DarkCaesar:
I asked Banny out 3days ago, banny curved me and prefer friendship instead….today we both met at a bank ATM, we greeted and was about to go my way when banny requested I wait for her since she it was almost her turn………banny say make we head to a mini mall, banny did her grocery shopping and asked me to pay, told me the money she withdrew was for her mother. I smiled and told her Infront of the cashier that I’m not paying for none of what she bought and we both left. Saw banny message later on my WhatsApp that I should block her cos I caused her embarrassment, laugh to myself and left her on ghost mode on WhatsApp. She’d text back when her head has drawn enough oil to boot her dead brain

luminouz:
I love you guys but can we tone down on the economic topics and loan stuff. There are threads for that on NL. Here is strictly redpill stuff.


Much love

YoobaNesan:
Good job to everyone contributing one or two things here and those learning while reading. I know my fellow redpillers are people of books and their knowledge abound many disciplines.
Anyone who is an economist or understand the economiy of a nation should educate us on the implication of the incessant loans our darling president has embarked upon.
How does these loans affect us as regards hike in prices of goods and services? What if the agreement for these loans were not met? How it affect our global reputation and how the citizen are treated based on this? Can a proper tax system ever be implemented in this country to alleviate these loans? Do the citizens pay for it?
What can we even say about the coming generations of this country? Does the government has any vision for them because you can see many countries having plans for their coming generations like the Saudi vision 2030, UAE vision 2030 etc.

What is even the future of Nigeria?
Cc Martinez, luminouz, CaveAdullam, Jeshal, Mjbolt, TheGidRedpiller, Dliquidmetal etc.
Thanks.

luminouz:

Use his own money to spend on him How is that sacrificial?
What are these women high on?

YoobaNesan:
Good job to everyone contributing one or two things here and those learning while reading. I know my fellow redpillers are people of books and their knowledge abound many disciplines.
Anyone who is an economist or understand the economiy of a nation should educate us on the implication of the incessant loans our darling president has embarked upon.
How does these loans affect us as regards hike in prices of goods and services? What if the agreement for these loans were not met? How it affect our global reputation and how the citizen are treated based on this? Can a proper tax system ever be implemented in this country to alleviate these loans? Do the citizens pay for it?
What can we even say about the coming generations of this country? Does the government has any vision for them because you can see many countries having plans for their coming generations like the Saudi vision 2030, UAE vision 2030 etc.

What is even the future of Nigeria?
Cc Martinez, luminouz, CaveAdullam, Jeshal, Mjbolt, TheGidRedpiller, Dliquidmetal etc.
Thanks.

Miracood2:
Kings I need help from you all.

I'll be 22 in few months from now, but I'm really concerned..

Like I've being made to believe that 20-25 yrs old is the time at which ure supposed to be at ur strongest.

I mean that strength of a Youth should be overflowing in you.. to me, the reverse is the case. I always feel weak and I feel like an old person. How can I improve myself in this kind of situation?

(I fap about twice a week. *I'm seriously trying to stop the act*)

Abba114:
your problem is not from this earth you need to stop gambling too

Miracood2:
it's not funny though.

I'm very disciplined when it comes to gambling because I can go 2 months straight with engaging in it.

Carchoice:
Most men are after free/cheap sex, sex that whenever they have an erection, the lady is readily available to do the job. They don’t know this is the most deceptive trick ever.

Here’s how it works;

At first you are happy the sex is cheap and ready whenever you want it. Your brain automatically starts using this particular lady or ladies to fill the gaps.. When you try another lady and She turns you down, you bother less because there’s a cheap one already filling the void. When you get high on substance and ring another lady, if She disappoints you, you bother less because there’s a cheap lady ready to do the job that same day or as early as the next day. No stress. No demands. It’s poison.


Free/cheap sex are always the best because you can fvck them for hours and they are never tired, they are ready to satisfy you, you can turn them 180 to 360 degrees they won’t complain. They are always dripping wet, they moan louder to massage your ego. Over time you stop using protection because you start to feel you own it (SOME GUYS ARE VERY GUILTY OF THIS). Some men don’t know when to withdraw after 2 to 3 sex meeting with the lady. They move to the 2nd stage of their fall.


Overtime, the free/cheap sex starts to become scarce. Why? Some woke ladies know the game they are playing while some are just fed up of the whole “free” thing. When it becomes scarce with different excuses as to why they can’t turn up as usual. Your ego becomes bruised. This is the second stage of the fall. The men unconsciously starts doing the chasing. You become more hornier with an intense chase. Common sense will not tell some men to back down. it was free initially, why is it becoming tough all of a sudden? They want to know why, then the free/cheap sex starts making demands directly and indirectly.

