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Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 4:53pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Another feminist publication to absolve women of marital obligations. Marriage is responsibility and I know responsibility and accountability to a woman is cryptonite. Women, there are days you don't feel like working but you drag yourself to work because you have an obligation. The same is with marriage. Now, let's flip it - you want your husband to understand your sexual mood and will only have sex with him when you're in the heat of it. This is EXTREMELY selfish and inconsiderate in light of the fact that a man's sexual need is 4 -12 times higher than a woman's. While it is understandable that a woman's libido is lower, consideration must be established that a man's libido is higher. If he is to express such understanding to only have sex with a woman when she wants it. Then such understanding should be extended to the man that he can have sex when he wants, but probably not with the wife. Aha! The feminist movement will scream "I don't want a cheater". "I WILL DIVORCE HIM". Can these women see the irony, the selfishness, and despicable silliness. You cannot take care of your husband's sexual needs - agreed. Then let him take care of it. Stop pressuring men to become women. We are not women. Men, if your wife is refusing to fulfill her part of her marital obligation and this includes satisfying you sexually, divorce her. If you do try to go get it outside, she will divorce you or be irritated by your mere presence. Such women are not ready for marriage. Let them remain single and die alone. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by DeRay98(m): 4:55pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Tickles001 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Sex is an obligation both parties must be willing to engage in. A spouse can reconsider and pause things if the other half is sick or stressed out. You have no right whatsoever to starve your partner of sex without any valid reason. Sex should be something couples look forward to having but most times they see it (especially the women) as "oga should just do and come down). You guys should spice things up. No matter how long you guys have been married, your partner should still yearn and even race down from work to samakwe with you. Personally, as long as I and my partner spice up our sex life regularly, I 'd look forward to it every time except when things are not so alright. 9 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by wunmi590(m): 4:57pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Klass99: Well said 4 Likes
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Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Csami(m): 4:57pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Klass99: Wife material 100 yards! I'll love someone like you if I wasn't selfish 4 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Walkee: 4:57pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tobechi20:the exact reason all men should marry at least 3 wives. It has always worked until some Caucasian simps said it wasn't good 9 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by nurain150(m): 4:58pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Maryjane001: if you say this, no body owes anybody financial obligation 6 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
DriverX: Have you also found what you are looking for ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Maryjane001: I understand your writeup, but just want to highlight the contradiction. The word "Obligation" which you include mean - the act or course of action, or commitment an individual is morally or legally bound to do. To translate - it means something an individual MUST do. So when you say nobody owes each other sex and it is an obligation both parties must engage in - that's the contradiction. 10 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by justli: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
If you want to be a feminist and keep with the "men are scum" narrative, by all means refrain from getting married. "Marital duty" is a thing and an obligation for that matter. If your husband irritates and turn you off, my dear that's your personal problem find a way out because the poor man deserves sexual satisfaction. I like to see how youd feel if you're on the side of the conversation and you husband rejects you everyday, months on end because, in his excuse , he is not in the mood. Some of you have carried this western lifestyle too far, and the thing you don't realise is that this westerners, themselves have lost it and are struggling to find their identity. The words of the bible is a compass that holds through regardless of civilization. Use it as your guide. 13 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Prenonjebose: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
A husband should not force his wife into having sex with him. A wife should not bring up issue of not in the mood every time inorder to score cheap matrimonial points or "teach him a lesson". 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by jornwhite: 5:01pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Tickles001: considering what i had in mind, bro you served it better. 3 gbosa for you 3 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by UncleJudax(m): 5:03pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
budaatum:this na for poor people or husbands wey de craze. When women many for outside. 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by tujays(m): 5:04pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
I see sex as a game played between 2 couples, as a man it's a turn off for me to ask for sex, it comes naturally with any woman I am with coz I play games to get laid. sometimes I wonder how rapist are able to rape a woman without her consent. I cant get any aroused if a woman doesn't want me to penetrate her. If I want her, I just be romantically engaged with her and boom she gets hornyy and need a dlck. when she's not in the mood I automatically get turned off too. sometimes she might be hornyy and I play my self not to get hornyy. by then she will be needing me badly then after some few days I give it to her hot hot. why would you ask or beg for sex?? it's a big turn off... ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by descartes400: 5:04pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Tickles001: Well said and I salute you! 3 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by temitimx19(m): 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
