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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:31pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
typing... [3] In this thread we focus on the substance and truthfulness of ideas and opinions. As long as a person (or group) hasn't violated the rules or defied the purpose of this thread or played mischievous games, never should you deviate from his arguments and opinion and make presumptions or imply things about his personality or life. It is silly and childish, especially when you have never met this person in real life. It is emotional, feminine and not what we do here. Highest, you state your different opinion or take, everyone agrees to disagree and move on; it is that simple. If you cannot focus on the opinion or take, you can ignore. No need to start implying that people are miserable lots, losers, inadequate or disgruntled folks who haven't go out there, had success in certain aspects and seen things... all for simply thinking differently; it serves no productive purpose here and it scores no point here. Going by a faulty logic here, I could call that "hyperventilation" or whine. Finally, conflating a feminist generalisation with someone's generalisation for the purpose of lending credence to the falsehood of the latter is a cheap emotional technique that detractors, especially women, use when trying to demolish red pill facts that apply to all women. For this same reason they even try to paint redpillers and mgtow as the male equivalent of radical feminists. It is not a new thing. IF that is what was being done here (I COULD BE WRONG), no one should try such again. [4] (a) If you think marriage is wonderful and the getting married is fine, that's okay. If you think marriage is slavery and that getting married is an enslavement of self, that's okay. Everyone has the liberty to hold and express their views here as long as they are not blue pill nonsense (since this is a red pill thread. There are hundreds of threads for you if you find what is said here disappointing and unacceptable; you can even start your own thread. No need for anyone to force what is not. There is no gold medal or money given to anyone who scores a point). If you express your flattering opinion about marriage, I am sure no one will think you are trying to impose marriage on others or imply that getting married makes you a redpiller. Why should it be different when a set of people, who haven't violated the purpose and rules of this thread, hold and simply express unflattering views about marriage? It is not logical and it just doesn't make sense. Already, we know that perspectives and background differ and it is okay for people to hold different views and opinions and it is understandable that such happens, why then should anyone be ruffled and worked up over anti-marriage opinions to the extent of making silly assumptions, logical lapses and underhanded personal attack? Even among redpillers, opinions differ since not everyone is at the same level of red pill awareness. Pro-marriage folks will always express favourable attitude towards marriage while those that are against marriage will express critical attitude towards it. Deal with this, and I say this to both sides. Engage in productive discussions with utmost civility. Highest, agree to disagree. No need for name calling, silly assumptions about people's personality/lives, running off on impression that no one ever gave you, and underhanded personal attack. Stop it! As I said, being open-minded enough to be able understand that people's opinions, lifestyles, interests and aspirations are different from yours without getting worked up about a different opinion is a hallmark of maturity. Grow up! Typing... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 5:34pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Okay. Somebody’s gf/fiancée 21 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 5:37pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 5:40pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Truth. 16 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ichidodo: 5:43pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Tonnyray:Jailbird?...I like that better than being a 49 year old whizzbag way past his prime..So past his prime that he has become anachronistic to an idealogy such as redpill that gives so so much power to men, especially young men, that they literally rewrite their destinies...He envys that....The youth merged with such powers...Tis obscene..A sacrilege as a matter of fact..He wants that too..Maybe if he knew then in his youth what he knows now he could have had a good chance of rewritting other than this hollow and empty void he calls his life right now...But you can't teach an old dog new tricks, so what does this old dog do to get by??.... He poisons the waterhole ,lest young men drink and be the best version of themselves and live the best lives they ever had,somewhat with blue pill sh*t and hopes nobody notices..What a sad way to live, bro. 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:46pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Typing... [4] (b) Obviously, the fact that a discussion is dominating this thread at a particular time or has gone on for a while doesn't mean the themes of the discussion is what the red pill is ALL about. It doesn't mean the speaker (or speakers) are imposing anything on anyone or infusing the themes of their discussions into the red pill. Allow a discussion to run its course, just like other discussions; get out of your feelings. For example, a while back, someone was talking about his observation and experiences in the escapades of married women and a lot of people were following. Instead of certain people to pick out the red pill lessons from the account or ignore, they played the moral champions, made an issue out of nothing, misconstrued the message and wrongly claimed the speaker was encouraging sex with married women and making it what the red pill is about. This was clearly not the case; even after many clarification from the speaker, the moral champions kept savaging him. They started morally condemning him as though their condemnation will make them feel better or change the reality of what he is speaking about, one of the many things this thread was created for. It was an eyesore to see people bringing morality into an area that doesn't entail morality; some didn't even really understand or know about the amoral nature of the red pill. Also, the fact that others here are silent on someone's moral choices doesn't mean that they endorse them, instead they simply realise that all sorts of moral compasses are here and morality is not to be made an issue HERE. Another example is the misrepresentation of Ubunja's observation on bad boys and lowlives. His observation and take were misconstrued as endorsement and encouragement of being a lowlife. Also, they were misconstrued as preachments on how being a lowlife makes you redpilled. Rather than note the reality he was trying to unveil, emotions and the need to score cheap points ran amok. These errors were due to emotions and running off on impression that no one gave. Simple logic and due diligence would have corrected these. There many more examples (I picked these because they are recent), but my point is clear. Someone giving an unflattering opinion on marriage doesn't mean they are saying being a redpiller means you will shun marriage. It also doesn't mean that they are imposing being single for life on you. Even some few redpillers have been guilty of this (usually when it deals with the amoral nature of the red pill). This mistake will be likely made in future, so take note. Let's be logical. Typing... 18 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 5:59pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:Lol. Na we we na If you roger your aza I go monetize the mic and wine with my widower's mite. I actually owe over 80% of the wisdom I've garnered on this thread to you bro. No kidding. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:03pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