“When I come today, you will not touch me”

You will answer affirmative just to make her come, in your small mind you’ll think when She comes, you’ll have your way as usual. You are actually going deeper. While some agrees not to touch her, this is the trickiest part, because when She comes and you really don’t touch her for sex, this creates more room for chit-chat and bonding that was never in the sexlationship. She starts moulding you to her taste and preference. “Is it every time we will be having sex” becomes her new slogan. She starts fixing a date to visit you, making demands directly. And the idea of it being free from the beginning keeps deceiving you into thinking it is all an act from her which you can easily correct.


It is at this stage some woke ladies will now give conditions of “relationship or no more sex”. While some foolish men starts getting jealous because they think that thing they were getting free, another guy is probably now taking charge. EGO bruise.


The next stage is where some men do get lost, they start agreeing to some if not all of her demands, start acting caring and paying attention to the lady, treat her right, when She comes they won’t won’t touch her, they starts discussing more often, subbing stories starts pouring in to get the emotional side of the weaker men. from here some men will say “she’s a very nice and hard working lady, I should ask her to be my girlfriend”


Now the chase is now in your court. Something you were getting for free that was massaging your ego, that you used to boast to your guys when they see the lady leaving your apartment and sometimes they hear how she was screaming and moaning, now have a mind of it’s own but common sense will not let you reason clearly because of Konji.


My Redpill brothers, I can confidently tell you that a greater percentage of men in a relationship and those getting married started it this way. I was a victim of this, I lost to 4 ladies, one in 2017, one in 2018 and two in 2019 and 2020. My saving grace was at the last stage, they start asking and making demands.


The last lady in 2020, She came to my house, we were both naked and She was on top of me for close to 30 min, teasing her Vee with my Pee, She would use her Vee to kiss my Pee for me to feel the wetness. She had done this same thing 2x prior that day. I tried severally to position her well and slide in but She wouldn’t let me, She would raise her self up instead. I saw my sorry self begging her to let me in. She was laughing and said “Konji go kill you today”. Then She said “******, if we are going to start dating after, I will put it in”


I told her to get off me, She was still teasing, I gently pushed her aside and told her I don’t agree to manipulations because of sex. Immediately the table turned, She said I had been using her for free sex all along. That was the end of it.


Moral of the post, don’t think a lady is giving you free sex, that’s where it ends. If you don’t use your sense, there are so many ways for her to trap you. She can even go as far as getting pregnant and turn a wife or you even make her the wife while the reality is, you were manipulated into it with free sex.


Mind you, cheap or costly, they are the same but I’m just removing the veil beneath what most men don’t know about free/cheap sex. A free/cheap sex always comes with ease, calmness and peace of mind but it is the worse. If you think the redpill will get you free/cheap sex, be prepared because this is where the real test is.

The Coquette is the kind of seducer who leads a person on without offering instant gratification. Their modus operandi is to delay satisfaction alternating between unexplained warmth and coldness so that the victim stays in a state of anticipation not knowing what is coming next. They play on the human psychology knowing that anything that is easily available to humans is not necessarily valued. Hence, they create a persona of being unavailable and this generates excitement in their audience. Coquettes are somewhat narcissistic as well and have no qualms in making their victims pursue them relentlessly. They create a sense of insecurity in their targets and when they reach the brink, they pull them back with show of warmth and attention. They play with emotions swinging between love and hate.

heartofcity12:
Simps would be heavily investing resources and attention on girls that are not up to their level when same girl will never do the same if reverse was the case, this is a clear example, learn about being redpill from ladies, they won’t settle for less, why should you. Glad this uncouth ho got served tho.

emmaodet:


