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Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by scanner1000(m): 8:29am On Nov 12, 2021 |
Good day everyone, pls I need mature advice concerning my about-you-crash relationship ![]() I met dis gal during nysc orientation camp, she is averagely beautiful, naive and with good moral. So after camping she accepted to date me which made happy I have found a soulmate but I later found out she was a virgin which increases d love I have for her, although she Said until we get married before I can have s3x with her but we can have mild romance which I agreed. She gave me romance to ejaculate and feel free. We do enjoy d romance spree until some days ago dat she said she wants us to stop any form of intimacy, dat its affecting her spiritual life with God. Dis issues made us quarrel and she angry deleted all my photos including my mom's birthday pictures. Although She doesn't disturb me financially but I can't cope without any form of intimacy in a relationship and I don't want to lose her as well because she have high moral standards and I see her as wife material.. I love her but d relationship will now look boring to me and I don't want to cheat on her. But I still feel she has lost interest in me or have seen another guy. She said no romance/s3x or break up. Hard decision for me to make. I don't want to look like a simp ![]() PS we are both serving Corp member and we are passing out early next year. Am in a state of Dilemma , mature advice please. ![]() |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by luwiizy(m): 8:32am On Nov 12, 2021 |
Then keep your romance and sex for someone who's ready for romance and sex.... Not having romance and sex affects you too. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by thorpido(m): 8:40am On Nov 12, 2021 |
If you want her,then you must want her with her standards. If you want romance and sex,there are girls who are ready to mingle in that area. You can't eat your cake and still have it. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Sonnobax15(m): 8:42am On Nov 12, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Conwarden: 8:42am On Nov 12, 2021 |
scanner1000: ![]() Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters! 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Ynix(m): 8:45am On Nov 12, 2021 |
scanner1000: She is right, if you are not ready to marry her you don't need any intimacy, that is fornication. Respect her wishes, sex is not only about having penetration it involves erotic interaction too which I personally believe should be in the boundary of marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Romanoff(f): 8:46am On Nov 12, 2021 |
Look for your fellow fornicator and marry. I pray the fornicator you find bills you steady for the service she will render. |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Tokskob2008: 9:23am On Nov 12, 2021 |
If you are sure she still loves you and still have those qualities you saw in her at first then waiting for her shouldn't be a problem. Staying without the intimacy won't kill you (it's not like you both are having sex in the first place sef) If on the other hand you have noticed a change in attitude and behavior that suggest she isn't into you anymore just EXIT straight. She might have found someone new she enjoys the little intimacy with henece the new terms and conditions. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by advanceDNA: 10:04am On Nov 12, 2021 |
scanner1000: Is sex food?? You got yourself a good girl like you said...but you want to ruin it because cumming is more important to you..... Just love her... Lucky you she’s not demanding money... So you don’t feel pressured..your buying of things and giving her money will be occasionally... last last...she will come around |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by talk2hb1(m): 10:22am On Nov 12, 2021 |
scanner1000:Let's get some understanding right: Relationship does not equate sex, even marriage. You can sought for sex outside your relationship, since you agree to no sex from day one why complain now. If I agree to no sex in a relationship, I will come up with my own counter agreement too. Which might includes freedom to seeking sex outside or other 3rd party, which I might not even tell her; 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Jeremani: 11:06am On Nov 12, 2021 |
Na small small dem eat food wey dey hot. With time she will give u all u want. But are u sure the girl love u? Cos that her conditions strong pass army general own |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Bamzyriches451: 11:13am On Nov 12, 2021 |
Agree to her conditions then find another babe dey do wetin u want |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Lee99: 11:20am On Nov 12, 2021 |
If you love her then stay, sex is too easy and overrated these days, you can get sex anywhere 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 11:35am On Nov 12, 2021 |
Good girl. You either wait or waka out of her life. |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by arthurwillia(m): 12:30pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
scanner1000: I will not lie to you, if you want to date a girl and marry her, waiting till marriage will never be your problem.. if I see a woman I want to marry today, I’ll prefer never to even touch her till marriage.. The main reason you are saying you can’t cope and it will be boring is because you don’t see a future with her and that’s the truth.. so leave the poor girl alone, let her be and look for some one you can be lashing.. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by arthurwillia(m): 12:32pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Lee99: Put In your opinion sex is overrated, please.. Sex can Never be overrated to me in my opinion 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by scanner1000(m): 12:36pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
talk2hb1: I hardly cheat when I love you and am having any form of intimacy with u. But I think I will take dis ur advice.. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by scanner1000(m): 12:37pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse: So kongi can kill me right? |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by scanner1000(m): 12:38pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:Am not new in stuff like dat, am over careful ![]() |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by scanner1000(m): 12:40pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Jeremani: I swear down. But I think Dis one major things that make men cheat. Kongi wan finish me ![]() |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Newboss(m): 1:21pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
That's the reason she is still a virgin This virginity thing dey overrated. The fact your love for her increased because of virginity shows that you still never get sense. There is nothing for you in that relationship. |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 1:38pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by OSDD(m): 4:21pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Bleep... The numbers of relationship issues Wey dey enter nairaland ehn.. |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by helinues: 5:52pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Chisos,and this one is a corper? ![]() |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by CaveAdullam: 7:43pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Spin plates! Go out and have fun with other women! Don't let her occupy any pedestal in you heart or head! She is not saving herself for you but the highest bidder! Be wise! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by scanner1000(m): 9:23pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by zed7: 1:13am On Nov 13, 2021 |
A corper acting like a secondary school boy. If she's a wife material, then wife her and start having sex. Honestly, you should be more focused on your future. Since she's also a corper, you two should plan on how to make something useful out of your lives. Life after service is tough my friend. If sex is your problem, go and look for a sex worker. That lady knows what she wants from life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Boogyman557: 3:15am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Holly Gram ![]() |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by talk2hb1(m): 7:58am On Nov 13, 2021 |
scanner1000:No one is asking you to cheat! Just giving you options! Is either she agrees to your terms or she quit the relationship! |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by Nobody: 8:08am On Nov 13, 2021 |
scanner1000: Walk away .... You want romance and she doesn't, there's no point being together... 1 Like |
Re: Please Help!!! Am In A State Of Dilemma Concerning My Relationship by dontrulee: 8:28am On Nov 13, 2021 |
scanner1000: You're a big fool @Op so you cannot control your third leg?? Beside don't believe those ladies that says no sex but agree to romance. They are the great decievers jare. She is probably having sex with another dude, you're just her back up plan. It's just plain stupidity to me. Makes me remember one funny story, I'll share it later... |
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