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Re: Sex Starved Husband by Towma(f): 8:57pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
pappilo: So you turned your kids product of broken home because of sex? Imagine if na woman write this rubbish the kind curse nairalanders for curse am. 7 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Mummyfour(f): 8:58pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
luminouz:And what book or constitution is it written that women must wash toilet, or that if a man does house chores, he has lost his manhood? Abeg what works in one marraige mustn't work in another. The most important thing is if the parties concerned are satisfied with their own arrangements. Marraige requires a lot of patience, tolerance, agreement and compromise. Abeg no be every thing be gra gra as it regards marraige. There should be mutual respect of both parties feelings. I don't care what makes it work. What concerns me is: let it work, and let all be genuinely happy. Case close 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by bukatyne(f): 8:58pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Very pathetic thread on both sides. I will just drop this line: anyone not interested or willing to sexually satisfy their partner (male/female) should not bother about marriage. All forms of sexual abuse are wrong: 1. Withholding sex; 2. Exchanging sex for gifts/cash; 3. Causing intentional injury to a partner during sex (outside BDSM); 4. Not making an effort to satisfy your partner; 5. Performing/incorporating acts that is shameful to the other party 6. etc. Sex (all types) is the thing that done outside marriage is an outright sin. Other activities done together might just be inappropriate or indecent. @stress: If something is very important to you, you make time for it or re-arrange your schedule to fit it in. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by authority2006(m): 8:58pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
AngelicBeing: Is that strange and unheard of? We too like to pretend online 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Curious345: 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
SuperStriker: You write like men with less than 50k in their bank account 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by luminouz(m): 8:59pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
bukatyne:Thank you for asking. It's really simple. Tell her to attend to your needs or you will find someone who can. OP's case is that of 'see finish'. The wife felt since he already married her and he loves her, she can exercise some control over him by weaponising sex, especially since she knows he loves sex. Wasn't the same woman fuqin him as he wanted during courtship? So what changed? And don't gimme that BS about kids and house chores and the likes. Many market women and shop owners close by 10pm-11pm and still fuq their husbands like he wants it. A woman will only be giving you the 'i'm tired' excuse when she knows you won't do shiit about it. If I can marry her and still do my duties in that house, why should she Welch on hers? I love sex and any girl with me knows that. She also knows that if she weaponises that shiit, and refuse to change, I will get another and drive her out. Sex is not my ultimate but when a partner tries to weaponise it on me, I decline and turn the tables. Didn't you read where that married man said he had to wash toilet before the wife gave him sex....WTF is that? Sex weaponisation. 10 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by bukatyne(f): 9:00pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Towma: What do you advise the poster you quoted do in the scenario he painted? 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by TenQ: 9:00pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Simran94:No mam In marriage, even though the Husband should help set the mood for sex, the main responsibility is that of the wife. NOTE: It is impossible to force a woman to have an orgasm if she doesn't want: however, it is too easy to force a man to have an orgam even when he doesn't want it. Meaning that, The dynamics are completely different Its in the brain: when a woman require her husband to turn her on, she has failed Just turn the table around 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by luminouz(m): 9:02pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Mummyfour:How dafuq does that make that man happy or solve any issue? Can't you fuqin see that wife is using sex to control that husband? Or you are too prejudiced to know the difference? ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Newboss(m): 9:03pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Smithroll44: Na man you be. Men need to dey treat these women's fûck up 2 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by LofP(m): 9:04pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Mummyfour:Daddy four is waiting for you, kindly leave Nairaland and attend to him. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by authority2006(m): 9:04pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: Trash. Wife should open if husband has the urge. And husband shouldn't turn the wife down if wife has the urge. That's how you prevent cheating and other problems associated sex starvation in the marriage. You need to make her happy and put her in the mood . I was thinking like you till I found my way out and I am happy with it after4: Lol |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Maobichek: 9:05pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
SuperStriker: ..Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much Conji na bastard oh! I saw a man lustfully looking at a he-goat running after a she-goat; he was lost to the extent that he didn't realize that a car was behind him blowing horn. Of a truth, sex is more than what we know and do, it has a spirit. 4 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by bukatyne(f): 9:06pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
