Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,199,005 members, 7,970,066 topics. Date: Tuesday, 08 October 2024 at 07:58 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please (35286 Views)
Kenny Kehinde's Girlfriend, Precious Chisom Accuses Him Of Domestic Violence / I Want To Rename My Street To Immortalize My Dad. / Fake Marriages Taking Place In Nigeria, Says Immigration Boss (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Nobody: 12:59am On Nov 20, 2021 |
purefacti:Yes? Do you want me to advice the op? Or you mentioned me to make a point that sometimes, domestic violence is the woman's fault? Honestly, I think most women tolerate a lot of bullshit.. but aren't they expected to? How many women have been advised to abandon their cheating husband? Few... We're told to turn a blind eye to his adultery, to ignore that he's a drunk... Women are raised to be wives and mothers... To be resilient... No matter how much it costs us... We are expected to keep the family afloat... I hope for a time when women realise marriage isn't necessity... Or a do or die affair... That they can live on their own as complete individuals... As for people blaming the woman for marrying the man out of lust, it's quite convenient for them to forget that that's most men settle down with women they are only sexually attracted to. If a woman marries a man she desires, it's not a reason to say she deserves being beaten... Everyone makes mistakes... I'm not sure how the op knows that she's not stupidly inlove with the scumbag though... The woman is probably old now... I'm not sure she's still being consumed by lust... All in all, if this were happening in my neighbourhood... I would definitely arrest the man... But you want to know the irony, bitter truth? The police would advice her to back... To try to work things out... And as for welfare? What agency do we have that's truly dedicated to protecting the rights of women? We're nothing more than cattle... To be beaten, raped... That's Nigeria... I have nothing to say... |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by alexola20(m): 5:14am On Nov 20, 2021 |
I stopped pitying women.Yes I stopped pitying them.A lot of them deserve what they are getting. You will be shocked that the same woman put the man in this mess. No man wants to be unfortunate. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Beey(f): 6:02am On Nov 20, 2021 |
massinola:Arrange a few boys to handle that man when drunk & give him a stern warning about touching the wives or kids. Option 2 would be to arrange for a soldier to act as I though he lives in the neighborhood. Let him warn that man against touching his wife and children or he’ll expire.LOL all acting though. See how that works out. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by aldonem(m): 8:09am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Our women are not courageous enough to leave marriages due to domestic violence especially the uneducated and unestablished ones. its so pathetic. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by stacyadams: 10:59am On Nov 20, 2021 |
aldonem: How can they leave when they depend solely on men.. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 1:25pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Mancrossfire: You can say that again! But they will say that is how they were wired choosing how they feel over common sense. 1 Like |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Lokojatoofar: 2:39pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
yemi1504: Some women consider violence to mean love o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by yemi1504: 3:09pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Lokojatoofar: |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by purefacti(m): 4:06pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
Datboredberry: what a long speech anyway the reason why I tagged you is that i thought that maybe u would know somebody that know somebody that can her situation i really felt for her if her situation is as bad as op potrays |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by Nobody: 5:09pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
purefacti: Don't mind me... I honestly know no one... I've lost hope in the system... |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by zoedew: 9:53pm On Nov 20, 2021 |
massinola:Lodge a complaint at the nearest police station and ask for police protection. The police should charge him to court appropriately and bind him over to keep the peace in the neighbourhood. Do it in good time before your life is imperilled. |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by purefacti(m): 4:51pm On Nov 21, 2021 |
Datboredberry: ok but losing hope is not the best as far as we are still breathing there is hope so we keep pushing till our mission is accomplished remember rome is not built in a day a journey of a thousand steps begins with a step never give up and may the good Lord bless our hustle |
Re: Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please by TheKingsmann(m): 7:12pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
Kholiwe:Mynd44, justwise, seun Rule 2 |
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply)
My Husbands Brother Is Breaking My Marriage / Eghosa Agbonifo Takes Wife To Greece, 10 Years After Being Ridiculed / She Went Back To Her Abusive Husband
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 41 |