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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Femeto: 4:05pm On Nov 21, 2021
Omo this breakfast was served without caution.
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Nobody: 4:05pm On Nov 21, 2021
Hmmmm
Some LADIES don't know the secrets many MARRIED MEN are keeping in Pandora's boxes for the sake of peace & ego.

IF many married MEN with kids start telling their kids how their MOTHERS lied to them just to secure marriage, many marriages will end in weeks.
I know what I'm saying...
I'm married and I interact with my Counterparts a lot. Some forgave their wives and moved on.
MEN don't just rusch to social media.
They try to manage situation so as to retain their ego.

They basically forgive when they realised the woman is hardworking & eventually successful in whatever she's doing.

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by kevwemike: 4:09pm On Nov 21, 2021
te author=FutureIsFemale post=107812760]Men are terrible.[/quote] some women are dangerously wicked
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Saao(m): 4:10pm On Nov 21, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Men are terrible.
women are more terrible. How can she not known? Hiaa
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by franchasng: 4:11pm On Nov 21, 2021
The only way all ladies that desire to get married will find a deserving man to marry is for the world to embrace polygamy.



Eligible bachelors are very scarce.


Global terrorism
Drug trafficking
Armed Robbery
Kidnapping for ransom
Cultism
Family fights that target male children
Political thuggery
Agberoism or toutism
and many other social vices have reduced the number or population of men that can marry our single ladies.


A lot of guys who ought to have married are in jail in different countries, some in Nigerian prisons, many have been killed in cult fights, kidnapping, robbery shootouts, terrorism, banditry and money ritual vices, leaving only few population of eligible bachelors.


Mass unemployment and underemployment in Nigeria further reduces the population and make guys aged enough to marry to be scared of getting married for fear of financial supply to cater for their family.


With all these factors, the only way to bridge the gap and increase the chances of our eligible spinsters finding a husband is for us to forget civilisation or religious doctrines and sincerely embrace polygamy to help curb these vices. If not, take it from me, millions of ladies wont ever get married not because they are bad or that they dont have good character but because there wont be enough men to wife them.

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Bola146(f): 4:12pm On Nov 21, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:

Do yourself Good and AVOID MEN..
You may likely regret getting married to one.
Since you HATE MEN this much..
Please avoid them like plague.
Being a spinster is never a sin.
Afterall, if you need kids, you can approach LINDA IKEJI... for tips.

Never get close to marriage if you HATE MEN with disdain, for it will fail in hours.

Na them, I guess you need to lecture your sisters this not me

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by joshuaidibia(m): 4:12pm On Nov 21, 2021
Toks2008:
I just hate it when men lie to ladies just to friend or wife them.
A real man comes clean, a lady who will stay will stay.

That's just wrong. I feel sorry for her. The shame and regrets of dating and almost getting married to someone as heartless and wicked as that. If he can do it to his wife and kids then he'd have been able to do it with her in the future. I commend and respect her bravery. She's strong in heart.

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by pussymonger1: 4:14pm On Nov 21, 2021
SHE MUST BE A CRAZY WEED SMOKER OR A POWERFUL DRUNKER

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Manshot1: 4:14pm On Nov 21, 2021
Yewandequeen:
very

Chai. Won ti do wayre paa. grin
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Parizz: 4:16pm On Nov 21, 2021
Ladycewhy what do you got to say
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by ayenale1(m): 4:16pm On Nov 21, 2021
Even if the lady did not notice/trace anything in their relationship...the banging should have been a point bar to be sceptical... Single guys banging is usually different from married men banging which will raised some questions...only legends can relate...

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Glamouzpeter(f): 4:19pm On Nov 21, 2021
Wow
I love her courage
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by franchasng: 4:20pm On Nov 21, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:
Hmmmm
Some LADIES don't know the secrets many MARRIED MEN are keeping in Pandora's boxes for the sake of peace.

IF many married MEN with kids start telling their kids how their MOTHERS lied to them just to secure marriage, many marriages will end in weeks.
I know what I'm saying...
I'm married and I interact with my Counterparts a lot. Some forgave their wives and moved on.
MEN don't just rusch to social media.
They try to manage situation so as to retain their ego.