luminouz: Thanks for the response. The bold summaries your solution to the OP using the redpill template. The problem is that if he is a Christian, that advise is void because he only has one legitimate means to meet his sexual need: his wife. He also cannot divorce her because she is unwilling to meet his sexual needs. This is where her parents & spiritual leaders come in if he is insistent he doesn't want to cheat on her. Stories like these get to me: We are against adultery yet we want to sexually abuse our husbands and hold them to ransom. ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by emerged01(m): 9:06pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
SuperStriker:Oga,you are in big problem. In marriage I dont joke with sex. When i need it she will give it to me and I have told her when she needs she should not hesitate to ask for it. Sex is very important in a marriage. If it is not in moderation,guy check yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by TenQ: 9:07pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
market01:It is safe to say that 80% of women have lower libido than their husbands. Your questions are important, but the problem is actually low libido with respect to the women |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Towma(f): 9:09pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
bukatyne: Find out why his wife does not like sex, iff it's because she isn't aroused or in the mood then they should have some pre-intimacy or romantic activities to put her in the mood. They should discover each others bodies, men can easily get aroused but women need to be in the right frame of mind. Is she stressed? Upset about something? Does she think her husband isn't caring enough? They should have discussed to know why she isn't interested in having sex then solved the problem. He should have told her how her actions were seriously affecting him and let her know how important it is for her to change so the marriage can be enjoyable. He as the man was the Head of the home. He is in charge of keeping the home peaceful and running smoothly. Every relationship has problem. Problems in marriage should be worked on and solved, t divorce should not be the solution to marital problems. Nobody will ever support it If a woman had started sleeping around and divorced her husband because he cannot satisfy her but for men it's overlooked as if adultery was forbidden for only women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Nobody: 9:10pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
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Re: Sex Starved Husband by pappilo(m): 9:10pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Towma: You are fool! You evil woman. If you know what I did to keep my kids in a 2 parent home, you wont come here and type this rubbish. As I type this, my kids are here, spending the weekend with me. Fed them good, my boy is on the PS5 and my daughter is on her phone. Daddy is happy, children are happy.... Win, win. My only regret is not leaving that frigid dutty biyatch earlier. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by vickydevoka(m): 9:11pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
O.p start soapy abeg. No carry disease give ur wife |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by jamesversion: 9:11pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
gassbee: Stress na.. Buhari dey make us think too too much. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Thesaint141(m): 9:11pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
And ur Name na Superstriker? |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Nobody: 9:11pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5:We have some extremely intelligent men on Nairaland. You're one of them. I'm not the OP and I'm not married but I've learnt from your comment. It will help when in my relationship and when I get married. Thanks for sharing. 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by angelfallz(m): 9:12pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Is the bolded under Christianity? If not, legally a man can divorce his wife, if his sexual needs aren't being met. bukatyne: |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by LofP(m): 9:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Some Nigerian women use sex as a tool intentionally. They are greedy and manipulative. The best thing is to pay them with their coin, bring STIs back home...��� ![]() ![]() ![]() But on a serious note when a person starts to say you should be more spiritual when sex is a physical thing that even David the King of Israel cherished so much that he sent another man to die so that he could take the man's wife, tell her: SHE IS FULL OF SH*IT. The Bible says marry so you will not burn in lust, yet some human being will tell you that's too unspiritual of you. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Nobody: 9:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:I'm not the OP but I have learnt one or two things from your comment. Quite intelligent and helpful. Thanks for sharing. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Thesaint141(m): 9:13pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
gassbee: 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Sex Starved Husband by TenQ: 9:14pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
bukatyne:Blessed is the wife that know these truths 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Davash222:Have you heard of counselling junkie? work on your mindset |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Amhappy(f): 9:15pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
SuperStriker:Then run down the street but don't grab a mannequin like that boy in the viral video. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by crackhouse(m): 9:15pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
Sex is not food. U should be spiritual by reading your bible... |
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