Rydermaverick:

This is a nice story man..I am happy it ain't real..

Fiction at its elementary form. Tales by moonlight.

ComeToJesus:


Fiction at its elementary form. Tales by moonlight.

Me sef no dey sure again...

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Abeg connect me to that job, as for the post ur plans makes sense

In a well structured organization, both of you ought to have been given your sack letter.

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

If you like her marry her na, afterall your children will bear your name.
Why is it important to marry a igbo girl, if you are a woman I might understand about some traditions in some family but in this case you are bringing the woman into your family

And she is even making as well as you, your home is already blessed. Do marriage quick quick before somebody snatch her away

Areola14:
First of all, irrespective of what people will say, marry her and make sure you do the needful, both traditional welding and church welding, go to registery. If you do that, later in the company, people will really Respec you both.... The management will support you guys.... But if you just leave her... The lady will never be happy with you and if you are sure you are the owner, you will regret it.... Many better opportunities ahead of you both.... Ire oo!

u are assuming that the company will allow them to marry and both of them continue working. In mine, no way. One has to resign before they marry or both will be sacked after the marriage.

Since you are an 'American Dad', marry her and take her to America...

Do you require our help when knacking her

Congrats Papa Omomo. More power to your John Thomas.

Omo oba

Omo hungry dy oo

potent5:
Congratulations, Op.

If you allow her to abort the baby, you will regret it for almost all your life. And please, don't marry her because she is pregnant for you. Marry her if you believe she has what you want in a woman, irrespective of her tribe.

Well said
Well done

Congratulations American Baba Ibéji!

Abeg send me invite oo!
my tank is low!

casppyjay:
pure lies why not show us screenshots of the pregnancy convo with ur bedmate cum colleague and by the way I couldn’t overlook ur ignorance and illiteracy about u been able to father a woman who wasn’t ovulating..

Rubbish!!!! Lol ignoramus I was with her when period finished and we had sex the next day she was off .. dunce award of the century..

Stop chatting trash. I didnt say I had sex only once with her after her period...we had sex constantly after that

Offpoint1:

First of all, does your company policy allows intimate relationship within her staff? If it doesn't, then both of you should ready to face disciplinary panel or worse SACK.

If the above is settled, both of you should info your families-either they allow marriage or not, take full responsibilities of your child.

F and Damn the public...

Sack ke? It's a Government agency...there is relative job security

Zenithpeak:
@op is a bloody lowlife going about fabricating lies all over the internet clout chasing....

Ignore the FUL jor!

Lol so u feel in can just sit down and type a fairytale? Lol Nairaland are just filled with kids

After the baby is born...do white wedding?? What donyou call traditional wedding that you did A sort of african ritual or something...so if you never go church you don't see yourself as married..... You need to upgrade your thinking faculty.... The OS is outdated

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

Mmm wia una dey see all these well-Paid jobs abeg make una connect me nah

Ofadaman:
Your parent won't be the one to leave inside your marriage ,take their advice but you know her better than them so decide and tribe religion or ethnicity shouldn't be core reason to not marry someone you felt okay to have intercourse with.
So go with traditional wedding, forget about what your colleagues would think and do your think.

Next time, if you must have sex, and not ready for pregnancy why cum inside or not use a protection ,what were you expecting

I didn't cum inside. I came out. Dunno what happend

Will you keep quiet,








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Dont marry her bro
Don't marry her

From the kind of news we see here on nairaland every day on paternity fraud, I've come to the conclusion that, in this generation, a child has no father until he is born and DNA test done


What if the child is your boss' or another colleague's. Oh, you think you are the only one enjoying the cookies? Let me tell you now, kpekus is an accommodating bottomless pit. E no dey discriminate.


Wait and do DNA. You'd be surprised when the child is born, he will look like the security guy




Office romance gone sour


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firstratedcitiz:
The part where you mentioned that the both of you earn "well over 500k" was pure fabrication. Yes.

How is earning more than 500k lies? poverty has eaten neck deep into the society. If I mention what iv been paid only the year alone as allowance..it would bring so much attention cos it's in 8 figures

ottiz:


And she got pregnant from this? How's that possible?

We have had sex countless times after this...for more than 3weeks

iykejohnson:

If you are definitely sure, the unborn baby is yours
And the girl is good, Biko wife her

Yea its mine cos she either sleeps at my place or I sleep at hers more than 5times everyweek.

Marry her.

AmericanDad:


Nah its mine cos I was with her when her period finished...and we had sex when she was off the next day

Oga, first 7days after her period, she still dey safe and fertilization is minimal to occur.

AmericanDad:
Hey guys, I just found out my colleague at work iv been sleeping with is pregnant. We were'nt dating tho we were just having fun together. We both came into the organization the same time and we earn very well like well above 500k per month. I'm 33 and she's 28. Shes having double mind about it and thinking of abortion but I told her No. Her reason is what will our colleagues say and how her family will react to her being pregnant out of wedlock.

The issue is she's from calabar and I'm from anambra. I'm the only son of my parents. Iv not told my folks yet but they definately would prefer me to marry an igbo girl. Also guys, we have started talking marriage plans but now that she's pregnant can the church wed us? or should I just do Traditional and court then after the baby is born I do white wedding Time is ticking oo.

...the court will accept you. Forget about the church thing. Congrats.

AmericanDad:


Stop chatting trash. I didnt say I had sex only once with her after her period...we had sex constantly after that

odensy 33 yrs old wey mumu.. u didn’t say once neither did u say u were working on d toto for several days ..

Carry ur cross

AmericanDad:


Give birth out of wedlock? That wont sit well with her family

Good. So what do you suggest?

Where do you work? Which industry do you work?

onunwa21:
No perfect woman now!! If u know u can understand & live peacefully with her. What re u waiting for!! At least u guys re doing something reasonable that can put food on the table.
Marriage straight!! Leave tribe matter oooo!!!
Anyway congratulations in advance! !!

Thanks bro il go ahead. Shes a sweet lady with no problem. We have what it takes to take care of the baby

Lair Muhammed u try with the story , if you like u marry her

potent5:
Congratulations, Op.

If you allow her to abort the baby, you will regret it for almost all your life. And please, don't marry her because she is pregnant for you. Marry her if you believe she has what you want in a woman, irrespective of her tribe.

U are mad, if he did not marry her, then who will marry the baby mama he produce? Na simp I pity for sha, meanwhile u are mad again