They basically forgive when they realised the woman is hardworking & eventually successful in whatever she's doing.
You are very correct.


Men swallow a lot for peace to reign in their home of which women hardly do.


Many married ladies entrapped their husband into marrying them using various lies and entrapments like:


1) false pregnancy belonging to another guy

2) lying that their parents are rich to lure the guy into marrying them

3) some lie that they are graduates when they are not


4) some ladies use love spells to entrap men


5) some will use fake financial support to lure the unprepared young man into marrying them and after marriage the guy will discover she doesnt have a dime or she was secretly sleeping around to get money she was using to fake financial support to the guy


6) some lie about their career or where they work just to entrap a guy into marriage


7) false religious prophecy


and lots more that I cant list here

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Nobody: 4:21pm On Nov 21, 2021
Bola146:


Na them, I guess you need to lecture your sisters this not me
Your DEEP SEATED Hatred for men will likely cost you, your spot in marriage.
U will remember this statement one day & possibly come back to Nairaland creating Topics.
Better AVOID MEN.
That's my Prayer for you.
You are likely going to be a VIPER in one.
So avoid it. My advice will help.
I say this because, I see you entering marriage with so much HATE for the other Gender.
I'm married happily.
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by idexpaul1: 4:22pm On Nov 21, 2021
Perhaps the man's lack of funds was the reason for the wedding's cancellation. I'm sure it'd be the other way around if the man was wealthy.
Nigerian women like money, and indecision is really impacting our 9ja females...
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by TenQ: 4:23pm On Nov 21, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Men are terrible.

Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?

Let's use him and teach other men a lesson.
Thank you.

And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably.
The highlighted is a terrible generalisation to make except you will NEVER decide one day to marry a man.

Some men are terrible is the right phrase to use. Otherwise, you also mean that your Father, Brothers and Uncles are in this category!

Shalom
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Piptocoin: 4:23pm On Nov 21, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Men are terrible.

Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?

Let's use him and teach other men a lesson.
Thank you.

And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably.

Lady, calm down. The ratio of men to women is 20 to 1. The ratio of evil perpetrated by women is twenty times more than that done by men. Calm down and drink tea.

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Nobody: 4:24pm On Nov 21, 2021
But were the signs not there for her to know he is a married man?

May the Lord comfort her.
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by femi4: 4:24pm On Nov 21, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Men are terrible.

Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?

Let's use him and teach other men a lesson.
Thank you.

And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably.
Is it a crime to marry more than one wife

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Nobody: 4:25pm On Nov 21, 2021
franchasng:
You are very correct.


Men swallow a lot for peace to reign in their home of which women hardly do.


Many married ladies entrapped their husband into marrying them using various lies and entrapments like:


1) false pregnancy belonging to another guy

2) lying that their parents are rich to lure the guy into marrying them

3) some lie that they are graduates when they are not


4) some ladies use love spells to entrap men


5) some will use fake financial support to lure the unprepared young man into marrying them and after marriage the guy will discover she doesnt have a dime or she was secretly sleeping around to get money she was using to fake financial support to the guy


6) some lie about their career or where they work just to entrap a guy into marriage


7) false religious prophecy


and lots more that I cant list here
You are correct.
I'm married and happily married to my wife.
I know how women LIE.
But successfully married men try to manage it & move on. Since they have got MONEY to mask everything & people tend to respect RICH Families generally.
MEN who usually confide in others, are Men who may be seeking the face of God for the fruit of the womb or the financially destabilized men.

ELSE MANY MARRIED MEN would have singlehandedly crashed their marriages.
Some prefer to get a second wife rather than divorcing their first wife.
We know all these THINGS.
MEN don't rush to the SOCIAL MEDIA at all.

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by femi4: 4:25pm On Nov 21, 2021
Nuttella:
But were the signs not there for her to know he is married man?