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Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Boss13: 5:05pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
justli: Oh they are pushing the boundary and they will continue to push it. I live in the west and one major concern is liberal and progressive propaganda which have created weaker men and women despise weak men. As you can see feminist are pushing for agenda that give rise to produce weak men they hate and won't elope with. Yet you see suckered men agreeing to confused propaganda that generates chaos. A wife or traditional woman would not agreed to the nonsense publication because she understands men better and knows what marital obligations means. She also understands the risk of not fulfilling them because another traditional woman will occupying her space without a blink of an eye. Currently in the west, the most single women are the ones with feminist ideology. These women who grow up and regret their past can't keep men. Also western men are no longer queuing up to marry western women. Let the silly Nigerian feminist pursue their agenda - the end game is there waiting.... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Edavi234: 5:06pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Tickles001: Sense no go kill you.. You are smart and mature.. The so-called OP is a child and needs to relearn life from scratch.. You don't generalise all women with the so-called points he is trying to drive at.. the situation differ from one woman to another.. Some desire sex even more when pregnant and with kids and some don't and some are still in between these scenarios.. When you follow your pregnant wife to antenatal, you'll find out that the matrons (women) will advise her to have more sex with her husband- which they say is good and very health for both mother and child.. 7 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by McLizbae: 5:06pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Husband and wife should go love themselves truly first jare! If there is true love (which is actually very rare now) anywhere in that relationship, s/he doesn't need to tell you s/he is in mood or not, you will simply look at each and know if the mood is right or wrong, and if the mood is right, everything is mutually fired up, otherwise everybody is cold! 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Tonnyray: 5:08pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
The answer is easier than you can imagine: polygamy.. oh but your selfish self won't allow that. And the whiteman says it's wrong. Clowns. I suppose you believe the man is not entitled to provide for and protect his home only when he "feels" like it. The most important things in life are not always done because we "feel" like it, they are done because they are essential to achieve a desired outcome. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Edavi234: 5:09pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
budaatum: Like your dad and brother right? 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by jornwhite: 5:09pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
bukatyne: LOLzz ! All in the name of, i am educated/woke ... anybody can now propound life theories ... smh You're doing fine 1 Like |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Lovelyperson(m): 5:10pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Coming from a lady... i was force to say this..... God bless you and give you good home. bukatyne: 4 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by budaatum: 5:10pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Susily: So please go ahead and rape your wife in Nigeria, but I'd strongly advise you get yourself a food taster if you expect her to continue cooking your meals because sniper is very cheap in Nigeria and is easily disguised in food. 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by miracleedwards: 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Nice writeup I guess, while I agree that sex is and should be consenting, but it must be balance also that spouse shouldn't defraud themselves of this ingredient of being married. Also if the woman feel she can not meet up her partner sexual desires, drive and demands as the OP has mention "it wasn't in the document signed" please let the husband have more wives that can meet his sexual demands after all there is no prohibition in getting more wives to meet his desires so long he can cope also with the responsibilities that comes with it. 7 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Edavi234: 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
DriverX: Everybody should stay there lane.. Stay your lane make others stay there lane.. Let the government do there job.. As for sex, that one nah constant till the day of Christ 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by KayCee92(m): 5:12pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Lol, wahala everywhere ![]() ![]() |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by budaatum: 5:13pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Edavi234: Don't you think I'd clean my own home first before bothering about cleaning your's. Thankfully, I didn't need to bother about cleaning mine since my father was a decent respecting man who brought his son and daughter up in his own image. I got the below from him.
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Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by efficiencie(m): 5:14pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
tobechi20: The woman owes the man nothing and the man owes the woman nothing...so everyone should be allowed to do whatever they like irrespective of who gets offended! 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by buzorcharles(m): 5:15pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Tickles001: May my God continue to bless u with more wisdom. U just bared my mind. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by Angrymode: 5:16pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
OP, are you saying sex should only happen when a woman wants it? What is this world turning into these days? Must everything go the way of women? Allow men to marry multiple wives so that when you are not in the mood perhaps another might be - NO. I'm not saying men shouldn't be considerate to women's feelings and mood but women should also be considerate to the needs of their men. Another solution to this problem is for women to accept sidechicks for their men who are willing to always help satisfy their men whenever they want. 9 Likes |
Re: Do Wives Owe Their Husband Sex ? by muheeb01(m): 5:16pm On Nov 14, 2021 |
Definitely they do,it's inside qur'an and bible abi no be so? |
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