typing... This is useful for those who will be opportuned to coach a newbie in the red pill. It could be your brother, friend or an acquaintance. I had to touch this point as it occurred to me. [5] (a) Whether we like it or not, red pill is not mainstream. Not many can handle it; it is bitter and harsh and uncomfortable to many, especially the conventional mind. This is true especially when you dive deep. The revelations it gives, especially the deep ones, can make the conventional mind think it is some misogynistic, counterintuitive, toxic, bitter, vile, dysfunctional and immoral stuff. Lol. If red pill becomes mainstream, it will get watered-down and diluted to accommodate people's feelings. Redpillers are a minority and the red pill is an aberration from conventional thoughts. [5] (b) Suppose you feel or think a particular person appears disgruntled at the red pill truths he has come across and began to accept, do not foolishly assume he is not a redpiller or he is seeing women as his problem in life. This doesn't make sense. Don't assume he is a loser who hasn't gone out there to conquer or he is unsuccessful. This isn't productive and it does nothing. Don't expect from him the calm and indifferent attitude of a core redpiller towards red pill truths and do not point fingers at him for not having such attitude. Approach the situation with understanding knowing fully well that people are at different stages of red pill growth; you don't know for sure the level someone is at. Some are still in the rage phase (redpillers should know this) and they will outgrow it with time; other core redpillers passed through this phase (it can happen to anyone regardless of your social status). For some, the red pill hasn't sank deep yet. It is only a matter of time. Some overcome this phase quickly while some took more time; this is because people are different. Even past experiences play a role. Someone who has been brutally and endlessly played in the past and has been savaged to the utmost by the unforgiving manipulative claws of female nature during his blue pill days will rage more the moment the red pill truths start dawning on him and it will take him time the get out of the rage phase. Allow a person's growth to take its course, just as yours did. Some are past the rage phase and are newly acquainting themselves with red pill truth, but they still have blue pill expectations from women, especially ethical and moral expectations. This is also a phase common among people who are new to the red pill, especially newbies who haven't taken time to dive deep and ruminate on what they've learnt. Las las, everyone will come to a point where they make peace with reality, abandon certain illusions and stop trying to change what they cannot change. If you didn't pass through the rage phase, good for you. It doesn't change the fact that it is a phenomenon common with the transition from the blue pill state to the red pill state. To think otherwise is either naivety or dishonesty. If you spent a short time in that phase, good for you. I spent a short time (few days) as a teenager in that phase and I simply moved on. One must realise that the blue pill isn't just a system of lies and delusions, it is also people's lives, devotion and the profund conditioning of the male mind from birth. Usually it is not easy for a bluepiller (even any human) to accept that his life has been devoted to lies and delusions and hence all a waste in a particular aspect, especially when such lies and delusions have left him vulnerable and when he realises he would have done things differently with his life in a particular aspect. If care isn't taken, denial may impede his transition since it is painful to admit how he has wasted an aspect of his one and only life on a lie. I believe we can put ourselves in the shoes of such a person. It is similar to when some religious people become convinced FOR SOME REASON that God and the sweet afterlife are all falsehoods. The more one has spent time and invested in a religion, found solace in it and made sacrifices for it, the more disgruntled and vexed he feels when deconverting, especially when you compare him to a teenager who never took religion seriously, but deconverted. I am not saying God and the afterlife are falsehoods, instead I am hoping that those who have been deconverted, changed religion or disentangled themselves from a cult can further relate with my example. Fortunately, the rage phase and blue pill expectations do not last. Time and more red pill will annihilate such from one's system. typing... 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oyin2212(m): 6:03pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
heartofcity12:Aswear you're right. Someone is now a junky for having standards. SMH 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:09pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
typing.... ======= Some of what I wrote pertain to what happened recently, some don't. All is for our edification and improvement in the way things are handle here. Make of what you will about what I have written and no one should see this as an attack directed at anyone or an emotional response. Finally, concerning the clash that transpired recently, I wasn't impressed with both sides. Some people were guilty of putting words inside the mouth of some in certain instances; some people were guilty of making silly assumptions. I don't have strength to go into details. Some people from both sides no try in certain instances. The discourse betrayed logic. I believe we can do better. I don't know about others, but I harbour no hard feelings towards anyone. Cheers! The end. 13 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
This is useful for those who will be opportuned to coach a newbie in the red pill. It could be your brother, friend or an acquaintance. I had to touch this point as it occurred to me.This has been amended. I meant "this", not "his." Typo. Cheers! 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 6:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Oyin2212: Yeah, ‘redpill junky’ and ‘complainant’. Wonderful. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 6:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Tonnyray:Men, understand this one thing, you are constantly being asked one question. Life, those challenges, whether in school, financial difficulties, the difficult childhood, the uncaring parent, that failed relationship, the nagging unsupportive wife, the betrayal from friends, the treacherous business terrain..... in fact all of the vicissitudes of life are asking you just one question: WHO ARE YOU? 15 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 6:14pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
