Stupid...!

Whenever the thought creeps to your consciousness, speak in tongues.
Covetousness and theft can't stand Holy Spirit.

May God deliver you, Hanty

soundOsonic:
Seduce him? I doubtt he will fall. If you were that good looking the wife wouldn't invite you for dinner.
On a serious note I am saying the truth. Like it or hate it, you know the truth

Most times, housewives are prettier and more supportive than side chicks. U be learner.

The wife feels less intimidated because she has a better look.

And the wife should be

Simply leave the house.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

Ashawo..i will insult you.Face your young relationship and leave person husband alone.Home wrecker oshi.Set awon i'm dating a married man. THUNDER fire you there.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

Abeg getaut

I think you should move out of that area.. That's the best option for you

Attention Seeker

Ishilove:

It is natural to develop feelings, what is wrong is acting on those feelings. Only you can control the outcome. Be wise and don't repay good with evil

Lol. Troll post.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

One hard fact of life is that there are things we can never have because it is morally, spiritually and even psychologically wrong.

All I can say is God give you the grace to tell yourself the truth

What can you do to stop the feeling?
Honestly, I don't know. However, please don't pay their good deeds with evil by doing anything stupid with the man.

advanceDNA:


U seem to reason in a weird way...if I don’t know you on this forum, I would have thought you are 14 years old....how can you assume everyone will choose polygamy over monogamy because of money..... is money the only thing driving your faculties.??cos it’s surprising how you would automatically think so if others

I guess you will shout for joy and gladness when you 22 year daughter comes home with a man with multiple wives as her husband to be?
Of course you won’t be happy...because You are the hypocrite here..

men like you think other people’s daughters should gladly accept going to a polygamous home because U feel its a natural for community penis like yourself to jump from one pvssy to another..

u are so driven with the polygamous idea that u advised a single young woman with a moment of weakness, lusting after someone else’s husband that polygamy would have solved her problem..
you ddnt even mind that she would be hurting and destabilizing a peaceful family....nigga...it’s not everytime a man should think with his penis..

There is no hypocrisy from my part...I state facts...and it’s simple... no woman is happy sharing her man with other women... women who do it only do so out of desperation or lack of choice...

.if you doubt it, you can take a survey of just 200 women and see their response

I can bet my left testicles on it that you are either a teenager or mentally immature. Of course if you are 25years or lower i can confidently be your dad.

When people like me write on romance or marital issues you should just learn or shush rather than pour your emotions blindly on a matter you are so naive about.

I put it to you again that 8 out of 10 ladies will glady be a baby mama, a side dish or 100th wife of a billionaire rather than be the only wife of a broke man INCLUDING YOU.

How come it is the christian ladies that wail over this matter? who are you compared to extremely beautiful Muslim ladies all over the world who are happy in their polygamous marriages? and let me shock you, your husband or boyfriend is most likely with other women but because they know how immature you are, they will hide it from you and when you find out you will possibly leave him to start sleeping with different men in the bid to have a faithful man to yourself until you have been so used like a s.x toy by many men and that is when your brain will grasp the fact that men are polygamous and ONLY A FOOLISH LADY EXPECTS TO HAVE A MAN TO HERSELF. And that is the path you are presently.

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

You can't put up this and expect that Niggies will not load you some barrage of insults... Just keep off.

You are not human admiring someone else, you are tool been used by the devil to cause confusion and temptation, change your attitude and focus on growing your own relationship

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

I will only say "Don't be stupid". There is that which seems right to man but the end is destruction.

My dear...
Please, in the name of whatever you believe in, steer clear from anything that will destroy that family.
It will never end well if you follow your heart in that regards.... Ha ji kwara gị Offor!

I'll advice you to relocate from your current neighborhood to avoid temptaions.. Peace out.

I'll advice you to relocate from your current neighborhood to avoid temptation. Peace out.

BennyDon:
Whenever the thought creeps to your consciousness, speak in tongues.
Covetousness and theft can't stand Holy Spirit.

May God deliver you, Hanty

I agree that covetousness is when you want what belongs to another person but in this case she is not really coveting the man cos the man may choose to be polygamous meaning he does not belong exclusively to his wife.

This thing is deep and only those with deep understanding and objectivity of reasoning can grasp. The tenth commandment expressly says ''Don't covet your neighbours wife''

The act of adultery is when a married lady sleeps with a man that is not her husband. A married man can have concubines and as long as the concubines are not married at the time he has them then there is no issues. A man can not commit adultery until he sleeps with another man's wife or lust/covet(Desires to have) another man's wife.

A single lady can desire a married man as long as the man also wants her and my advice to any single lady who desires a married man is to avoid becoming a side chic. If he wants you as you want him then let him marry you...if he can't do that then its not worth it.

This feeling of yours will not go away, but will continue to grow until it pushes you to satisfy that urge to sleep with ur neighbors husband.

Like fire to fuel it will ignite and burn everything uncontrollably, it will consume you & the couple.

I advice you to relocate, leave that house, leave that area, best of all leave that state & cut all ties until u overcome the evil within.

OR

Just go ahead and do the do. Afterall we only leave once, all die na die, just dont start what u cant finish.

Toks2008:


I can bet my left testicles on it that you are either a teenager or mentally immature. Of course if you are 25years or lower i can confidently be your dad.

