Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?

You will still serve her breakfast.

Abi?
Una go say Nigerian girls no sabi love, this one done love you sotey she done turn Robin hood, thieving from her privileged mum to give to you the less privileged, you still come here dey complain.

Which advice you dey find gan gan?

If you no want make she dey thief give you, tell her make she stop na.

U be thief na .thief still dey need advice.she is stealing from her mom to give to you and you are happy






The next topic I'm expecting from is" how my girlfriend's mom arrested me

Very stupid girl,instead of her to be collecting from you and adding to her mom's sales she's busy running her mom down. Foolish girl

I am sure it's a teenager you are dating. The naivety is crystal clear. You suddenly lost the willpower to reject those dark gifts...because you don see sardine, bread and some few Nairas. You are esau-ing your respect, and manliness! You are no different from our colonial masters — exploiting the girl and leaving her translate it to love.


You will now buy points by asking if it is only a man that should gift ladies...and your lawyers from the court of public opinion will support you. I'll tell you this for free: No, it isn't only a man who should spend in a relationship. But this isn't the case. In a billing relationship, if your girlfriend bills you once, bill her the next time.. that's the way a billing relationship should be..so it's not a justification. Na una dey die in silence dey endure billing. If you bill am she no show, then stop giving! Don't cling to it to make a point! Or kuku talk say you dey use am make all man understand the paroles.

If you kuku break up with am and she report her mama, I pity you. Better dey save the money as retirement plan. Stop living a scavenger life.


What hunger cannot do doesn't exist.

BTW, I am available for research writing services that will pass Turnitin.

Iyaebe:
Very stupid girl,instead of her to be collecting from you and adding to her mom's sale she's busy running her mom down. Foolish girl

Maybe the guy is struggling
Not every girl is in the same tax collection business as you

Oponu. This boy should be 17 old and the girl 15 old

It's not bad if she's from high socioeconomic family, but if her family is an average family or from the lower class family, it's not that good. Atleast, she should collect you some money or reduced the price for you instead of not collecting money at all. It's for the detriment of her mum's business.

And you, if you know she won't collect you money, stop going there, stop taking advantage of her naiveness. That's how girls behave when love shaggs them, not untill the said guy disappoint them before their eyes clear..

richeeyo:

Maybe the guy is struggling
Not every girl is in the same tax collection business as you

And not every guy is in the same leech business as you and op.If he's struggling let him remain single and concentrate more on his struggles and not to leech on somebody's daughter and helping her run her mother's business down.

Such girl are very difficult to find.. Make sure u hold her tight.. Afterall, is not a crime for a girl to spend on her boyfriend.

Pu**y ass nigga

Abfinest007:
U be thief na .thief still dey need advice

because say na the girl dey give abi?

MadamVanessa:
It's not bad afterall, but it will be bad if you later dump her and cling to someone else and she will leave to regret her action.


I was once in her shoes, the love shagged me to the point i give him all he wanted in my parents house and damn the consequences. But i must say it later paid off, there's no day i regretted my action.. i must commend him for not taking advantage of it. If he collects me anything, know that it really hooked him and there's no help elsewhere. I love Richy.

Sb said you had a grinding stone head. How did it make you feel?

Mennnnnnnn,for Christ sake,this is bad

Well,op,it's just a matter of time before everything go cast,and her Mom go get to know how massively her thieving daughter don make her lost because she's blindly in love.....And then,the momsy go come mount your dormot with Police.......After she don arrest you finish,hope you no go rush come nairaland come solicit for help cha

Na wetin dey sweet man for body still dey kill am

In need of a girl around ifo her mum must own a buka
age 20-65

OP let me be real with you;

E sure me say you follow for the number of numerous Nigerian men that always complain of their girlfriends not bringing anything to the table. Now you don get one that supercedes your imagination and you're opening your mouth waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!..

Worst thing be say you don chop the foodstuffs clean mouth. You come here de disturb people.

While your girlfriend is a thief, because of love of course, if you no marry her however , the thunder wey go strike you don dey wear cover shoe for you.....

Note: most of the things she gives me, she bring it without me asking for it. And if i try to reject them, she starts to think that i'm trying to give her space, i'm seeing someone else or i don't love her anymore.. Thats why i need advice, because i don't want to loose her by rejecting what she brings for me.

Everyone has spoken their mind.

That's fine.

Znation, Between you and I, what's your plan for this girl?

You better not serve her breakfast or else Amadioha will bloke your penìs.

Your condition is the dream of everyman, forget what people will say o.. Let me tell you: it is good for your girlfriend to be spending on you these days o.. No let anybody on nairaland decieve u

Romanoff:
You will still serve her breakfast.
Abi?

Which one be serve her breakfast again..

Manigie:
While your girlfriend is a thief, because of love of course, if you no marry her however , the thunder wey go strike you don dey wear cover shoe for you.....

but if na the guy they collect from their shop they feed the girl, una go say there is nothing wrong with it, afterall the guy suppose spend for him girl.. Is it a crime a woman is spending on her man? Since she has it, let her do the spending.

Bola146:
Oponu. This boy should be 17 old and the girl 15 old

you're not even up to 10% close..

Godada:


Everyone has spoken their mind.

That's fine.

Znation, Between you and I, what's your plan for this girl?

You better not serve her breakfast or else Amadioha will bloke your penìs.

i always serve her everyday.. Including today!

Znation:
Hello nairalanders

Some people may say i'm lucky and would want to be in my position, but i really need ur advice..

My girlfriend mum have a very big provission shop, and u all know how it feels (that joy) to have such person daughther as your girlfriend.

She loves me so much that she can give me money, food stuff, all for free from their shop. infact, i don't even spend a kobo to buy anything again. All i do is just go to their shop, & collect whatever i want.

If i meet her mum when i want to buy something, i'll pay her. But if i give her N500, she will give me change of even N2000 and ask me to go. And i don't argue with her so that her mum won't notice. I will just collect the money and go.

If i call her on phone that i'm hungry, only God can tell the things she will bring for me withing just 20 minutes of calling her..

She's spending so much on me, and i think i need advice.

I thought i was a lucky man b4, but the thing is too much 4 me.

nairalanders, What should i do?

lalasticlala

I dunno what to say .. but dont ever love with your heart .. love with your head
Talking from experience .. my case is quite similar to yours

Iyaebe:
Very stupid girl,instead of her to be collecting from you and adding to her mom's sale she's busy running her mom down. Foolish girl

don't use insultive words please..

Dear op.

You are lucky indeed, if you love her as much as she loves you, congratulations

But if it's guilty conscience that's making you feel uneasy..

Calculate the cost of all the things you have gotten for free and pay back with clear mind.

Before someone cellotape your name on #70 egg and take you to the beach

Help?

The girl is dumb, although i doubt your story...


You just created a nairaland account today and looking for attention.

You got it ....

Happy now?

I'm just trying to imagine if the girl is my sister.

That mouth you use dey chop my mama food

You are a very wicked person