP(m): 8:41pm On Nov 11, 2021
Bola146:
May we never meet agbako people in life sad Hummmmmm... People should be very careful with your type of human being, as friends oo shocked shocked 3years and you can't still tell her You don't want to offend her or you are done with her? Koburu embarassed The same way you rise her legs, use the same method to tell her undecided undecided intentionally you are really hurting her seriously by still wasting her time when you could said the truth to your people since, haba!!!! It's better you tell her the truth now! If you still continue making use of her to dump her later hummmm... if she curse you it will come to pass for sure but if you tell her now, she will shout and keep quiet. Some ladies don suffer in the name of bad and crazy relationship sad



Life no be Nollywood o
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by ityP(m): 8:43pm On Nov 11, 2021
Radionigeria:
Stop insulting the guy naw.. Is it because he said his own out.
Let me tell you, if God should open your eys so that you can see the inside heart of your partner, i'm so sure you will run for your life..


Dont mind these mumu ladies shouting curses grin.... They think it's Nollywood. All they think about is marriage. The babe cannot give herself brain too?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by ityP(m): 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2021
Bola146:


Men will definitely do same to all your daughters too, say Amen! So that God will open our eyes and run away from your type



It has been happening since time immemorial. My daughter will pick herself up and move
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Stanleyq: 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2021
Why did u befriend her? I mean, why dont u wanna marry her.?
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by ityP(m): 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2021
Radionigeria:
i don't know you, but i'm sure your partner is not even among your first 100.. So what happened that you didn't end up with your first love, that precious guy that took away your precious virginity for free? So you see, not all friendship leads to marriage.. Some have lasted for more than 9 years, and still didn't work out.. U didn't understand my point and make sure u don't quote me again


School these ladies angry
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by benzion72(m): 8:45pm On Nov 11, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:

Was the GIRL not enjoying the chopping?
Is there any woman who naturally detests sex?
IF Yes, then;
That woman should avoid MARRIAGE that's all.
Is it documented that he must marry the Lady?
Is it documented that LADIES must marry the men they dated too?

What if the OP was a Lady who dumped the man that trained her in school?
After all LADIES do it everyday.
What if the LADY had been warned to improve her season of reasoning for the past 3years now.

IF he's not interested. He should leave.
If he fails now he will disgrace the GIRL further by leaving her in MARRIAGE.

Wonderful defense. But why promise her marriage. If the OP do not promise marriage will she agree. Can you call any lady and tell her I just want to chop you for the next three years. Will she consent, a non room service lady
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by ityP(m): 8:48pm On Nov 11, 2021
1Sharon:


None of that was relevant when you slept with her, was it?


She also slept with him. You people should stop claiming victim. Na two people dey enjoy sex. No be only man
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by depato88(m): 8:59pm On Nov 11, 2021
Have been reading coments on this thread and i have no option than to comment. To be sincere OP you wicked, this is outright wickedness, Its true relationship no be by force BUT where you erred seriously is promising MARRIAGE., when you know you wont marry, giving someone daughter hope and secondly have been carefully following this thread all this while to see if you would state any REASON why you wanna break up with her but NON,. Also from your write ups you didn't mention any bad attitude or character from the girl. This is outright wickedness n wickedness in high degree.

I wonder why people creqte problems due to thier deciets, for Godsake these days one can eaaily have sexual relation with girls . If you want sexmate, friends with benefits etc there are gals that will easily agree with that, these days i dont see the need of one lieing , using fake promise of marriage inorder for her to open for you. Any body telling you to go ahead with your wickedness, that nothing will happen. HATES you or probably he or she didn't really READ what you wrote. My brother don't create generational problem for your self. This should serve as a lesson to other guys using FAKE PROMISE OF MARRIAGE to sleep and have unrestricted access to ladies kitty, one day monkey go go market him no go come back. Continue

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Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by dalass(f): 8:59pm On Nov 11, 2021
Doyou2019:


You girls should stop frightening the poor chap. If curses really worked, most of our politicians would be dead!

He should damned well be frightened. After promising her marriage even till date. He's trying to set her up!!! So that he doesn't take the blame.

The guy has no conscience at all. Wicked soul
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by falcon01: 8:59pm On Nov 11, 2021
Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.
damn bruh you are wicked!. Just sit her down and tell her
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by TinaG(f): 9:03pm On Nov 11, 2021
Why would you promise her marriage when you know you won't marry her? If she lays any curse on you , it will surely work because she might have been rejecting suitors because of your promises. Oga finish what you started ooo.
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by dalass(f): 9:07pm On Nov 11, 2021
Sambab:


You're very wicked with a devil soul... You are planning to setup a girl you have been banging for the past 3 yrs, and yet you want to put a blame for her.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray your own daughter will meet a real type of yours in her life.... Can I hear your loud amen...

I have never seen his type abeg,!

He can't say any evil thing about her. He's still promising her marriage. He wants to set her up!To trap the lady o... I seriously pity her... If sh falls into his trap, he'll be forming..." i caught my fiancée with someone"

One idiot already asked her Whatsapp no... NL should just ban thus guy abeg

That guy is devil incarnate undecided
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by dalass(f): 9:08pm On Nov 11, 2021
Sambab:


You're very wicked with a devil soul... You are planning to setup a girl you have been banging for the past 3 yrs, and yet you want to put a blame for her.
In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray your own daughter will meet a real type of yours in her life.... Can I hear your loud amen...

I have never seen his type abeg,!

He can't say any evil thing about her. He's still promising her marriage. He wants to set her up!To trap the lady o... I seriously pity her... If sh falls into his trap, he'll be forming..." i caught my fiancée with someone"

One idiot already asked her Whatsapp no... NL should just ban that guy abeg

That guy is devil incarnate undecided
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by lereinter(m): 9:09pm On Nov 11, 2021
Wicked man
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by lereinter(m): 9:10pm On Nov 11, 2021
Iyaebe:
She doesn't need to curse you sef before the curse reign supreme in your life,you can't marry her but she's good enough for sex.Anyways I don't blame you,I blame the girl who was doing wifely duties with you for three years without any reasonable step forward in the relationship, it serves her right and next time she will padlock her private part and only give the key to the serious and rightful person

He didn't mention he's fvckin her
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by lereinter(m): 9:17pm On Nov 11, 2021
Radionigeria:
Stop insulting the guy naw.. Is it because he said his own out.
Let me tell you, if God should open your eys so that you can see the inside heart of your partner, i'm so sure you will run for your life..

See the guys number 1 offence is for.the guy to be telling her he will marry her while he knows deep heart he won't
Re: I'm Not Marrying Her: How DO I End This Relationship, All My Trap Has Faild Me by Nobody: 9:18pm On Nov 11, 2021
I have learnt my lessons as a lady ,any relationship that doesn't worth it I pray not to waste my precious time on it.

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