I once told my mates in church that did they noticed that 90% of the married women in the church are either jobless or underemployed (virtually just doing something to be busy but not productive enough to fund the family).
I told them if we swap the situation and our women are the one gainfully employed while we are either jobless or struggling with a megre job that most won’t have dated or married us and any of them who did it did it accidentally and not deliberately- that is, the man was earning well above the woman but on the long run lost his income thereby becoming an accidental decision.
Most women I know always detest their husbands when they lose their incomes. The women mostly get tired of the marriage and want to elope from it. They see the men has unnecessarily burden that is not productive anymore.
My mom was always complaining about how tired she was when my dad retired and bringing in little income into the family from his pension while my mum was still at service as headmistress. If not for the olden days tradition and culture imbibed in her, she would have eloped.
My MIL same, no difference. When her hubby was earning higher, working as a doctor in Dubai in early 90’s and had a high SMV as a man then, she was enjoying the man and proud to be the wife of a well to do man. She was the envy of the average lady then in my area.
Today the man is broke and partially paralyzed and my MIL has lost interest in the marriage because the man is more of a burden to her than asset. He is a liability. If not for tradition and culture plus religion, she would have eloped.
She once said when she paid us a visit that now a days ladies are enjoying. That they can decide to pull out of a marriage if it is not meaningful unlike in the olden days when a lot of people would frown on them and the stigma was very high.
That if she is a modern woman, she won’t have married. She will just give birth and enjoy her freedom since she is a principal.
I told her too that I won’t advise a modern man too to marry because the stress, liabilities and all outweighs it’s benefits.
That if am to marry now, I won’t. I will just get a baby mama and enjoy my freedom. Travel round the world the way I like.
She was jolted up with that my statement. Said a man needs a woman in his house at all time. Moreover, I am a very selfish person.
These two women are traditional women. Religiously inclined yet still thinking this way how much more a modern liberal minded woman.

Algebrah:
See double standard o "a man needs a woman in his house all the time" but a woman doesn't need a man? Anything they like is a standard but if it's not beneficial to them, then it's a taboo.
It's a cold world out there for men

emmaodet:


I once told my mates in church that did they noticed that 90% of the married women in the church are either jobless or underemployed (virtually just doing something to be busy but not productive enough to fund the family).
I told them if we swap the situation and our women are the one gainfully employed while we are either jobless or struggling with a megre job that most won’t have dated or married us and any of them who did it did it accidentally and not deliberately- that is, the man was earning well above the woman but on the long run lost his income thereby becoming an accidental decision.
Most women I know always detest their husbands when they lose their incomes. The women mostly get tired of the marriage and want to elope from it. They see the men has unnecessarily burden that is not productive anymore.
My mom was always complaining about how tired she was when my dad retired and bringing in little income into the family from his pension while my mum was still at service as headmistress. If not for the olden days tradition and culture imbibed in her, she would have eloped.
My MIL same, no difference. When her hubby was earning higher, working as a doctor in Dubai in early 90’s and had a high SMV as a man then, she was enjoying the man and proud to be the wife of a well to do man. She was the envy of the average lady then in my area.
Today the man is broke and partially paralyzed and my MIL has lost interest in the marriage because the man is more of a burden to her than asset. He is a liability. If not for tradition and culture plus religion, she would have eloped.
She once said when she paid us a visit that now a days ladies are enjoying. That they can decide to pull out of a marriage if it is not meaningful unlike in the olden days when a lot of people would frown on them and the stigma was very high.
That if she is a modern woman, she won’t have married. She will just give birth and enjoy her freedom since she is a principal.
I told her too that I won’t advise a modern man too to marry because the stress, liabilities and all outweighs it’s benefits.
That if am to marry now, I won’t. I will just get a baby mama and enjoy my freedom. Travel round the world the way I like.
She was jolted up with that my statement. Said a man needs a woman in his house at all time. Moreover, I am a very selfish person.
These two women are traditional women. Religiously inclined yet still thinking this way how much more a modern liberal minded woman.

CAPSLOCKED:

YOU'VE BEEN LIED TO ALL YOUR LIFE.

YOU ARE NOT POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE. YOU JUST LACK SELF CONTROL AND DISCIPLINE.
WOMEN KNOW YOUR FLAWS AND THAT'S WHY THERE'S AN ENDLESS SHAKING OF BUTTS & BREASTS ON/OFF THE INTERNET COMBINED WITH EXCESSIVE MAKE-UP AND FILTERS ALL EMPLOYED TO GET YOUR ATTENTION.

THAT THEY DON'T DO IT FOR MEN IS THE BIGGEST LIE. OR WHY DO THEY DELETE POSTS/PICS WHEN THEY DON'T GET ENOUGH LIKES, OR FEEL DEPRESSED WHEN THEY'RE NOT GETTING ENOUGH ATTENTION AND VALIDATION FROM LOSERS?

I WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT YOU DON'T CONTROL, CONTROLS YOU.

