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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Kennyking1234: 10:28pm On Nov 17, 2021
too much comprision from your parents just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always[/quote]
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Breastfeed: 10:29pm On Nov 17, 2021
You need prayers sha
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Ishilove: 10:29pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always
.
You are an unconscious witch. This is witchcraft

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:29pm On Nov 17, 2021
You don't hate seeing people succeed, but your EGO does.

There's a book called "A New Earth", by Eckhart Tolle. It might help you.

There will always be people better than you at something.

Many people will curse you on this thread, but they probably feel the same way and even act on it. At least you are honest and also seeking help.

You have to accept that it's ok to lose. It's ok for others to be more fortunate than you.

It's ok to not be the best.


If you do not accept the above, you will be miserable throughout your life.

The only thing that matters is that you put in your best effort.

(You can download A New Earth from libgen.is)

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Jmichael1(m): 10:30pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

sum1 once said"no be only who dey fly 4 night be witch...

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by staga: 10:30pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

The bolded is the greater evil. Those who think evil are even worse than those who do it.
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by obanioluorun: 10:31pm On Nov 17, 2021
Pray to God to renew your heart.
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 10:31pm On Nov 17, 2021
Ishilove:
. You are an unconscious witch. This is witchcraft
olosho
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Sapeleomi: 10:32pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

Hey, Chairman
If you need to change and heal, then you need therapy.. Invest in your emotional, thinking and cognitive processes... It is a good sign that you are aware of this dysfunctional thinking before it goes toxic..
I am not an expert but you seemed to what to be in control of all situation. Get all the attention and adoration..
Life is not a competition.. Learn to open your and understand your emotions and the triggers... Do not try to dominate,impress, control or exert power over anything...
You need to find yourself!

Perhaps your ego or self worth is linked to what you perceive you have done to others..

Ask yourself if l am poor or die today? What would be the qualities or attributes people will say about me?

Learn to cooperate and grow with others not compete or try and outwit them.. Enjoy life and always remember the way you make others feel leaves a memory in their mind...
Make sure your present is positive and constructive..
Self awareness is the journey to inner peace..
Best wishes....

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by GENES11S: 10:33pm On Nov 17, 2021
Where is "Righteousness" when you need him?. grin grin grin

Op bringing others down or wishing them bad doesn't do you any good. It does not elevate you...it only demote you the more because you are feeding your low self-esteem.

People with this kind of behavior are usually suffering from low self-esteem. So when they see someone with high self-esteem, bad thought will take over their mind. It's very common but most people try to hide it.

My advice to you; work on yourself. Instead of hating successful people, learn from them. Just because you care not successful yet doesn't mean are not special----always remember that.
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by ceeceeuwa: 10:33pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always
It's worse than witchcraft!
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Jmichael1(m): 10:33pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
Africa reasoning noi pass so.
Oyibo has a better and sexy name for this
oya tell us d sexy name...
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Ishilove: 10:34pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:


olosho
Your mother, your sisters, you nieces, even your unborn daughters are olosho, not me. Enemy of progress. Azeh

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Thunderfayayou: 10:34pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always

Na people.like you keep this country like this. Do us a favor this night. Drink Snipers this night.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by uwua007: 10:34pm On Nov 17, 2021
[na better spiritual flogging you deserve, lol may God deliver you from this strong spirit of envy amen ]
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always[/quote]
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Nobody: 10:34pm On Nov 17, 2021
U can kill other peoples children when u try and u didn't have yours.

Young witch!!!

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Ishilove: 10:34pm On Nov 17, 2021
ceeceeuwa:

It's worse than witchcraft!
He has the spirit of witchcraft in his life

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by balmofgilead: 10:35pm On Nov 17, 2021
soundOsonic:

The First step to solving a problem is that you know you have a problem. That's a good step already. You are making progress.
You are jealous because of how you were brought up. Your parents or guardians or teachers would have been comparing you to other kids.
It only takes a hit at your self esteem. Rather than celebrating others what you think is "this could have been me." It is not an emotion that propel you out of mediocrity but that which makes you wallow in bitterness. Most Nigerians suffer from this syndrome.
You don't hate others for being successful, No, what you hate is yourself for not been successful.
First understand your yourself, your strength and weakness, make goals that are achievable to make small wins to build up positive mindset. Know your limit and work towards self development.
The journey of success is not a race. It is a climb to the top of a mountain. The people who are celebrated are not those who come first or second but those who finally made it and manage to reach the top


Nicely said. You are wise.
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by keystone123(m): 10:35pm On Nov 17, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:


Your thoughts are already evil. In fact, your thoughts are a greater evil than any action conceivable.

