My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?

Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.

I believe she's not restraining you from serving your desired portion.... Kindly go and serve yourself if you are not satisfied with her portion.


Na small issue wey you fit coordinate as a MAN.

Isn't your house? You can do the dishing yourself.

Evamann:
Isn't your house? You can do the dishing yourself.

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

Barrister026:

Smile

That will make me come off as been greedy, don't you think.
What will people think when they hear it.

"If him wife cook, na him dey go devide food from pot"


It's not mature

You are the one reading wrong interpretations to it. I mean it is your house and you have the right to decisively correct what you feel not normal.

Evamann:


You are the one reading wrong interpretations to it. I mean it is your house and you have the right to decisively correct what you feel not normal.

Okay thanks

Your wife is acting based on how she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

wahala no dey finish for marriage ni na wa o

Mariangeles:
Your wife is acting based on the way she was raised.
When it comes to food, men adjust in the ways of their wives.
Besides, too much meat is not good for you and your wife is protecting from being overfed.

One of the greatest lies ever told to deceive men.

Op, dish your own food by going to the kitchen

i926:


One of the greatest lies ever told to deceive men.

E be like say you wan be like cubana chief priest.

Op, dish your own food by going to the kitchen

Unless his wife allows it or is unavailable, that is disrespectful.

Mariangeles:


Unless his wife allows it or is unavailable, that is disrespectful.

Disrespectful you say?

So she starving me of my own food is respectful?


The only reason I don't want to do that, is because I be ashamed if the issue escalated and neighbors gets to hear that we are quarreling because of quantity of meat and fish. It doesn't make sense at all.

Barrister026:


Disrespectful you say?

So she starving me of my own food is respectful?


The only reason I don't want to do that, is because I be ashamed if the issue escalated and neighbors gets to hear that, we are quarreling because of quantity of meat and fish.

Have a serious discussion with her na.
No fall hand because of food.

Mariangeles:


Have a serious discussion with her na.
No fall hand because of food.

We've had several discussions about it, to The extent it nearly led to quarrel.
But still she refuse to change.

Barrister026:


We've had several discussions about it, to The extent it nearly led to quarrel.
But still she refuse to change.

She's probably too stubborn and places so much importance on food.

I bet she won't like it one bit when you go to her pot. Kukuma manage her like that.
You will adjust laslas. The lord is your straingth

Barrister026:


We've had several discussions about it, to The extent it nearly led to quarrel.
But still she refuse to change.

reject the food with this same reason one day ilet's know wether or not she will change.......

Oizee:
reject the food with this same reason one day ilet's know wether or not she will change.......

Have ordered her to go put some more protein on several occasions.

But must i always do that?

Mariangeles:

E be like say you wan be like cubana chief priest.



Unless his wife allows it or is unavailable, that is disrespectful.

This is ludicrous. In his own house? He needs no permission for nothing.


No woman on Earth fit carry food do shakara for me.

Manage the meat like that o! Meat no dey bellyful stomach.

Barrister026:


Have ordered her to go put some more protein on several occasions.

But must i always do that?

don't be tired Sir, keep telling her as long as she doesn't refuse.... one day she will get tired for ur endless complain and change for good.

i926:

This is ludicrous. In his own house? He needs no permission for nothing.


No woman on Earth fit carry food do shakara for me.

Oga calm down! Na just food.
There are ways to go about these kinds of issues without blowing it out of proportion.

All oga needs to do is to be patient with his wife till she adjusts to the way he wants.

Op, una just marry?

Oizee:
reject the food with this same reason one day ilet's know wether or not she will change.......

Ozee, they will not reject your food.

Oizee:
don't be tired Sir, keep telling her as long as she doesn't refuse.... one day she will get tired for ur endless complain and change for good.

You don't know how irritating everytime have to ask her to take it back, and dish it properly.
Her grumblings that comes with it is making me angry, I just can't continue to accept this behavior.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Manage the meat like that o! Meat no dey bellyful stomach.

this op too like enjoyment,... may be e no too enjoy when e dey small, he come swear say e go work hard and enjoy im life when he grow, his wife come b economist now....

Barrister026:

You don't know how irritating everytime have to ask her to take it back, and dish it properly.
Her grumblings that comes with it is making me angry, I just can't continue to accept this behavior.

How we wan come take solve this matter like this now ehn?

Oya, go tell your wife say umu Ada dey call am.
Make we teach am how to feed man.

PlayMaker14:
I believe she's not restraining you from serving your desired portion.... Kindly go and serve yourself if you are not satisfied with her portion.


Na small issue wey you fit coordinate as a MAN.

I agree... It's that simple. U eat finish, ask for extra. She says no, go get it.

Wahala here and there

Start dishing your food.

Problem solved.

If your wife is doing this to u, I can imagine what she will do to your visitors. Majority of men of this generation are pathetic!

Barrister026:
My dad called me on the phone 2 days ago asking if I be coming home for the holiday, which is unlikely of him, because I just left home not quite long and he hardly call. (I school within our state, studying law)..... while we were on the call he mentioned about the Dr appointment. (We normally do routine check-up every 2 months )

Throwing the question to me if I even know my blood group. (I replied, no)
At FIRST I thought it's just a normal question.

Am 21yrs old, eldest among 3 siblings and I think my dad has something planned out

I never knew I was wasting my time on a 21 year old kid! Jeez! I will stop commenting on issues raised on this forum henceforth!

Rubbiish:
If your wife is doing this to u, I can imagine what she will do to your visitors. Majority of men of this generation are pathetic!

okay kid

@Op; as you have spoken to your wife several times about this issue and she is not willing to change; the next time she brings your food without enough protein/s, don't say anything to her; just get up and take your plate of food and go to the kitchen and add the extra protein/s to the food yourself and bring it back and continue eating your food. This is because you have told her several times as you said and she has refuse to change. To avoid any further issues, do it yourself and VIOLA; CASE CLOSED. By the time you do that a few times, she will change.

Barrister026:
My wife attitudes towards food she cooked with my money is getting on my nerves.

How can my wife be dishing food to me like she's serving it for our kids.times without number have complained but still no changes.

It's either she makes eba that won't satisfy us ( when they is enough garri available) her defense is that she don't want it to be wasted.

OR

She dished out soup for me with lesser meat like am a kid. Have told her several times when cooking..to buy enough protein in the soup or stew. But to my surprise she always economise the money and divert it into something else.

I even had to start buying suya in the evening when coming back from work, because I know what I be expecting when my food is dished out. ( Recent news we saw of how suya killed some families, made me limiit it)

Have ordered her on several occasions to take it back and put more protein, but must i always do that?


Please This is really getting out of hand, I really don't know how to handle this situation.


Lalasticlala

This is too funny; I beg no vex o; make I laugh small at the bold below; hahahahaha

Barrister026:


Disrespectful you say?

So she starving me of my own food is respectful?


The only reason I don't want to do that, is because I be ashamed if the issue escalated and neighbors gets to hear that we are quarreling because of quantity of meat and fish. It doesn't make sense at all.

PlayMaker14:
I believe she's not restraining you from serving your desired portion.... Kindly go and serve yourself if you are not satisfied with her portion.


Na small issue wey you fit coordinate as a MAN.

Lol. Well said