BEING REDPILL IS NOT EXCLUSIVELY FOR "HAVING GAME" OR LAYING EVERY WOMAN IN THE COUNTRY. I'VE GONE THROUGH ALMOST 30,000 POSTS ON THIS THREAD AND MANY MEN BELIEVE THE ULTIMATE THING TO DO AS A REDPILLED MAN IS TO GET SEX FROM ALL ANGLES (ESPECIALLY WITH ZERO CASH & EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT). THAT IS A STUPID IDEA. AS A MAN YOU HAVE NO VALUE IF ALL YOU LIVE FOR AND ALL THAT CAN BE SPOTTED ON YOUR MIND AT ALL TIMES IS WOMEN AND SEX.

YOU CAN BE A SUCCESSFUL AND REFINED CAREER-FOCUSED INDIVIDUAL LIKE MARTINEZ39S WITH ZERO BODY COUNT AND I TELL YOU IT'S BETTER THAN LOSING YOUR TIME, EFFORT, ENERGY, CASH, SELF WORTH, AND EVERYTHING ELSE CHASING THESE CLOWNS.

YOU MUST TAKE COMPLETE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE AND SEXUAL URGES, OTHERWISE YOUR ENLIGHTENMENT OR "REDPILL JOURNEY" HASN'T BEGUN. YOU RENDER MANY THINGS POWERLESS ONCE YOU FIND SELF-CONTROL AS YOUR ATTENTION AND TIME IS OF UTMOST VALUE AND YOU CANNOT SUCCEED AS A PERSON IF YOU CONTINUE TO GIVE IT ALL AWAY.

CUT THAT WHATSAPP/FACEBOOK CHAT VALIDATING AND EULOGISING WORTHLESS GOOD-FOR-NO-USE GIRLS AND GET TO WORK.

CaveAdullam:

1. However, it is a false statement to say that men are not polygamous in nature! This can easily be debunked anytime or day. Quick ejaculation, short life expectancy, millions of sperm cells, body physique etc. are evidences for their polygamous mating strategy.

Humans have three mating strategy: monogamy, casual mating and polygyny. In the last two mating strategy men are of very higher propensity compared to women. That's why we see that across history, men have harems while don't.

heartofcity12:
True

DarkCaesar:
I asked Banny out 3days ago, banny curved me and prefer friendship instead….today we both met at a bank ATM, we greeted and was about to go my way when banny requested I wait for her since it was almost her turn………banny say make we head to a mini mall, banny did her grocery shopping and asked me to pay, told me the money she withdrew was for her mother. I smiled and told her Infront of the cashier that I’m not paying for none of what she bought and we both left. Saw banny message later on my WhatsApp that I should block her cos I caused her embarrassment, laugh to myself and left her on ghost mode on WhatsApp. She’d text back when her head has drawn enough oil to boot her dead brain

CaveAdullam:


Nice summation: The take home point here is that men should be sexually disciplined, make good use of time and be productive rather than lollygagging with women in every passing of the day.

1. However, it is a false statement to say that men are not polygamous in nature! This can easily be debunked anytime or day. Quick ejaculation, short life expectancy, millions of sperm cells, body physique etc. are evidences for their polygamous mating strategy.

Humans have three mating strategy: monogamy, casual mating and polygyny. In the last two mating strategy men are of very higher propensity compared to women. That's why we see that across history, men have harems while don't.

2. Even if you become extremely productive as a man you will still desire women. It is in males instinct to mate with women as they come and go. Check Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos etc. (monks, popes etc. are outliers). The most important thing which of course is the relevance of the redpill is to know how to finagle your way around women and society at large.

3. Having several women or fvcking several men comes with their pros and cons, so it is of utmost necessity that individuals know and understand the nature of the game they choose to play.

Thanks.

Reminderz:

nice. it's just funny .. why do you want to eliminate women from your life.. this thread is making it seem that women are totally useless.. you don't need them in your life.. this is very wrong. if you choose to eliminate woman from your life that's your problem don't shove it down our throats.. if women have never been useful to you that's your own cup of tea, people who women don help for this life go disagree with you, so face your own wahala alone and deal with it.

such a toxic and wack mentality. mthcchw. if I may ask is the real meaning of mgtwo or what's it called totally eliminating women from your life because me nor understand.?

Meedon:

You are confused bro. Take it easy.

Reminderz:


well .. EMI ti mo Tele... ama shari zombie Kan to ma soro soke.

leemao, let this thread pack hate put for your heart to make you overlook people that can be useful to you because of what you read online. mehn.. I wish some people were never introduced to red pill...

Meedon:


Hahaha don't look at it that way. Just think about your life and decide how to live it. Don't just take clue from other people's advice if it is gonna cause you wahala.