May the Lord comfort her.
If the wife is in another town, it LL be difficult to notice any sign
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Ikea81: 4:26pm On Nov 21, 2021
You don't need to lie to get any woman once you have money and big gbola. I am about to kpensh the lady I will make my third wife by January after two wives and 5kids...... Thank God for his endowments .
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Bola146(f): 4:26pm On Nov 21, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:

Your DEEP SEATED Hatred for men will likely cost you, your spot in marriage.
You will remember this statement and possibly come back to Nairaland creating Topics.
Better AVOID MEN.
That's my Prayer for you.
You are likely going to be a VIPER in one.
So avoid it. My advice will help.
I say this because, I see you entering marriage with so much HATE for the other Gender.
I'm married happily.

Give it to them not me Mr happily married grin face front abeg
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by easiest(m): 4:26pm On Nov 21, 2021
Her account was hacked and use to post that message because she never posted her invitation to the wedding on page page prior to this time, if you send sms to that number you are on your own o
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by fkj950ax(m): 4:27pm On Nov 21, 2021
FutureIsFemale:


Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?

Let's use him and teach other men a lesson.

How will this be achieved?
What law will he be arrested on?
What will the charges be to get him to court?
And will a judge sentence him on that?

We speak of illegal detention by the police, those in government and the connected in society, and you are asking for people to join you in going down that rabbit hole.
You see it is easy to become that which we shout about.
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Nobody: 4:27pm On Nov 21, 2021
What the guy did was wrong.

You lie to a girl and tell her you are single when you are married with three kids.

You lie to a woman who wants a monogamous relationship that you are single , yet you have plans to make her wife number 2

I blame the guy. His dishonesty and lying is why this woman would find it difficult to trust men. Another recruit for the 'men are evil' club gained

All because someone wasn't honest.

If he wanted to be polygamous, find a lady who is ready to be in a polygamous relationship. There are many of them out there. Don't lie to a woman looking for a monogamous relationship

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by franchasng: 4:29pm On Nov 21, 2021
MALIGNANTGuest:

You are correct.
I'm married and happily married to my wife.
I know how women LIE.
But successfully married men try to manage it & move on. Since they have got MONEY to mask everything & people tend to respect RICH Families generally.
MEN who usually confide in others, are Men who may be seeking the face of God for the fruit of the womb or the financially destabilized men


ELSE MANY MARRIED MEN would have singlehandedly crashed their marriage.
Some prefer to get a second wife rather than divorcing their first wife.
We know all these THINGS.
MEN don't rush to the SOCIAL MEDIA at all.
Most times women push their husbands into making some crazy decisions.


I.have a friend who is happily married, and very rich. But unfortunately, his wife has been giving birth to only girl childs through CS, and the last child she had doctors told her not to conceive again because the chances of her surviving it is slim.


My friend is an only son, so he tried to seek for his wife's suggestions on what they should do to get a male child, the woman had no suggestion. My wife suggested surrogacy, the wife got mad at him, he asked what should we do cos I need a male child to continue my lineage, she had no suggestion.


2 years now my friend have taken a drastic decision to impregnate a side chick and as nature have it, she gave birth to a boy.


He said he would inform his wife but maybe in some years to come.


In this case, would you blame the young man cry


Though in the case of the story the op shared, the man is very wrong not to have informed the lady that he was already married. its wrong, totally wrong. every married man.should be proud of his marriage unless otherwise.


There are ladies ready to mingle with you even as a married man. so be honest with them if you want to play away

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Nobody: 4:29pm On Nov 21, 2021
Bola146:


Give it to them not me Mr happily married grin face front abeg
Just Avoid men and Thank me Later.
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Nobody: 4:29pm On Nov 21, 2021
FutureIsFemale:
Men are terrible.

Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?

Let's use him and teach other men a lesson.
Thank you.
Not all men

And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably.
Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by DrFunmisticGlow: 4:30pm On Nov 21, 2021
simple250:
Ladies will never learn do background checks before you say yes , don't be in a hurry to get married.


For the man , he thinks we are still in stone age ,una picture they everywhere for social media.
how does one do a background check?!

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Re: Lady Cancels Her Wedding After Discovering That Her Husband-to-be Is Married by Sttk: 4:32pm On Nov 21, 2021
Really

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