You should kill yourself. Do your family a favor

Be human for once Bro... Check yourself too. You are facing the same challenge is facing. The op call for help. You cannot render solution but for him to go and kill himself. Your own worst. Nobody is 100% perfect, we are working on our perfection daily. Stop casting the stone on the op.. Check yourself first

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Joseph08(m): 10:37pm On Nov 17, 2021
That means you're part of Frenemies angry

We have a Pastor in the house, where's Righteousness2 when you need him Please help me and lay hands on him and anoint as well.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Gentlechika(m): 10:37pm On Nov 17, 2021
michlins:
Your feelings are natural. You just need to tame it and channel that emotions into hustling to get what you want
best reply
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by mailemy(m): 10:38pm On Nov 17, 2021
You are the one getting it wrong. That's pure wickedenss and evil heart right in your thought even without taking action.
Icouldhave:


Lies.


I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.


I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.


I want to be the number one guy.


I want to be the giver always
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Jmichael1(m): 10:40pm On Nov 17, 2021
Ekpekus:
Nor be juju be that?

my brother dis one pass juju ooh,even buhari will be shock wen he cum across dis open confession..
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Zeel007: 10:41pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I
although that's a bad kindest. Just move closer to God, you will have a renew mind as time goes by. It might not be immediately. But as you study the scripture and pray. You will gradually change .

And note we brought nothing to this world and neither are we leaving with anything.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by MrMacinterchi1: 10:41pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always
this attitude can kill you easily.
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by osaweseforme(m): 10:42pm On Nov 17, 2021
You seriously need deliverance, I mean you are not ordinary, haba! In a world of at most 100years you will die, you are there hating people.......kneel down let's pray for you

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Rexymania(m): 10:42pm On Nov 17, 2021
As harsh as it could sound, that was very funny



AllKnowing:
You just need to die nothing else.

MODIFIED:

People like OP grow up to be:
1. Wicked politicians that impoverish their constituents so only their families live in abundance.

2. Lecturers who demand blocking or sex for grades.

3. That your uncle who goes diabolical to kill your father because he was able to train you to the university.

4. That policeman who opens fire on a group of boys in a sleek Mercedes S-class only because he didn’t enjoy such privileges when he was a youngster.
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by foreshore(m): 10:43pm On Nov 17, 2021
Icouldhave:
I just can't help myself, right since I was a little kid. I get jealous easily.

I want everything to be just me alone, I want to be the one to have money then give it out to people.

I hate it when people gives me money, it anolds me, makes me feel less.


Please how do I contain this attitude of mine.


Ps

I don't do bad.

Neither do I do evil.

I just want to be the one running everything in my family or any place I find myself.

I want to be the number one guy


I want to be the giver always


All you need is Jesus in your life. Give your life to Christ and your problem will disappear
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Jmichael1(m): 10:44pm On Nov 17, 2021
Himtulie247:
Just become a Politician lipsrsealed

guy u no get conscience ooh,if dis kind person mistakly becum politician that means buhari na saint nah,bcus dis one go compete wit devil himslf.
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by olusamuel01: 10:44pm On Nov 17, 2021
michlins:
Your feelings are natural. You just need to tame it and channel that emotions into hustling to get what you want
This is the only sane and truthful person in this entire comment section. Humans generally are selfish. Nothing is wrong with you bro, you just need to consciously control it.

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Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by JJBROS(m): 10:45pm On Nov 17, 2021
You are a notorious wizard of the first Order. The person that u reincarnated from is Satan second in command
Re: I Hate Seeing People Succeed Including Family Members by Jmichael1(m): 10:46pm On Nov 17, 2021
Sirchiboy:
. Nothing is wrong with you bro. You are very ok Please start the blessing with me. I need 100k to settle my rent.
hahahahaha funny guy

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