Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by tiffanyfan(f): 6:43pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
toujurs: who be this sweet girl, you be full option oh ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) You don't want to see the full craze behind that option.....moreso the option is not yet full, till till like 2yrs when the pocket is full . 2 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by ConqueredWest: 6:44pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
soundOsonic: I met a lady last year, we talked well and vibed well. Later on I would go to her shop to discuss and I would have this eye contact with her and I thought I felt something like a spark though. Even the Lady with her suspected we had a thing together but I just recently knew her. We both talked as if we know each otherfor like forever.
She asked me for my number, I gave her. I never asked her for her number simply because I wanted to make sure that the signal we are getting from each other was purely romantic and not platonic and I wanted to take things slow.
I felt that her asking for my number was that she needed to spend more time with me if I am not available physically. So we started chatting. The chats was going smoothly and to my surprise we do chat all through the day we literally chats all hours of the day. Then I did what all single Hot guy will do, out but apart from the Hot which I am not most times; I asked her out. I was not after sex perse I just wanted enough closure bridging through the platonic platform to a more romantic setting.
But she replied with this exact same words "I am not ready for a relationship, I want to complete my schooling and be focus with my education."
Well despite her reply killed my envisioned sun setting romantic bliss; I understood as she was a good girl, a virgin and someone very focus with academics. I know this because she tells me everything about her things happening each day, minutes and seconds.
I was contented with the platonic relationship, I thought I would wait maybe 2 or 3 years as that's what she was indirectly telling me. A month later from the time I asked her out and was turned down, that time was December: Christmas period. I took my sister out to a nice eatery and I asked her if she could come along as a friend. She obliged but told me she would be going some place after that I said ok.
So after she left to her place of wherever. My sister told me she is worried, I asked her why, she said she went to her guy's place. I was shocked this is a lady that is not ready for relationship. This guy in question is a Yahoo guy by the appearance and all. The guy later broke her heart as that's the first time she is dating I think at 21. Another guy in the area too was like dating her as well after that guy, at the point of dating he got another girl pregnant and broke her heart (same Yahoo guy).
I thought why did she ever chose not to date me. If at all you were not physically attracted to me why didn't you just tell me instead of all these mumbo jumbo. I am actually an average looking guy. Maybe a 6 or even a 7 based on world standard.
My question is why do girls always refuse to date me, I am not a good guy neither am I a bad guy. The one I am asking out says I am not in her level, that she is in a very low level for me to look at her or ask her out. She believes I am after sex.
The next one said I am too low for her. Though she was older. The one I confessed my feelings for her heart isn't even with me but another but she started catching feelings but sometimes she gets to her senses and she convince herself she belongs with another.
The girl who I don't even know that keeps greeting me Everytime but I keep ignoring her, I later went for her after a year she turned me down. I just tire o.
Edit: Not every woman I meet, I ask out. I have a particular type of lady I ask out that depicts my taste. Any Lady beyond or below I show zero interest.
People saying I should move on, I have already. I was never pained o. And those calling me a simp I no even understand, where did you read any simpish move from me? Or do you at all know what SIMP is? My problem isn't sex o. If I wanted sex I would get it easily from those low class street girls without spending a dime. I am after my kind of girls but they are saying NO. The lady hid the truth from you concerning the existence of her boyfriend which was why she told you she was not ready for a relationship but wants to concentrate on her academics. When a lady says no to a relationship it means any of the 3 reasons below: 1) She has a secret boyfriend. 2) She has no relationship interest in you 3) She actually is not interested in keeping a relationship as at the time you made your desire known Based on experience, she has a secret boyfriend she never hinted you but due to your closeness to her, did she open to you concerning her secret boyfriend. |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by selfmadeOLX(m): 6:45pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Golden Rule: Never ever be in the friendzone 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by brandsoncharlie: 6:45pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
AlhajiBitcoin: A girl was chatting with you everyday on her own.
She was even the one who demanded your phone number.
Which other landing do you want ?? What other relationship do you want ??
This guy needs factory reset slaps... To me the guy is too slow. Something he will eat and clean mouth. |
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Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by klawaaa: 6:48pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Guy, you are not yet there. Get a good car and apartment, you would see Nigerian girls running after you for marriage! soundOsonic: I met a lady last year, we talked well and vibed well. Later on I would go to her shop to discuss and I would have this eye contact with her and I thought I felt something like a spark though. Even the Lady with her suspected we had a thing together but I just recently knew her. We both talked as if we know each otherfor like forever.
She asked me for my number, I gave her. I never asked her for her number simply because I wanted to make sure that the signal we are getting from each other was purely romantic and not platonic and I wanted to take things slow.
I felt that her asking for my number was that she needed to spend more time with me if I am not available physically. So we started chatting. The chats was going smoothly and to my surprise we do chat all through the day we literally chats all hours of the day. Then I did what all single Hot guy will do, out but apart from the Hot which I am not most times; I asked her out. I was not after sex perse I just wanted enough closure bridging through the platonic platform to a more romantic setting.
