Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Congratulations, Op.

If you allow her to abort the baby, you will regret it for almost all your life. And please, don't marry her because she is pregnant for you. Marry her if you believe she has what you want in a woman, irrespective of her tribe.

Marry her whichever way ASAP.

NB: We need invite for wedding and naming ceremony.

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo

Cc: lalasticlala . Pls bro help me push it to front page

congrats

First of all, irrespective of what people will say, marry her and make sure you do the needful, both traditional welding and church welding, go to registery. If you do that, later in the company, people will really Respec you both.... The management will support you guys.... But if you just leave her... The lady will never be happy with you and if you are sure you are the owner, you will regret it.... Many better opportunities ahead of you both.... Ire oo!

Dont marry her bro
Don't marry her

From the kind of news we see here on nairaland every day on paternity fraud, I've come to the conclusion that, in this generation, a child has no father until he is born and DNA test done


What if the child is your boss' or another colleague's. Oh, you think you are the only one enjoying the cookies? Let me tell you now, kpekus is an accommodating bottomless pit. E no dey discriminate.


Wait and do DNA. You'd be surprised when the child is born, he will look like the security guy




Office romance gone sour

Congratulations.

.....Make Una dey take am easy dey fabricate all these lies biko nu.

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Make Una dey take am easy dey fabricate all these lies biko nu.

It's no lies. Its true

Where una dey see this work abeg .500k and above @28yrs. ....hmm possible LOCAL CONTENT, NLNG, EXXON MOBIL, SHELL, CHEVRON ...etc

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo

Cc: lalasticlala . Pls bro help me push it to front page

This is a nice story man..I am happy it ain't real..

Rydermaverick:

This is a nice story man..I am happy it ain't real..

Do u think I'm that jobless to sit down and coin a false story for likes pls if u cant advice...kindly ignore

AmericanDad:


Do u think I'm that jobless to sit down and coin a false story for likes pls if u cant advice...kindly ignore

My advice is no need to do any wedding..let her just give birth and enjoy..

Rydermaverick:

My advice is no need to do any wedding..let her give just give birth and enjoy..

Give birth out of wedlock? That wont sit well with her family

AmericanDad:


Give birth out of wedlock? That wont sit well with her family

Seriously does it matter man?
You guys love each other that's what matters..

Rydermaverick:

Seriously does it matter man?
You guys love each other that's what matters..

She doesn't want to be a baby mama

AmericanDad:


She doesn't want to be a baby mama

Ok then you can go for the wedding but you would have to wait if possible so she can have the baby..

Grabs popcorn

Una dey fvck out of wedlock but una no wor give birth out of wedlock?

Well, op, honestly,you no suppose to dey reason this thing as a big wahala, considering the kind of person wey you be.... Unless you're just considering una tribal differences and what your other colleagues at work go talk

Well, nothing too concern me cha.......Na who go wish me happy birthday today with better credit alert I dey look for right now

You're the only son and 33 without being married and you're from Anambra?

I find this difficult to believe especially with the the idea that you earn well.

If you don't get my point, forget it no need explaining

michlins:
You're the only son and 33 without being married and you're from Anambra?

I find this difficult to believe especially with the the idea that you earn well.

If you don't get my point, forget it no need explaining

It's TRUE man....I was working in the bank before I landed this job last year

Why do most Igbo people have this issue with getting married to non igbos


You shagged her you didn't think about her origins...



Na wa o

Alaye you better do dna

MODIFIED: If you love her and she shares same values and ides with you, why not? Marry her.
But e sure me sae there are other Dicksons banging that pussay

You guys were just fvck mates

So you wan marry your fvck mate
You better grow up some sense bro
Let her birth the child

Wooo E go be sef, when you were banging the pussay I wasn't there

revived:
Alaye you better do dna

Nah its mine cos I was with her when her period finished...and we had sex when she was off the next day

Hmm

Chai, but why op?

Tales by moonlight


Supastori

Lol

Congrats! You have enough time to start preparing. Don't forget to be topping up the baby every now and then by nacking the mama wella, every opportunity you get at the office.

What help do you need? I really don't understand how people have unprotected sex and later cry for help when the lady gets pregnant. What were you expecting? Bros, wife that woman ASAP.

Btw, why do people worry themselves about what others will say? You be pikin??