Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

Since her husband is having trust issues, the wife should listen to her husband now let her block him, her husband might use that to be chatting with his ex too

That Michael is not a friend at all..

Na this kind people to flog 2by2 go good..

Even ur DayOne today fit turn out to be a potencial Rival 2moro, all man use ur headpan oh...
Devilish bestfrewd in disguise

Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

Ok

how insecure could your bro be? Tell him to grow some balls and confront her if he cant stand it.

Your bro told you, and you came here seeking advice on his behalf. Interedting!.

Well, i wont blame him, owning to the reality of Okafor's law and the congo dynamo!.

Bola146:
Since her husband is having trust issues, the wife should listen to her husband now let her block him, her husband might use that to be chatting with his ex too

Shey na only me no understand this comment ni..?

6ixT8:
how insecure could your bro be? Tell him to grow some balls and confront her if he cant stand it.

Your bro told you, and you came here seeking advice on his behalf. Interedting!.

Well, i wont blame him, owning to the reality of Okafor's law and the congo dynamo!.

Mtchewww
Children don full this forum...

Daveambition:

Mtchewww
Children don full this forum...

like seriously bruh. How then is insecurity describe?

Your bro should have instantly tackled the issue before it brought it to your notice...

Damnnn niggarrrr
Grab my weed to read comments

Because I don't do relationship
......so ain't got no ex

Your brother’s wife should block Micheal ASAP.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Grab my weed to read comments

Because I don't do relationship
......so ain't got no ex

pls put on ur intellectual cap and give an advice

OP all I can say is that Okafor's law can easily be activated, your bro should make his insecurities known to wifey... As for me, I can't and won't let my wife and her ex be friends, because there can never be a platonic relationship between a woman and her ex... Sooner or later there'll be penetration, make your bros no kill person or kill himself or worse murder suicide.

Your brother's wife has zero respect for him. Period.

Marry virgin .. I no see
Ok make I marry better second hand ... e no dey.


Wahala dey ooh

Las las na my mama village I go visit for like 3 months fine one yellow babe.

That Michael is not a friend at all..Na this kind people to flog 2by2 go good... Um, need help with your assignment, project, thesis, or dissertation?

Your brother needs to draw the boundaries for his wife

Abeg carry all this useless fabricated shit Comot for here joor.Ori Iwo ati brother yen ti daru

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

Ur brother wife no get sense. Why did she show ur brother the chat knowing that it could cause a big problem? She should have ignore the chat. I hope ur brother's wife is not up to something? If care is not take it might lead to.........Make i no talk first.

Awwww babes...i go come una side tomorrow mk we talk

HERSLEY:
Awwww babes...i go come una side tomorrow mk we talk

No p. I ll keep better 4u

Simps everywhere.

Better not start what will never end well.....already that communication is a cancer to the young marriage...remember that a pussy well forked can always be reforked.

Okay

Ur bro is not yet ready for marriage. Soon his hrt will get broken

She only showed him the chat she wants him to see.. how about the cleared chat?

If your brother wants to see the real chat, he should go through his friend "Micheal" phone. Atleast that wan no go reason to clear chat

Moreover, since he can't tell his wife to stop chatting with his so called friend and damn the consequences then it means she paid his groom price and not the other way round

I no dey marry. Hooohaaa.... Life is too sweet for this kind of stress

Some people go just carry wahala bring for their head...

Mtttttcheeeeewww...

If the reason you're communicating with your ex is not for business purposes ALONE, then stop it!!!! What's the point of the communication?? If your ex was good enough, then why didnt you guys end up together?!!!!!!

Wait o...
So like this now, my wife to be will be communicating with a guy that used to mess her in the past, even while we're married?? God forbid!

Not a big deal. I learnt on nairaland that men and women can be platonic friends, even if they engaged in sexüal relations before. It shows maturity. Tell your brother to have no fear, it's just old friends catching up on old times

gasparpisciotta:
Your brother’s wife should block Micheal ASAP.

This is extreme. I think you're overreacting

It's a very bad one.

If not stop now, she will soon get carried away and will start locking her phone