But she replied with this exact same words "I am not ready for a relationship, I want to complete my schooling and be focus with my education."
Well despite her reply killed my envisioned sun setting romantic bliss; I understood as she was a good girl, a virgin and someone very focus with academics. I know this because she tells me everything about her things happening each day, minutes and seconds.
I was contented with the platonic relationship, I thought I would wait maybe 2 or 3 years as that's what she was indirectly telling me. A month later from the time I asked her out and was turned down, that time was December: Christmas period. I took my sister out to a nice eatery and I asked her if she could come along as a friend. She obliged but told me she would be going some place after that I said ok.
So after she left to her place of wherever. My sister told me she is worried, I asked her why, she said she went to her guy's place. I was shocked this is a lady that is not ready for relationship. This guy in question is a Yahoo guy by the appearance and all. The guy later broke her heart as that's the first time she is dating I think at 21. Another guy in the area too was like dating her as well after that guy, at the point of dating he got another girl pregnant and broke her heart (same Yahoo guy).
I thought why did she ever chose not to date me. If at all you were not physically attracted to me why didn't you just tell me instead of all these mumbo jumbo. I am actually an average looking guy. Maybe a 6 or even a 7 based on world standard.
My question is why do girls always refuse to date me, I am not a good guy neither am I a bad guy. The one I am asking out says I am not in her level, that she is in a very low level for me to look at her or ask her out. She believes I am after sex.
The next one said I am too low for her. Though she was older. The one I confessed my feelings for her heart isn't even with me but another but she started catching feelings but sometimes she gets to her senses and she convince herself she belongs with another.
The girl who I don't even know that keeps greeting me Everytime but I keep ignoring her, I later went for her after a year she turned me down. I just tire o.
Edit: Not every woman I meet, I ask out. I have a particular type of lady I ask out that depicts my taste. Any Lady beyond or below I show zero interest.
People saying I should move on, I have already. I was never pained o. And those calling me a simp I no even understand, where did you read any simpish move from me? Or do you at all know what SIMP is? My problem isn't sex o. If I wanted sex I would get it easily from those low class street girls without spending a dime. I am after my kind of girls but they are saying NO. 3 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by Legendoo: 6:51pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
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Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by brizziedos(m): 6:51pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Boogyman557: Holly Gram Na dis kind people de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U. WTF MAN Yo! 2 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by Nobody: 6:54pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
But on a more serious note, you were just too available to her. Na wetin spoil everything be that. Women don't like what is not challenging or mysterious. How a whole man like you go dey spend all day chatting with chick and you still expect say she go rate you. Haba, you sef check am na, e simply mean say you're one jobless soul with no ambition. Grow up boy! 14 Likes |
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Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by toujurs: 6:57pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
tiffanyfan:
You don't want to see the full craze behind that option.....moreso the option is not yet full, till till like 2yrs when the pocket is full . leave pocket, life is jeje. 1 Like |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by ConqueredWest: 7:02pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
klawaaa: Guy, you are not yet there. Get a good car and apartment, you would see Nigerian girls running after you for marriage! Not true. |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by kafeii123: 7:03pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
She wasn't ready for a relationship...with you |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by Anndrew(m): 7:06pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Dear Op..am in d same shoe with u....what I did is never to give damn abt that,why focusing on myself and how to progress to the next level..as I dey move na so I dey try others till I see wat am looking for..am single and no bae or girfrnd..also am introvert....no tme for shit...I like u and u form or say no sex or whatever I moveee...if I wan cure conjil I do hook up..na so I dey live my life....Las Las every man go get banny 9 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by SirLakes: 7:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Ocholu:
Let me be real with you OP;
If it's based on world standard, you're not even up to 2. See your big mouth like 6. Lol ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 1 Like |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by muheeb01(m): 7:07pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Its all about time,you'll eventually find yours,there's a woman for every man 4 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by A479yo: 7:16pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
My broda just make Money, n see aw things ll unfold naturally |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by Elanqy: 7:18pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
You're a simp and you know it.
Don't ask any lady out until you've kissed her more than 3 different occasions. Give the lady the honor of asking you "what are we?", when she does, whine her for days, then you could ask her to date you after dodging the "what are we" question for weeks or months.
