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Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
What is with people and envy? Why do people want you to suffer like them before they can be free with you? Why would a landlady pursue every single tenant who has ever lived in her house once they start buying cars, generators , ac and plasma TVs. The landlady cannot stand a tenant doing well than them because they have none of the appliances I just mentioned. What is wrong with people? Why do people kill their friends because they are making money? Why do people have an issue with you once you start dressing rich and glowing skin? Why is envy so strong in the hearts of people? 197 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Lilsameey: 6:21pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Go and sip cold water and sleep. 45 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by psucc(m): 6:23pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
It is so strong that once you do well, EFCC, DSS, Police will come after you. The envy is inherent in Nigeria. You can't own an iPhone and drive Benz. 224 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Omuuvwie(m): 6:27pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Na bad belly people Dem bi, not only landlord or landlady, even neighbors, people in the community, once they see you are progressing, before you know it how to bring you down is what they will be looking for, they just want to see that all of you are in the same level, but anyhow they try God pass them, who God has blessed let no man envy. 135 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by samuel051: 6:30pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
That's because people only pray for you to be better but not better than them,even the prayers sef na fake..no one investigates your poverty but want to know the source of your sudden wealth when you begin to feed and dress well. Nigerians in particular hate to see their fellow comrade progress,they like it when others feed from hand to mouth so they can console themselves that they are better than the next person. Only your parents pray genuinely for you to be better than them. 236 Likes 25 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by jericco1(m): 6:34pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Humans are innately a jealous creature, they get disturbed seeing others prosper. It is well 102 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by bestbiz17: 6:35pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Classic and Genuine response. Kudos to u man. This is really the truth. I samuel051: 44 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Ahmback(m): 6:42pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Real talk! Mostly nigerians 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by stunnert(m): 6:47pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
It is called the P.H.D Syndrome ( Pull .Him .Down Syndrome) It is very common among the uneducated lower class folks ![]() ![]() ![]() 141 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Opeyemiextra(f): 6:48pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Most people are happy if you are on the same level with them and once things start to look good for you then problem starts. I think it's not because they don't want you to do well but they don't want to be in unpleasant situations alone. You know like they say, 'misery loves company'. 125 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Deborah98(f): 7:11pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Exactly what gets me scared each time I remember that one day my condition will improve or be in a better position boom you start attracting enemies just like that, and if care isn't taken you might be a goner without enjoying one tenth of your wealth. Uwa di egwu ![]() 50 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by obonujoker(m): 7:24pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
The day I park my Honda CRv in the front of my house... Lol... But God of chosen is so great 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by ajademola2000(m): 7:58pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Evil people, they hate to see you enjoy like you are the cause of their poverty 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Divoc19(f): 8:01pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
We are all born with the tendency of hatred for one another. Lucky people got their own managed from childhood while those that grow with theirs are the ones tormenting the world at large today. 81 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Truvelisback(m): 8:48pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
It is better for people to envy u than for them to pity u. 138 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Lilsameey: You’re obviously one of them bitter losers who will never succeed in life because you envy everyone. Dirty fvcker 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by AlphaMale666: 9:08pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Mumu post! Next! Even Jesus was good to everyone, still look how he died. ![]() ![]() 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Love the response guys, keep it coming. You people are really advising others here, you’re saving people who might have shown their progress to evil eyes 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
AlphaMale666: You know you can make your point without insulting the intelligence of the op right? 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Lilsameey: 9:11pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Prettydevil:,..Spoiler alert, am young and successful already ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
When I was looking tattered I swear everyone acted like they loved me, while saying “ndooooooo” to me every second. Once I started wearing designers and entering cab while buying bulk fast food takeaways then the hate started, every single day my landlady would have a problem with my front yard, my backyard, my rope, my chair , just with anything I do. Same woman who has never quarrel with me when I was looking like who was about to die of hunger. She couldn’t take the generator I bought so much so this woman said I should park out. I swear till I die I cannot ever believe anybody loves me again except for just my mother 82 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Lilsameey: Oga rest abeg, u win. I no like social media fight, let’s just make our point without the fights biko 29 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
If you are young and doing well please I’m begging you, resist the urge to show off. Just hide yourself, 99 percent of people you meet everyday want you to lose everything and even die if possible. Stop showing yourself to people who wished you even died 131 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Lilsameey: 9:16pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Prettydevil:Ehn, Nah you find trouble nah, I was advicing the Op to take cold water and sleep so he/she can care less about others and you just come attack me. Anyways Sha, All nah cruise ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Lilsameey: 9:20pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Prettydevil:That's life, We are alone, Helpless if you can't help yourself. I prefer strangers now than close friends. Have seen and experienced worst at this my young age. We are alone. ![]() 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Youngpo413: 9:30pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Inside life. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by pansophist(m): 9:32pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
When one is poor, no one will ask him the source of his poverty, but as soon as the son of man sees small cash, everyone begins asking the source of his wealth. ![]() 56 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Fiscus105(m): 9:41pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Prettydevil: Unfortunately it's fucking real, out of 10 people around u, less than 3 really want you to succeed, African full of evil and envious people. 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by samuel051: 10:08pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Holy gram In about 80% of every Nigerian homes, even your blood brothers doesn't want you to be better than them and will pretend over it and secretly compete with you for years. If u buy land,they buy with more acres than yours,you build 3 bedrooms,they build 5 bedrooms and still secretly come to you for help and even push you into debt while they abandon you to your fate, then how do you expect outsiders to be happy with your progress..wetin dey chop kolanut dey inside the kolanut before e chop am come outside. Wtf man... 62 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by Captainjack100: 10:24pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Y'all just motivating me seriously. What I do noticed is that some People tends to envy deeply (when I say deeply. Like too much. Leading to hatred or something bad. You can just pray to be better than you where and even if you envy a little). I like this topic to be honest. I will like people to say their experience. Have seen alot inside life. I just taya Your immediate family might want the best for you. Mostly not all. Extended is left out (some might though. Depending on the relationship). Been there. Lalastica. Seun abeg make una move this amazing topic to frontpage 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by SmartPolician: 10:38pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
Deborah98: You should not let that bother you. Make the money first. You will relocate, afterwards. Rich people and poor people don't live together for a reason. Rich people rarely make friends and marry poor people for a reason. They don't even think alike. 81 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why Do People Have A Problem With You Once You Start Living Good? by posty56: 10:41pm On Nov 12, 2021 |
jericco1:it's not humans, Nigerians are evil and wicked , I can't wait to japa abeg, imagine me wey broke then pastor they tell me say neighbor they envy me, haba!! waiting u dey envy!!! make I die ![]() 24 Likes 3 Shares |
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