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My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
I created this acct today for single ladies to learn from my mistakes.. I finished from school some years back, after my final exams I decided to stay back because I was into little business, I sell ladies wears and bags. On Thursday evening I was outside my hostel when guy pass we exchanged greetings, I fell for him I can't explain why ( I was single) the next evening he saw me we had a little chats, we exchanged numbers. We became friends, after two weeks the feelings started growing and I fell in love with him( I wanted a serious relationship) I went to his house with my friend spent few minutes and left..the next day my friend had a guest so I decided to go to his place, I pleaded with him that I don't want any sexual itimacy he aggreed, around 5am he started touching me one thing led to the other..after two months I find out he has a gf, before then I dreamt about him it made me feel for him more deeply. I was very down and I decided to move on I went to bear parlor I drank to stupor some people help me home..the next day he called, he started saying the lady is a cheat, we move on..after some months I relocated to another state I was hunting for job, I travelled to lagos, he calls me every day, we chat the love grows more, he was very broke, I sent him money, after some months I left lagos, on my back a man told me to avoid any relationship at the moment, wish I heed to his advice.. I went directly to his place, he was down, he den open up to me that he's in interested fraud( yahoo) and nothing is dropping, he told me he came to ilorin but he was asked to bring human parts but he can't, and his neighbor is cashing out, I told him I'll help because I really love him I spoke with my neighbor if she know any juju man that's very good, she introduced me to a man. I had close to 100k in my account, we both went to the man I did a lot of prayers, ate different types of things we spend more than 50k after some weeks nothing is dropping, and I'm feeding him, my account is red already, he spoke with his friend, his friend introduced him to another juju man den we are out of cash already. He told me that he want to go home to hustle up, after some weeks he started posting the other girl pic I was very down after everything I did for him, I moved on but it was too late, I was pregnant my initial plan was to abort it when someone who doesn't even me told me she saw me in hospital in her dream I insisted on aborting but every means I tried wasn't working until I was told not to abort the child. 33 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Ammishaddai: 2:18pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Hmmm...this narrative reminds of that soap opera called Super story ![]() 416 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Toma2: 2:20pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: ![]() 71 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:21pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
I told him about it he insists I abort, I went to his parents, they supported him, in fact his mom and dad called all sort of names after everything I did for him ![]() I wanted commiting sucide my neighbor stood for me she was der Tru thick and thin, I started hunting for job I almost got used, after three months I was sick I had to travel to my mom she started taking care of me.. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nilx: 2:23pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Life will humble you. 91 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
My edd was December, all through the month nothing happened, last week of December water broke, 3weeks straight no sign of labor and water keep gushing out everyday, the 3rd week i started feeling back pains I went to where i was registered the woman said baby is coming, she checked, she said the baby is not coming yet that I was just feeling pains 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
The pains became unbearable I was crying, the woman said there's nothing she can do ![]() 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Foodqueen(f): 2:40pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Tent here 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:42pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
I got there I was very weak , I was given Injections and drips after 4 hours I gave birth to a baby boy, my baby is okay.. After 4 hours I started bleeding heavily ![]() I lost my life because I fell for the wrong guy, I lost my career, I lost everything..im trying to bounce back I don't even know where to start from.. 55 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:44pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:hmmm may u not fall into the wrong hand, iv bn in mess for 4 years, iv stayed indoor for 3 months.. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:45pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky:hmmmm.. thanks 3 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Ammishaddai: 2:50pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Funmiola95:Sofiora, why do you keep creating new accounts ...is it that you're that jobless ? ![]() 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:I don't understand, this what happened to me.. 9 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 2:54pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:pls don't drain my thread, I created this thread because I want people to learn from my mistakes..I don't v any reason to lie,I still have my scan results here 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by CsRockefeller(m): 2:56pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
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Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Sonnobax15(m): 3:01pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
![]() Eyahhhhh.. The truth is that the future is like a pregnant woman....It may be good or bad......But op,that isn't the end of the world.....Your greatest motivation at this moment should be your baby......As in, anytime you see her,you should always say to yourself--""I ain't giving up". If not for anything or anyone else,just stay strong for your baby... 21 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Ammishaddai: 3:04pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Funmiola95:...you actually created this account to get engagement and show us how jobless you are in real life 17 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 3:08pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
CsRockefeller:wish I didn't fell for him..I almost sacrificed my life for him to become somebody, sometime last year I was able to see his post Tru a friend,he was cashing out big time, clubbing, spending money, using expensive car, spending money, when I'm here nursing the child alone, I hustle to put my kid in school and recently I just got him text books, it has not been easy, I called his parents 2years ago the father shun me off on phone, after everything I did for this guy, I cried almost everyday wish I didn't fall for him.. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 3:10pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Funmiola95:It's not his parents' responsibility to step up but his. It's too bad he's a loser who has refused to look after his child. Can you take him to court and sue him for child support? 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 3:11pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:smiles I'm not jobless sir, if u can't contribute then stop quoting me pls, do u think I'll sit and form a story like this.. smiles 15 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 3:12pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky:I don't have money.. 1 Like |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Ammishaddai: 3:13pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Funmiola95:Keep deluding yourself. Las las, you'll become a social nuisance looking for who to dump responsibility on . 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 3:17pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:the last I'll ever do, I don't depend on people, I've bn taking care of the baby alone with my mom for good 4 years, and if I decided to get married today the baby will definitely be with my mom, he's the source of joy to my mom, I can't take him away from her, I'm not asking for support for the child, I v a good mother, I posted this for people learn not to gain sympathy whatsoever...he's now a big boy tho 120 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 3:20pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Funmiola95:hummm |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Ammishaddai: 3:24pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
[s] Funmiola95:[/s] You're really jobless sha...what a pity 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by debbydams(f): 3:25pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:can't u leave this lady alone, what do you want to gain from this? Learn to mind your business na 175 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Ammishaddai: 3:26pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
[s] debbydams:[/s]I don't remember inviting you into my mentions . 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Mariangeles(f): 3:45pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Funmiola95: First of all, you have to forgive yourself for all the wrong choices that you made, let go of all the hurt, the anger, and the hate that you feel so that your soul can begin to heal and find peace, then comes new strength in your spirit to start over. May God refresh your soul and spirit. 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Nobody: 4:02pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Amen thanks ma 8 Likes |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by louiskay(m): 4:09pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
God please ohhh... Abeg... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Experience With A Wrong Partner by Sirqt5(m): 4:20pm On Nov 15, 2021 |
babymama wiv overused pusci, abeg free us tale by the moonlight . make una no sleep around, make una no sleep around u no dey hear word Funmiola95:n lie to the man say u no be baby mama ? 6 Likes |
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