Davash222:
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So, because of your selfish reason of not wanting to end up single with [b] 5 children, you have to deceive, lie, manipulate, slander, disgrace, frustrate and humiliate this Innocent young man?

airminem:
Op No this is no a good one

Mummiesgirls4:


Yes because I have no other option but I also feel sad that I have to keep this secret from him

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

Iyaebe:
Don't ever tell him,don't be an obstacle to your own happiness.

Bola146:
I don't understand, how true are you making the same mistake every year? Should I believe your story? Different story then, how is it another fake story with same children? I don't understand

airminem:
Me i will NOT take the OP seriously. She/he is just catching CRUZ

Deborah98:
5 children from 5 different men or what? And you're pregnant? For him or another person. Na we dey complicate issues for ourselves. Well I don't want to pry into your private life but as it stands I don't know where to start advising you from. To the best of my knowledge you're getting married soon so it'd be nice telling your man everything about you. If he'll take you after all these explanations good,if not no loss at all. Just gather yourself and move on

Mummiesgirls4:


5 children by 3 fathers my husband to be he is the father of my unborn baby

Deborah98:
wow... Like I wrote earlier don't wanna pry into your private life but this is a whole lot for you to handle. Just take my advice. Tell him and see his reaction. Best of luck.

Mummiesgirls4:
My trad marriage is on the 27 of this month I still have had no courage to tell him about my 3 other children. I am pregnant I am scared he will leave me if he find out that I have 3 other children, I love him so much he is my everything on earth and I am scared to loose him. I don't want to end up single with 5 children. But sometime I feel sad I cry at night and I just don't know what to do because the guilt is so much.

Richy4:
Let us assume this story was true, then you should be really really afraid dear...Do unto others the way u want others to do unto you.....U are not proud of your kids which was so unfortunate...And that was one of the reasons why u were crying at night...

<<< Let us say reverse was the case, u discovered that your man has 3 kids living in the village whom you gonna be step mum to some day...He never told you about them and you discovered them by accident, how will that make u feel?

GboyegaD:
Tell him now before you create more problems, heartbreaks, and hurt to everyone involved in your life. You made a mistake agreeing to marrying him without first disclosing this.

Mummiesgirls4:


If reserve was the case I will not have no choice than to forgive and accept them because women take all the shit in marriage no divorce is allow so the society will tell me to forgive and accept them but for men it's a different story he will rather dumped me. So it is not the same thing

Richy4:


How did you get to know that he will dump you?

Mummiesgirls4:


Because when we first met when I told him about my daughter he said he had vowed to never marry a single mother but because he loves me and I only have one child that's better he will accept her so I know no matter how much he loves me if I tell him about my other 3 there's no way he will continue with the marriage.

InTheCloudySky:
Your previous thread was created a year ago (Nov. 2020). You mean you've not told him about your three other kids / that ​have a total of four kids, and you're pregnant again (this time first him)? Why have you not told him the truth?



Then why get pregnant for him? You should know by now (from your four kids) that you can't tie a man down with pregnancy. It seems you've been trying to do that and what you're attempting to do yet again.

Richy4:


OK... So you have 4 kids, you told him you got only one.. you did not declare the rest before your man... because u know that he will leave you.. in your opinion, is it safe to say that what u were doing was fraud?

Mummiesgirls4:


No it's not fraud because fraud is a crime but what I did its not a crime it has no prison sentence but I don't know the right name to call it

Richy4:


Wrongful deception is also a fraud dear... Relationship Deception.... misrepresenting what you were not...Or don't you think so?