I clocked 36 years 2 months ago, I look fit for my age compared to many Nigerians(I realised most Nigerians dont pay attention to their physical fitness).
I have been outside of the country and just got back with the aim of trying to get a wife.
Am I too old to expect to find a decent woman ?
What suggestions do you have with regards to getting a good woman in the shortest possible time ?
Thanks all.

Too late ke? Well, you could get lucky but I doubt you'd find true love but as long as she knows her responsibility as a wife, you good. Love may come after marriage.

AutoChick4U:
Too late ke? Well, you could get lucky but I doubt you'd find true love but as long as she knows her responsibility as a wife, you good. Love may come after marriage.

What is the best way to get a good wife in Nigeria these days ?

Which one is if its too old to find a wife at 36 again? Smh

Some of your age mates are already having children 10 yrs old. You are here asking a childish question. No, wait till you are 56 before you start to look for her if 36 is late. Ned married Regina at 59. If a man of 36 is asking a childish question like this, it means a lady of 36 should forget marriage

Afamsi:
Some of your age mates are already having children 10 yrs old. You are here asking... No wait till you are 56 before your start to look for her

Shut up! He came for an advise and if you're too dull to provide one, then seal your filthy mouth.

There's no age limit to finding a spouse. You just gotta be ready for it emotionally, mentally, physically etc. Most especially you gotta be financially buoyant!

I wish you the best.

NarcissistKing:


Shut up! He came for an advise and if you're too dull to provide ones, then seal your filthy mouth.

Ogogoro Warrior tuale

oldienavie:

What is the best way to get a good wife in Nigeria these days ?

Referral, church, village. Basically you can meet a kind hearted wife anywhere.

Afamsi:
Ogogoro Warrior tuale

Kid!

Afamsi:
Some of your age mates are already having children 10 yrs old. You are here asking... No wait till you are 56 before your start to look for her

Too harsh. Calm down, he probably doesn't wanna make a mistake.

AutoChick4U:
Referral, church, village. Basically you can meet a kind hearted wife anywhere.

All the options you gave should not be followed. He should go and get himself what he want. Referral and church is very, very risky.

NarcissistKing:


All the options you gave should not be followed. He should go and get himself what he want. Referral and church is very, very risky.

The key is not to make it known that he's searching though.

AutoChick4U:
The key is not to make it known that he's searching though.

Irrespective of that, those options have always turned out sad for many people.

Afamsi:
Some of your age mates are already having children 10 yrs old. You are here asking... No wait till you are 56 before your start to look for her

There's really no need for the comparison.
OP, don't flaunt the ' I stay in 'the' abroad' sha otherwise you might end up meeting people who only want to use you as a means of leaving this country..
No, it isn't too late, just be careful sha.

NarcissistKing:


Irrespective of that, those options have always turned out sad for many people.

So where should he find her? Well, she can be found anywhere.

Not late at all but you need to pray first cos most girls this days are too desperate to be tagged mrs.... especially when they hear the guy came from abroad....talk to God and keep an open heart....no too mumu for love

NarcissistKing:


All the options you gave should not be followed. He should go and get himself what he want. Referral and church is very, very risky.

I am actually avoiding the referral option, but how is church a bad place to get a wife, I understand there are pretenders even in church sha ?
By the way, I am not exposing my abroad status I am just laying low like a regular guy.

AutoChick4U:
So where should he find her? Well, she can be found anywhere.

Exactly, he should spread his tentacles. There are women all over, especially if he is in Lagos. He just have to be smart in this Lagos.

NarcissistKing:


Exactly, he should spread his tentacles. There are women all over, especially if he is in Lagos. He just have to be smart in this Lagos.

Apart from good, he should hook up with one that's attracted to him genuinely sha.

NarcissistKing:


Kid!

Piglet

oldienavie:

I am actually avoiding the referral option, but how is church a bad place to get a wife, I understand there are pretenders even in church sha ?
By the way, I am not exposing my abroad status I am just laying low like a regular guy.

There are lots of places you can meet women. Banks, Restaurants, Conferences, Neighborhood (if you are the type that likes neighborhood girls), Parties etc.

Church is good too, but don't take women at their face value.

oldienavie:

I am actually avoiding the referral option, but how is church a bad place to get a wife, I understand there are pretenders even in church sha ?
By the way, I am not exposing my abroad status I am just laying low like a regular guy.

If possible wear just bathroom slippers to woo her. She should like you for you and not what u can provide

NarcissistKing:


There are lots of places you can meet women. Banks, Restaurants, Conferences, Neighborhood (if you are the type that likes neighborhood girls), Parties etc.

Church is good too, but don't take women at their face value.

I get what you mean, by the way 2 of my other friends came in to Naija to find wife too.
One just returned back last month after spending 7 weeks...
He is from Kogi so he found one babe in his area.
My other guy dey Benin, till he resumes back to work in January .

NarcissistKing:


There are lots of places you can meet women. Banks, Restaurants, Conferences, Neighborhood (if you are the type that likes neighborhood girls), Parties etc.

Church is good too, but don't take women at their face value.

You see why you are a drunken master? Has he not been meeting women? Anu

AutoChick4U:
If possible wear just bathroom slippers to woo her. She should like you for you and not what u can provide

Some people will disagree with this, but I get the point, not to show off is key.

Afamsi:
You see why you are a drunken master? Has he not been meeting women? Anu

If your father had met your mom in the right place, you wouldn't have been in existence. I blame your father for having you as a progeny. I won't indulge you no more, kiddo.

oldienavie:

I get what you mean, by the way 2 of my other friends came in to Naija to find wife too.
One just returned back last month after spending 7 weeks...
He is from Kogi so he found one babe in his area.
My other guy dey Benin, till he resumes back to work in January .

Lol

As long as you're not desperate and in a hurry, you will get a good woman.

NarcissistKing:


If your father had met your mom in the right place, you wouldn't have been in existence. I blame your father for having you as a progeny. I won't indulge you no more, kiddo.

"If my father had met my mother in the right place, I wouldn't have been in existence"? This can only be said by a stupid fool

You are very funny ooo, one Alhaji here, on Friday 60+ old man just marry one small 20years OLD girl.
Oga Abi u no get money tell me now make I donate my last #100 for this your mission
Don't thank me, we rise by lifting others.

Oldienavie, they will flood your PMs with proposals, catfishes included. You for try hide yourself small.

Ishilove:
Oldienavie, they will flood your PMs with proposals, catfishes included. You for try hide yourself small.

I be naija nah... We know as the matter dey go. I am able to handle that.