walexsho:
When dem dey preach say abstain from premarital sex you call them old skull and uncivilised. Here comes the result of your past.
Be sure he won't later find out if you decide to keep mute.
If he later find out himself hope the tie of brotherhood won't end.
Hope you won't visit them forever after the wedding cos there is no way both of you won't flash back to the past Knacking... Devil dey powerful ooo

Remember!!! Nothing is hidden under the Sun
Also Remember! Nothing is found except it's a secrete, Nothing is hidden except it's a treasure.

nothing is hidden under sun. But its hidden from the brother case closed.
How does the brother want to discover when its bt the lady and the brother in law.
Mind you, in the world today many secret as been left undisclosed.
If he tells the brother and they still get married the will cause bigger problem and the family won't be free with each other

Amotolongbo:
Is that what you could derive from what I said?

Did the lady know the other brother when they were dating initially?

It is hard explaining things to empty skulls

you said. You wouldn't mind even if you knew

It's funny how people twist the bible

Omo your time done pass let your brother enjoy her

aysnoopy:


If you can follow this my advice.
Try to connect with d lady, arrange a benefit session with her again since she's not aware she's dating Ur bro.
If u both fvck again, den just know she's a olosho.
But if she proves repented, den she might have change her ways.
Try hook up with her again

What if she didn't fall and then finds out that her fiancee is the brother to her ex, don't you think she will want to tell her fian what the ex did (the test) just to bring back blood btw the two brothers, so as to conceal what happened in the past.
Remember Potiphar's Wife and Joseph, similar thing fit happen o, Op should Jes be careful, he save himself the stress by telling his brother, it his left for him, whether to continue with the marriage plans or not, but he has to know.

Bola146:


Sure I'll marry the man if he is the type of man I wanted. What would be would be

Forget all this explanation...
Just answer yes or no!
1. Yes or no
2. Yes or no

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Oga go tell em oo...this is marriage. Talk joor

ume1000:
you said. You wouldn't mind even if you knew

It's funny how people twist the bible

I dated A
I am dating B
A and B are relatives

Does that mean I am dating A and B together?

Can you please borrow a brain from any breathing thing around you, even if it is a “tambolo” (mosquito lava)?

tollyboy5:

Omo wahala 4 who dey reason unnecessary things.
Na d lady go lose last last.
If he tell his brother and they got married.
Bitterness might come in.
Having knowing his brother was his wife ex.
Some secret are meant to be taking to the grave.
Your wahala too much

The decision is his to make. Blood is more important for me.

Favfables1:


Forget all this explanation...
Just answer yes or no!
1. Yes or no
2. Yes or no

All yes!

Bola146:


Exactly how your mother gave birth to you hypocrite!

You see why women is the problem of themselves, instead of replying me you went and referred to my mother. See how useless you're

taiwotimitt:


Normal thing, it will pain me but life goes on...

I tell you the truth, believe it or not , you wont marry such a girl

Qatar2022:

You see why women is the problem of themselves, instead of replying me you went and referred to my mother. See how useless you're

Insanity is really affecting your brains, get help

Better tell your brother now before its too late

no be crime na normal life events

they crossed path without your awareness so its off you

Tell your nigga now and let him decided but still doesn't stop their wedding though

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Amotolongbo:
I dated A
I am dating B
A and B are relatives

Does that mean I am dating A and B together?

Can you please borrow a brain from any breathing thing around you, even if it is a “tambolo” (mosquito lava)?

common sense suggest you should not date B especially if A has slept with you

Abi you be home wrecker

Do all vagarian reason like u because if that's the case the world is in peril

ume1000:
common sense suggest you should not date B especially if A has slept with you

Abi you be home wrecker

Do all vagarian reason like u because if that's the case the world is in peril

As if this simpleton understands what common sense is about.

Go back to the content written by the OP or You can continue playing with your sand

Bola146:


Exactly.. if they have done introduction, yet she didn't requested for all his siblings pictures and he never showed her their pictures, what if she is pregnant? Think twice

So you have based your advice on what ifs and conditions that you are not even sure of? That's doesn't even make sense. Again I ask, so this is the same advice you will give anybody who comes to you with this same story? Without being sure of the full story or knowing other possibilities? That's dumb to be honest. And a lot of you on Nairaland do this a lot. You all seem wise but are really otherwise.

Tell him ooo

Don't mind this people


Because, in the future he will find out

DominusPrime:


So you have based your advice on what ifs and conditions that you are not even sure of? That's doesn't even make sense. Again I ask, so this is the same advice you will give anybody who comes to you with this same story? Without being sure of the full story or knowing other possibilities? That's dumb to be honest. And a lot of you on Nairaland do this a lot. You all seem wise but are really otherwise.

Exactly how dumber you are. A lots of hypocrites like you full here Less brain

Romanoff:
You see this cycle of fornication, e go reach all of us las las.

The person you're using as side chic or friends with benefits, na your brother or cousin or best friend go marry am.

The person that is your sugar daddy, side nigga or friends with benefits, na that old man fit be your future DIL, that side nigga fit marry your sister or that friends with benefits fit be your best friend hubby.

Until we shun fornication, na so all of us go dey recycle nonsense.

Blame always go to the males


What of the female?

Dem force am

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

This is Super Story

Bola146:


Exactly how dumber you are. A lots of hypocrites like you full here Less brain

That's the response they give when they can't think of an intelligent answer to a simple question or when their reasoning has been shown to lack common sense. Anyway I just wanted be sure you didnt have enough brains to hold an intelligent discussion but now I see you want to drag me down to the level of exchanging curses. Not today sweetheart...

Don't reflect on the past by telling the person. Just act matured though you don't know who you are ending up with.

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Bola146:


Insanity is really affecting your brains, get help

Hahahaha imagine where a mad woman is calling someone mad . I pity who will keep useless person like at home as a wife

Amotolongbo:
As if this simpleton understands what common sense is about.

Go back to the content written by the OP or You can continue playing with your sand

you are a
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tollyboy5:

nothing is hidden under sun. But its hidden from the brother case closed.
How does the brother want to discover when its bt the lady and the brother in law.
Mind you, in the world today many secret as been left undisclosed.
If he tells the brother and they still get married the will cause bigger problem and the family won't be free with each other

Disclosing it here alone already made it an opened secrete.... there are ways one can track him with his post.

Qatar2022:

Hahahaha imagine where a mad woman is calling someone mad . I pity who will keep useless person like at home as a wife

As them at home, tell them you need brain reset

Bola146:


As them at home, tell them you need brain reset

u did girl, y u lyk quarrel like this

Imagine the brother on this group giving his own take in this matter

ume1000:
you are a
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Same with your mother and sisters

Tell your brother. Let him decide if he wants to go ahead with her or not.

But you must tell him.

Tell him everything. Don't sugarcoat it.

If they part ways, they will meet others.