SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

slimjohn2k5:
Bro, u are not alone. I beg my wife all the time for sex.

Sometimes she said I always ask at the wrong always, she is tired, etc

I have accepted my faith but what I do to get her now is doing somethings she is supposed to do like washing the toilet, I take professional exams, show her result I passed, when she is happy I asked for sex as the reward.

I buy very cheap things that make her happy and ask for sex as reward. I said cheap things like bolé and groundnut, corn, watermelon etc

Just find a spicing point, I feel they need a little tickle

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

SuperStriker:
Lalasticlala, please help expand the audience.

Foodqueen:
Na waoh!

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

MrJavaS:


You are acting like the sex means a lot to you. What you fail to realise is that women enjoy sex as much as ( if not more than ) you do.

Sit her down like a man In control and communicate.

Sanchez01:

Apologies o but if you need to buy your wife something, no matter how little then it is no different from what call girls do. What happens the day you don't buy? No show? Buying stuff as a married man just to have sex with your own wife is a bad idea. Sooner or later, you might need to have that conversation.

MartinsD12:

Maybe you are not sexually compatible sexually with her, are you sure you really date her, you could have find out this on time without marrying her, the truth is that some couples that have this kind of not having a good sexxx relationship are not really compatible, but you say when she is in the mood she gives you, try to talk to her to find out why she is doing you like that.

Nilx:
She said spiritual, lol.

Team virgin or nothing should take note.

Tell her, you ain’t her spirit husband and she should stop expecting you to be spiritual.

Why don’t you consider Spanish goldfly stuff on her or make her desire for it bu other means.

But if na me be you, I go give an excuse whenever she’s in the mood too I will take this as the only solution. She will beg the husband even promise him to be kissing his shoes before work every morning. Fear women wey no like sex; them get spirit husband, and if you go against them, the spirit husband will deal with you in the way you will never never understand what hit you.

SuperStriker:
Good day everyone.
I don't want to cheat on my wife but she cannot cope with my demands for sex. She even told me to control myself and be more spiritual and I am wondering. If I am not controlling myself, I would have cheated on her long ago. I am a fine looking man with many opportunities to cheat. We only have sex when she's ready and wants it, anything outside that is excuse upon excuse. How can a woman I married be telling me to control myself?

TundeWX:

Funny enough this goes on in 80% of marital homes but nobody wanna talk.
Try parading ur gbola around the house more often..lol

Jus joking o ,maybe the next person has something better to say

thesicilian:
When you carry your marital problems to Nairaland, be prepared to get all sorts of advice.

slimjohn2k5:
Bro, u are not alone. I beg my wife all the time for sex.

Sometimes she said I always ask at the wrong always, she is tired, etc

I have accepted my faith but what I do to get her now is doing somethings she is supposed to do like washing the toilet, I take professional exams, show her result I passed, when she is happy I asked for sex as the reward.

I buy very cheap things that make her happy and ask for sex as reward. I said cheap things like bolé and groundnut, corn, watermelon etc

Just find a spicing point, I feel they need a little tickle

Some of us are unmarried n do not understand what happens there. This is the reason marriages are crashing. Some see women as sexual tool, so when they see these resistance they say the woman is bad.

At least op was having sex before it stopped, y not ask him what changed. When he was enjoying it we did not know till the place lock

slimjohn2k5:


You are wrong bro. You cannot just go and meet Ur wife to open leg because your penis stand.

You need to make her happy and put her in the mood. I was thinking like you till I found my way out and I am happy with it

socialmediaman:


Do you have a source for this data?

SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

kay29000:


Hahaha! E no reach that level nah lol.

But on a serious note, women don't understand that Men and Women are not the same when it comes to sexual urges. I try to ask them if they have ever seen a hen chasing a cock for sex. That can never happen cos the male of every specie always has higher sex drive than the female, so that procreation can go on and the specie can multiply. But women always use their own body to judge how a man should feel or not feel. We don't have the same biological makeup.

The urge you're feeling is like a molten magna about to erupt from a volcano or a river that has been dammed for too long. You can't keep containing sexual urge for too long, before the man does something destructive just to relieve himself of that urge. I wish women would read up on this and understand it. We are not the same.

Iyaebe:
Are you truly cute or maybe she's hungry and can't fulfill and satisfy your sexual urge,if non of these is her problems,then Send me DM let's see what's truly the problems and how we can solve it

somehow:


Prostitution within the home

AngelicBeing:
Hian, concubine to the house, wetin person no go read for nairaland.com

Richy4:
U guys are really scaring the unmarried people on these forum... The complaint throughout these week is getting out of handooo haba!!

Eagle360:
You will adapt with time.
It seems you just get married
Responsibility self never hit you, wey you go lose appetite for sex
My own if we had sex on Monday and on Thursday I made approach, she will remind me that we just had sex on Monday, that how many time are we going to be having sex in a week
Even during lockdown that I suppose to be enter without restrictions, complain too much.
She is lazy in sex and I accept her like that, cheating is not an option for me. I love my wife