When people like me write on romance or marital issues you should just learn or shush rather than pour your emotions blindly on a matter you are so naive about.

I put it to you again that 8 out of 10 ladies will glady be a baby mama, a side dish or 100th wife of a billionaire rather than be the only wife of a broke man INCLUDING YOU.

How come it is the christian ladies that wail over this matter? who are you compared to extremely beautiful Muslim ladies all over the world who are happy in their polygamous marriages? and let me shock you, your husband or boyfriend is most likely with other women but because they know how immature you are, they will hide it from you and when you find out you will possibly leave him to start sleeping with different men in the bid to have a faithful man to yourself until you have been so used like a s.x toy by many men and that is when your brain will grasp the fact that men are polygamous and ONLY A FOOLISH LADY EXPECTS TO HAVE A MAN TO HERSELF. And that is the path you are presently.

Mr toks..stop deceiving yourself..
U have a flawed way of reasoning coupled with pride....u don’t even dialogue objectively, yet you expect me to lean from you...nigga spending years on this forum doesn’t make you your opinion the standard..

First you claim all women will gladly chose polygamy because of money.... it’s irritating to to think everyone is driven by money...
now you are fallaciously concluding only christain ladies prefer monogamy....

Muslims ladies accept your polygamous ideology because u use religion to tie their hands in Africa and Islamic States...saying It’s blessing for her to allow her husband have multiple women...I’m not surprised.. ur religion has various strategies of caging women...

Go to the US and see muslim men gladly embracing monogamy....it’s in Africa u community penis can flex muscles about polygamy, claiming it the will of God...that’s the same why you claim it’s the will of God to have Islamic state...
using will of God to deprive people of their right is a norm in most religion.. so I’m not surprised

U stylishly skipped the part where I asked if you’ll be happy your 22 year old daughter comes home with a man of multiple wives....u can’t truthfully answer that because u know u would want better for her....

Again... u claims about women is just irritating.
I’ve seen muslim men that don’t want polygamy both in this country and abroad, so your point that only foolish women want monogamy is not only invalid, but lacks sense..

Danielkelly:

It not a crime to admire someone, its rare to find such men, go ahead and fk him, men are very generous.

. May the same happen to your sisters married or not and your daughters since you feel what she is doing is right… stupid people everywhere

You even sounded bored writing this post.

I enjoyed the story though but funnily the man can be thinking and having same feelings for you.
Going forward, you need to vacate the house cus feelings like that don't die and since you not married, it may start telling on your young relationship as well.

So be guided!!!
Abi we need measure Sense gve yu?

I for like say just one word but I will pass

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

this is just an obsession, just hang in there, don't do anything stupid and with time you will eventually overcome it.

Remember what you sow, you will reap. If you break someone hime, the same will happen to you whenever you get married. They say, a word is enuf for the wise

The unpopular truth is that that married man is already reading your steps and seeing through you.
He's probably trying to think how to get you to bed. It's an adventure most men love, especially being chased by a hot gal.
Don't beat ursef.....The man already hatching a plan how to get you, only not sure of the repercussions, and only just don't want to appear unfaithful and immoral, if only you can make him feel less responsible, he will become ur lover secretly. Trust me.
.
I've been in that shoe. In my case I was a single living in a flat, while neighbor, landlady's daughter, a single mom was staying with her mom.....
We end up knacking. She told me how she already fell for me a long while, but dint know how to go abt it as a responsibly looking landlord daughter .

Na fvck..u no killl., Sha no geh Belle. If u end up fvcking him...it's a moral problem for both of us..not for u alone

Kinzo0917:
. May the same happen to your sisters married or not and your daughters since you feel what she is doing is right… stupid people everywhere

MENTION INGORNED.

advanceDNA:


Mr toks..stop deceiving yourself..
U have a flawed way of reasoning coupled with pride....u don’t even dialogue objectively, yet you expect me to lean from you...nigga spending years on this forum doesn’t make you your opinion the standard..

First you claim all women will gladly chose polygamy because of money.... it’s irritating to to think everyone is driven by money...
now you are fallaciously concluding only christain ladies prefer monogamy....

Muslims ladies accept your polygamous ideology because u use religion to tie their hands in Africa and Islamic States...saying It’s blessing for her to allow her husband have multiple women...I’m not surprised.. ur religion has various strategies of caging women...

Go to the US and see muslim men gladly embracing monogamy....it’s in Africa u community penis can flex muscles about polygamy, claiming it the will of God...that’s the same why you claim it’s the will of God to have Islamic state...
using will of God to deprive people of their right is a norm in most religion.. so I’m not surprised

U stylishly skipped the part where I asked if you’ll be happy your 22 year old daughter comes home with a man of multiple wives....u can’t truthfully answer that because u know u would want better for her....

Again... u claims about women is just irritating.
I’ve seen muslim men that don’t want polygamy both in this country and abroad, so your point that only foolish women want monogamy is not only invalid, but lacks sense..

Guy u no geh sense... u are truly a baby, and as Toks2008 said, u can't be older than 24...with very limited experience about life, women, dating, marriage, and women's behavior in their choice of men. Go and sleep and stop writing rubbish. Learn from elders...not ur conditioned juvenile way of reasoning.