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Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Lush100(m): 8:31am On Nov 13, 2021 |
olaniyiYAH:. Very apt sir, What she did. Disrespect her husband Allowed pride to enter her life. Complain and nag rather than use your power of being a wonderful loving woman to make ur husband to give u what u want. Must have threatened the man with divorce, cos no man will usually initiate it. With this attitude, no man will tolerate this so looking for another man will lead to same problem 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by kazyhm(m): 8:32am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Acidosis: Whoever brainwashed female that they can have it all, at the same times and at all times is the issue. The selfishness of female is on a different level in this generation......the older generation are more contentment and wiser. they know which is better deal between sticking to family or career and being mischievous. It a fact that life is a crazy ride and tricky.....the most interesting part of life is; at old age, thats when the area you failed becomes obvious.......and no one would be without regret at that stage........the only consolation is in the area you performed best along the journey. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Tayorshd2(m): 8:32am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Klass99: Awesomely said i give you a thumbs up for this 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Kissgrafix1(m): 8:33am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Ebonygeek: Quora |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by eddynaira125: 8:34am On Nov 13, 2021 |
God go bless you sir, u read and think deep holocron: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by eddynaira125: 8:37am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Hathor5: When nagging is involved what do u expect? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Hathor5(f): 8:38am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Amumaigwe: I know you like telling yourselves that ladies would rather be in a bad marriage than divorced. Keep it up if it makes you sleep better at night. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by eddynaira125: 8:39am On Nov 13, 2021 |
obembet: |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Hathor5(f): 8:39am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Proflere: In other words, you are using her. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by eddynaira125: 8:39am On Nov 13, 2021 |
obembet: Better look for a sperm donor |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Astrid4(m): 8:40am On Nov 13, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Let's keep emotions out of these...let be logical This is logical problem, creation of empathy and unnecessary emotional tantrum won't solve this. This is a one sided story she never gave us the reason why her husband chased her out of the house she blamed her husband for her misfortune there is never a place in this article where her husband told her not to work...she has a degree she could go to the street and get a job. What this woman need is a JOB not a MAN this would even upgrade her SMV and even find a better husband. What I don't understand is should we give her a Grammy award for taking care of her own kids and husband...in what has she appreciated her husband who has been through thin and thick to ensure financial security in his home... Aunty it not easy to make money this woman could even keep a 4 month job yet complaining she is not appreciated for her role is Bullock and absolutely rubbish Equal responsibility=Equal task I can be bringing the whole money for the sustenance of the family and you're gonna tell me to assist you in home chores...then for fvck sake what you're gonna do. This is a Lamentation of an irresponsible woman and if this is a story of most Africa woman including obembet mother then no apologetic feeling that most Africa women are irresponsible. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by eddynaira125: 8:42am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Charity4real: God blessings is upon you 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Pyhonist: 8:45am On Nov 13, 2021 |
The only problem I see here is that you married the wrong person. I would never tell my wife to watch clothes when I can afford washing machine. As matter of fact I'm married and my wife has unrestricted access to me ATM and banks apps while I also check her excesses. Married for 8 years with ups and downs... This could have been worse if I were alone. Now change the topic to.........But Not During The Wrong Marriage. |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Heavance(m): 8:46am On Nov 13, 2021 |
The topic is a million dollar question. I still don't understand why women don't attend to the problem before it becomes an emergency. |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Lush100(m): 8:50am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Wisdom has ur tongue. She never admit wrong Disrespect the husband by not washing his clothes. Probably disrespected him with sex Nag and complain She is not seeing that a mother role over her children is a blessing. Grandmeister: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by tundeTAO(m): 8:53am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Please I need urgent help. You may be the one God will use to save my life, please read my thread. My Thread Link: https://www.nairaland.com/6847602/car-accident-rendered-me-useless |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by SarutobiEky(m): 8:54am On Nov 13, 2021 |
na Quora she go copy this thing from o. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Czario: 8:54am On Nov 13, 2021 |
You should all just answer your father's name and be happy. Enough about this marriage thing. |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Grandmeister(m): 8:58am On Nov 13, 2021 |
SarutobiEky:Even if she copied it from quora or reddit, shyt like this dey happen for marriages today in Nigeria. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by ogomilekan: 8:59am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Klass99(f): 9:02am On Nov 13, 2021 |
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Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by RoyalBoutique(m): 9:06am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Hathor5: That's what this post said. He just told you the real reason why the husband kicked her out. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Heavance(m): 9:11am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Klass99:How many ladies can you explain this to? Have you seen ladies months before wedding? They don't think about what family could distract them from, they are so focused on how the pictures they will take and post should/would look like, they want to "pepper" social media as they see it, (Dem no know say na for just people to post their pictures and move on). Some careers die the year they get married, they think life is a movie (mostly for Naija here) they don't know the disadvantage that comes afterward when the children start coming, as they won't be able to take care of the home and the attention their job may demand if they don't have a caring husband that wants them to grow in their career. I can go on and on and on, that's why I am not excited about weddings here in Nigeria (aside make I chop semo and better soup). I really don't understand how some ladies forget their career once they are married, many forget to remain as attractive as they begin to add unnecessary weight. Like it is baffling, why then did they waste money going to school? Getting married is not an achievement, we need to ring this thing in their heads, as divorce is getting higher yearly, meaning any home can hit the rock anytime if the smallest matter is not attended to. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by akposking(m): 9:18am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Toothcopy: How much for the 64gb flash filled to the brim with HD movies and mostly recent since I have bought something like this sometime in 2013. |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by shaybebaby(f): 9:18am On Nov 13, 2021 |
eddynaira125:Why? There are plenty of men out there ready to abide those rules. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by AfroKnight: 9:21am On Nov 13, 2021 |
crackhaus: It is interesting how women on this thread have carefully avoided this comment. They realise this would probably throw a spanner in the works and derail their agenda. When a woman comes with a sob story, I watch out for what is omitted. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by sharpwriter(m): 9:27am On Nov 13, 2021 |
pocohantas:Chop kiss , you know why I like you 'sometimes' You are not biased Don't mind the quoted word |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by olaniyilukman(m): 9:29am On Nov 13, 2021 |
holocron:Good of you boss, she is trying to paint herself in good light 1 Like |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by Nobody: 9:30am On Nov 13, 2021 |
I need to hear from the other side. |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by budusky05(m): 9:32am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Madam leave that thing abeg, your gender know how to confuse a man more especially when it comes to marriage. You just shared your part of the story let's wait and hear the man's part. Since Adam women have always sought for freedom from men. But u see them do everything to get a man and one's its done next you see them rushing out. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do People Improve Themselves After A Divorce But Not During The Marriage? by eddynaira125: 9:33am On Nov 13, 2021 |
shaybebaby:. When you are about to get something you will abide, but after getting it you will see the other side of those plenty men |
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