They are people who can do just fine without women in their life and they some that needs women to make it in life (according to you), so decide what to follow.


All humans cannot continue to do the same thing na.

CAPSLOCKED:



WELL, HISTORY HAS BEEN PROVEN WRONG TIME AFTER TIME. AND THINGS CHANGE.

CAPSLOCKED:

POLYGAMY CANNOT BE SYNONYMOUS WITH MEN "AT THIS TIME" WHEN YOU LOOK AT HOW WOMEN ARE SHOWING TO BE SEXUAL THESE DAYS.

CAPSLOCKED:

WHILE MEN CONTINUE TO BEAT THEIR CHESTS AND OWN THEIR FLAWS AS POLYGAMOUS PEOPLE, WOMEN, OUR SUPPOSED EVERLASTING SAINTS, WILL CONTINUE TO PLAY IN THE BACKGROUND AND BE MORE POLYGAMOUS THAN THE ACCLAIMED OWNERS OF POLYGAMY.

CAPSLOCKED:

SAY WHAT YOU LIKE BUT YOU HAVE TO KNOW THAT THESE DAYS THE AVERAGE POOR GIRL IS LIKELY TO HAVE MORE COUNTS THAN THE AVERAGE POOR BOY. DEMANDING TIMES FORCE MEN TO FOCUS MORE ON ACHIEVING, WHILE MANY WOMEN...... WILL JUST KEEP BEING WOMEN.

CAPSLOCKED:

YOUR WOMAN IS HIGHLY POLYGAMOUS. THIS IS WHY YOU'RE VERY LIKELY TO BECOME A VICTIM OF CHEATING/PATERNITY FRAUD IN YOUR LIFE. THE ODDS ARE NEVER IN YOUR FAVOUR, DON'T BET ON IT FOR YOU'LL LOSE.

CaveAdullam:
It is now left for you to prove to us where women has harems of men. Even the most powerful women at their time still sought the most powerful men. E.g Cleopatra, and her relationship with Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony. What about the Queens of England?

Things change, I agree, but your biology is still there.

Polygamy is polygamy bro anytime or day! Men are polygynous by nature and it has nothing to do with our sensibilities or what we've experienced or experiencing now.

Quite alright, I agree when you say polygamy is not feasible "AT THIS TIME" which is of course true because the burden that comes with polygamy doesn't worth it at all for the man, especially in this current economic and political sphere we are in.

However, whatever are our reasons, polygyny is polygyny and it is true of men.



Don't allow emotions to cloud fact and reasoning bro, scientific articles and research and other observable evidences has concluded about this long time ago. In casual mating, men are still of higher propensity than women. We are surprised about women because casual mating for women is lower than men and now become pronounced while that of men has been existing. It was there before, but that of men ensconced women, but now that things has change, men not getting sex, the casual mating of women is now observed.

Another confusing thing here again: in this present time, men are less engaged in sexual activities than women. Simple answer: Hypergamy! More than 80% of men are at the bottom of life and unattractive to women. While more than 80% of women aim for the 20% of men at the top. Despite this, women still desires one particular man that will optimise their hypergamy rather than hopping from one man to another. When it comes to sex, women are more emotional while men more physical.

As explained above.



To reiterate: humans have three mating strategy; monogamy the obvious, casual mating and polygyny.

Polyandry is not same as casual mating. Hence, no where in history do we see women having harems of men. Till date in many cultural and social spheres, many men still have more than 1 woman under their roofs in addition to their casual mating.
Women are also involved in casual mating just like men but not to the same capacity as men.

Paternity fraud is true of women but what is the percentage compared to the number of marriages and children? A man cannot be a victim of paternity fraud except he doesn't know the concept or blinded by love. When women know about this even paternity fraud that is still at the 30% level will drastically reduce. And if a woman chooses to frolic with other men, a reasonable man will know it is time to dump her. Every thing here is a matter of the head and not the heart even though on the average will are emotional.

These things are not black and white as we want it to be, they contain a whole lot of nuances, but by the time we stick to a particular narrative without considering the other side of the coin we end up holding half truth which equals lie.

Have a nice day.

Reminderz:

yes na of course.. humans nor fit do the same thing.. but whatever you choose to do, nor talk say na the best option be that.. cave sef don talk and dem don prove am say everything get advantage and disadvantage.

Meedon:


Naso the matter be. But next time no talk say, person no fit succeed if him no get woman for him side.


Life no be like that.