Congratulations because you've been delivered from the spirit of SIMP. Be yea healed forever 12 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by TruthSocial: 7:20pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Pursue romance before relationship folks.... Lotta girls dont want that relationship unless they getting money or good dick. Be smooth, attractive and pursue romance. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by Shagbatshagba(m): 7:20pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Bro just don't settle for the less,be patient,all the girls u are asking out doesn't really love you to be dating just hustle hard flex urself,enjoy ur life ur real girl will come and when she's around you showering u love u will still come back here to say the girl too love u Hustle bro!! 4 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by poweredcom(m): 7:20pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
When sensible are running from naija girls
This brother is chasing them
They have noting to offer you
If you take Dem out na u go.spend Taya some will even be calling you mugu
The only thing you can gain is pussy if she wanna give you
Make money and use Dem play basketball 4 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by iykololo(m): 7:22pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
soundOsonic: I met a lady last year, we talked well and vibed well. Later on I would go to her shop to discuss and I would have this eye contact with her and I thought I felt something like a spark though. Even the Lady with her suspected we had a thing together but I just recently knew her. We both talked as if we know each otherfor like forever.
She asked me for my number, I gave her. I never asked her for her number simply because I wanted to make sure that the signal we are getting from each other was purely romantic and not platonic and I wanted to take things slow.
I felt that her asking for my number was that she needed to spend more time with me if I am not available physically. So we started chatting. The chats was going smoothly and to my surprise we do chat all through the day we literally chats all hours of the day. Then I did what all single Hot guy will do, out but apart from the Hot which I am not most times; I asked her out. I was not after sex perse I just wanted enough closure bridging through the platonic platform to a more romantic setting.
But she replied with this exact same words "I am not ready for a relationship, I want to complete my schooling and be focus with my education."
Well despite her reply killed my envisioned sun setting romantic bliss; I understood as she was a good girl, a virgin and someone very focus with academics. I know this because she tells me everything about her things happening each day, minutes and seconds.
I was contented with the platonic relationship, I thought I would wait maybe 2 or 3 years as that's what she was indirectly telling me. A month later from the time I asked her out and was turned down, that time was December: Christmas period. I took my sister out to a nice eatery and I asked her if she could come along as a friend. She obliged but told me she would be going some place after that I said ok.
So after she left to her place of wherever. My sister told me she is worried, I asked her why, she said she went to her guy's place. I was shocked this is a lady that is not ready for relationship. This guy in question is a Yahoo guy by the appearance and all. The guy later broke her heart as that's the first time she is dating I think at 21. Another guy in the area too was like dating her as well after that guy, at the point of dating he got another girl pregnant and broke her heart (same Yahoo guy).
I thought why did she ever chose not to date me. If at all you were not physically attracted to me why didn't you just tell me instead of all these mumbo jumbo. I am actually an average looking guy. Maybe a 6 or even a 7 based on world standard.
My question is why do girls always refuse to date me, I am not a good guy neither am I a bad guy. The one I am asking out says I am not in her level, that she is in a very low level for me to look at her or ask her out. She believes I am after sex.
The next one said I am too low for her. Though she was older. The one I confessed my feelings for her heart isn't even with me but another but she started catching feelings but sometimes she gets to her senses and she convince herself she belongs with another.
The girl who I don't even know that keeps greeting me Everytime but I keep ignoring her, I later went for her after a year she turned me down. I just tire o.
Edit: Not every woman I meet, I ask out. I have a particular type of lady I ask out that depicts my taste. Any Lady beyond or below I show zero interest.
People saying I should move on, I have already. I was never pained o. And those calling me a simp I no even understand, where did you read any simpish move from me? Or do you at all know what SIMP is? My problem isn't sex o. If I wanted sex I would get it easily from those low class street girls without spending a dime. I am after my kind of girls but they are saying NO. She meant with you bro. |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by Damilare65(m): 7:24pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
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Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by okoroemeka(m): 7:25pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
wisdomkid:
I swear, am confused sef. How can they all reject you? There's a vibe you're sending out that is certainly chasing these ladies out. from what I understand he want to play love vibes with them like in zeeworld or telemundo,while what those girls want is who will nack the hell out of there pvssy 2 Likes |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by lomprico(m): 7:26pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
.....with you! |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by manlawal(m): 7:26pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
soundOsonic: I met a lady last year, we talked well and vibed well. Later on I would go to her shop to discuss and I would have this eye contact with her and I thought I felt something like a spark though. Even the Lady with her suspected we had a thing together but I just recently knew her. We both talked as if we know each otherfor like forever.
She asked me for my number, I gave her. I never asked her for her number simply because I wanted to make sure that the signal we are getting from each other was purely romantic and not platonic and I wanted to take things slow.
. search for ubunja miseducation bro |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by SweetDipBenny(m): 7:26pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
U just need to smoke some weed ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by Nobody: 7:29pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
if love no work, pursue money.
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Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by huttonbanti(m): 7:31pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Bro....even if you date this particular girl,and she said yes....brother it obvious already dat she will even cheat on you!! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by hedonido: 7:32pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Omode lo nshey eleyi. |
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Re: I Asked A Girl Out, She Said She Isn't Ready For Relationship, Now She Is Dating by GoldHorse(m): 7:39pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
So you wrote this episode because a girl said "No" to you? ![](/faces/huh.png) |