heartofcity12: Honestly I don't support it too. How can you date the same woman for multiple years and you still don't know what you want. In as much as he is wasting her time. He is also wasting his own time too. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by obinna58(m): 6:28pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Jeremani:You did far more than enough for her 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 6:38pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
MJBOLT: Nigga You See NYSC babes. Just leave them. When I used to work in my school as an IT staff. Whenever married female students want to go for service you will notice some changes. 1. They will stop wearing their wedding rings. 2. Their skin tone will lighten up. 3. The way they dress will change. (You know na). 4. They will beg you, even pay you to change their state of service. This is because they are supposed to serve in their state of residence as married women. This is not the case with all of them but most of them do it. Especially the young ones that married early. If your relationship with a woman can survive the attacks of school and NYSC. That relationship is strong like vibranium. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 6:53pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Tonnyray:Who are you? Fully and boldly encrypted in that question is WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE? As it is almost impossible to define a phone, a television, a car or an airplane without detailing it's purpose, same way you are without meaning, without definition if you are without a purpose. Every man has a unique purpose, The only purpose a woman has is to help a man fulfil his. This is the sole reason why 99% of advances in civilization is attributable to men. We are the ones divinely endowed, teleologically incorporated and mandated to build, to rule, to dominate and refine creation. The bedrock of almost all man/woman issues is when a man who is yet to even define himself/his purpose, rather than pedestalize and prioritize this essential, vital and noble task, seeks out a woman/women instead. More often than not a woman that isn't even self taught to fulfil her own purpose of creating the ideal ambience for a purposeful man to enjoy peace in and from his labors, and to nurture his children in the same clime of affectionate warmth and beauty... rather women that are themselves more often than not leeches just waiting to secure a perfect host.. as we have seen grotesquely displayed in alarming dimensions in recent generations. This my brothers is the recipe for the catastrophe we see all around us.... (to be continued as time permits) 14 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 6:56pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Men look for strength in women, women look for weaknesses in men,men care about women,women care only to use men, that's reality, that's life, the earlier you make peace with these in your redpill journey, the better it will be for you, delusion is unacceptable as a man especially in the mordern age we find ourselves 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 7:08pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM: This is a lie Men are just the same as women but easier to manipulate... They try to buy women with money and gifts so that they can enter their pussy while women offer men the dream of a night in their arms while collecting their money. Women have a higher bargaining power because they can work for their money while men can get pussy from anywhere apart from women Men were easily deceived that loving a woman and giving her all your resources, trying harder and doing everything for women makes you a man. The reason they believe this is because men have a lower bargaining power, men want women more than women want men. men care only to use women,women care only to use men, that's reality, that's life 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Tonnyray: Oya na....make I naka you DM Na once December go stew! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 7:20pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:Sure bro 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Reminderz: 7:27pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Martinez39s:.now you're making sense and chatting matured and unbiased. gbayii... 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 7:31pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
SOZINN:Lol. University and NYSC? Don't mention. God wouldn't have chosen Virgin Mary as the mother of Jesus if she had gone to certain NYSC camps in her youth. 12 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 7:53pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
As long as SIMPly Men keep getting pusssy or it equivalents once in a while, the idea of Redpill freedom will forever be lost in them 17 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:55pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Martinez39s:chaii bro u get time 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:58pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Lightway:preposterous 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:25pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
We knew these day was coming America first female president 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by posty56: 8:27pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
today is men international day, but no pim from any angle even Google no celebrate shit, I go Twitter see men international day they trend say make I see post about only for me too click, too see Twitter they promote trans men, dear men you are alone in this world accept the cold truth ,it if you like surround yourself with wife and kids the kids will choose their mother while the mother will choose the children over you. 32 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by posty56: 8:40pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
how many of you know Pete Davidson, the guy dating Kim Kardashian currently, that guy is a natural redipiller, only am done date Ariana grande, Phoebe Danvers (from Netflix series bridgerton),Kate beckinsale, kim(currently),cazzie David, the worst part is alll this women are richer and more successful than him, but dude gets laid, Seriously, money is not all and all. Got to improve in the game. 14 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:44pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:I remember when we spoke at length about gynocentrism in developed countries, feminism and absurd marital laws, child support laws, and domestic violence laws. We also spoke about the participation of women in position of power. We predicted that Biden might be a trojan horse for the Harris administration. We might be wrong, but let's see how it turns out. Biden will likely come back. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:50pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Oyin2212:Lol. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 8:52pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
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