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Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by PROPEACE: 1:56pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Born2Breed:Na your Toto? Mind your business! After all, she was probably Born2Breed, just like you. 1 Like |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Valuc: 1:57pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Born2Breed:why u cnt talk without insult.. wots stupid there now.. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by joedave(m): 1:58pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
massinola: You actually didn't tell where exactly the area is or most importantly the state. If it's Lagos, it's easy to handle his matter even without involving the wife's consent at the first instance by just videoing the whole disturbing scenes and reporting to DSRVT being Domestic and Sexual Violence Team at Ministry of Justice in Alausa Secretariat. They will wade in. Or even WRAHP being Women's Right And Health Project, Ikotun and help her report the despicable abuse. If it where to be in other states, then things had to be dealt with according to the pattern of operations in the states or around some of the communities. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 1:58pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Maxymilliano: The police doesn't interfere in "family matters" except if driven by an NGO in charge of women welfare. That is the gospel truth! |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:00pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
massinola: She is so stupid because she is driven by emotions of great sex and stupid love, that is why. Remember women are wired different from men, it is how they feel that matters not whether it makes sense or not. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Valuc: 2:01pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
emmanuelbrown26:really ... Truth is .. the whole people passing without helping are same people like u who thinks the helpless woman is enjoying the abuse.. 1 Like |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Curious345: 2:01pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
emmanuelbrown26:wawuuuu |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Curious345: 2:02pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Kholiwe:get a life.. Olosho dey expire oooo |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:03pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
ogbiwa: If I have a stupid sister that is driven by emotions despite threat to her life, there is nothing I can do about it sorry. Just saying it the way it is. Sorry if I am being blunt because we all know the woman will return back to her vomit - the efulefu she is stupidly in love with if she is rescued. My 2 cents. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Valuc: 2:04pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
yemi1504:can u explain why she is stupid.. cus of love and sex? I pray u don't become enslaved by what others just think you are enjoying |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Jman06(m): 2:05pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Op, mind your business! All the time here we read stories of how ladies take their loving husbands for granted and met out all manner of ill treatment against them. No one raises an eyebrow. And just in this single case of a man trying to reset his wife, you're there forming hero and hoe saver! I just wish that man could do you some strong thing so you can learn how not to poke nose. If you were protecting the little child involved, I would have supported you, but I'm suspecting you have an eye on that man's wife. ![]() ![]() Meanwhile, did the woman complain to you ![]() PS: make una no mind this my post above, I dey vex with women because they're all confused creatures and I'm officially tired of trying to figure out what vagina people want. In short, my head don dey pain me sef. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:09pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Doubleoh7: Good advice here but the woman had better willing to leave this pathetic situation that is oju e ti da wai pelu gbogbo wahala to n koju. If not, it is like pouring water into a basket. She must be ready to make the change herself not you! If not, you know how it all ends! If she is willing to make the change, report the case to a Social Services NGO and the Lagos Ministry of Women and Children Affairs especially the latter. If she is not willing to make the change, mind your business! as e get why. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:11pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Valuc: I can't be enslaved when my thinking faculty is not driven by emotions unlike the woman in the story here. Sorry, just saying it the way it is. #Blunt |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by massinola(m): 2:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Jman06: And in a bid to register your dissatisfaction and frustration, you had to accuse me of having an eye for a married woman because I was helping humanity? You are so pathetic and should always weigh your words before using them. Good day 3 Likes |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:15pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Realdeals: You can say that again! and an indisputable amnesia of bad experiences and our religions are the fault here as they tell you to forgive your enemies and then forget, I have an issue with the second one of forget, it is why people get away with blue murder and we have created a society where there are no consequences for actions taken, that is why it is a shithole! |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:17pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
awa: The humanity in us is trampled when the person who is the victim is driven by stupid emotions as we all know how it ends anyways. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by KosiGee(m): 2:19pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
massinola: Welldone sir….I think you have done very well. This is one of the best news I’ve read on this platform. I applaud your concerns, feelings and intervention in that case. You have conscience and a good heart. That man is a threat to his family and this is an emergency. He would inflict gbh on one or some of them soon. He might even commit murder. I think you should organise like minded adults in that neighbourhood….invite or call that man and talk to him in a very strict and assertive manner. He needs to understand the implications of his foolishness and violence. If he continues, bad things will happen and he’d blame the devil. I think you guys should invite the police as well…let it be a peace talk but let the implications of his stupidity and wickedness be made known to him, you’ll be protected as well should he start planning evil against you which I don’t think he would. He is a coward and might have been terrified by what you did. You have done well. Keeping quiet or ‘minding your business’ isn’t an option. I understand your mindset and you’ll never forgive yourself if something bad ever happened to the woman or her unfortunate kids. I have been in your position. You are a hero. Organise men/adults in the hood and meet the man. He is the problem. It’s not likely he’d stop drinking but let him be aware that all eyes will be on him and it wouldn’t be business as usual. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Curious345: 2:20pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Kholiwe:from 30yrs, your olosho clients go dey flash you oo, na you go dey call them... I can see you're like 33 yrs already.. More life baby, more life.. You fine small shaa |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Valuc: 2:20pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
yemi1504:u wudnt know this... But u are already enslaved by that act of being blunt because u are not seeing the diff between blunt and respect 1 Like |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:20pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
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Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Jman06(m): 2:21pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
massinola:You are not helping any humanity. If you wanted to help humanity, you should have just taken away the small child, called the man and speak to him man to man. Perhaps, you need a crash course on how to help humanity! But what you did is "operation save the hoe" and that attitude is that of pathetically beta SIMPle guys! Real guys don't do that! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:23pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: But your ilk seems to like such kind of men as they are the "African man" and can protect you lol. Protector turned wife beater and body panel beater lol, yeye dey smell. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by massinola(m): 2:26pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Jman06: Suit yourself bro. Don't have time for this. It's not worth it 2 Likes |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by BluntCrazeMan: 2:26pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Maxymilliano:Does she have the money to waste on police?? Or you think police cases are free-of-charge?? |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:27pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
BluntTheApostle: What I just wanted to say as Booda yii soju abe ni ko. Two bottles of mortuary standard Trophy beers for you my man! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:31pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Valuc: I am not. Being blunt is more key than useless respect bro! Respect is earned no matter what age you are, it is the reason Africa is backwards, the respect for elders and politicians who are complete disasters. I rest my case. Done lecturing you. Future replies and mentions will get no reply. Good day! |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Testimony1988(m): 2:36pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Go and report him in the police station before he eventually kills her. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Kelvinhunta: 2:39pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Not madder than u Kholiwe: |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Kelvinhunta: 2:41pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
At least made sense more than u just did massinola: |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 2:41pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
BluntTheApostle: Abi, some of them can sell their bodies for money to men or be community sluts and still get married to unsuspecting church brothers who is thinking he is lucky he got a Soyoyo, he can never date in her prime not knowing she is an ajadi apere and a borehole SMH. A case of eating your cake and having it at the same time! |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Llyodsjids(m): 2:43pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Lordswazz:I used to think like this too, until I realized, there are alot of things that goes down behind the scenes Hence the street saying "mind your business" By the way Op, you are a great guy, stuffs like that annoys the hell outta me but the irony is that the whole world might eventually blame you after the whole episode. |
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