CSTRR:

Its crazy.
Especially if she is woman or the landlord's wife.
dem get time for wahala.

She will be perambulating up and down, monitoring how you cook, eat, sleep or if you are committing fornication with that lady that just visited you.

My own na de landlord o. De woman na better person

solasoulmusic:
Yeah I remember supporting Google … I have had my email since they came out and then the day I wanted to promote music they said my debit card had been listed for fraud.

My crime being an independent artist and entrepreneur who avoids being owed by anyone

Nobody wants to be there for the building process but as soon as it becomes shelter they all want a peice

Omo, na Larry Page dey envy you. With Sergey Brin

Me I had to pack outta my neighborhood make dem no kill me because of ordinary 2012 spider way I just buy

IvarDboneless:
Me I had to pack outta my neighborhood make dem no kill me because of ordinary 2012 spider way I just buy

Truth is you cannot even drive clean 04 Corolla these days as a young dude, without popo chasing you upandan

And they say Nigeria will be great

Nwachi22:


Not all parents.

Exactly.

Prettydevil:
What is with people and envy? Why do people want you to suffer like them before they can be free with you?

Why would a landlady pursue every single tenant who has ever lived in her house once they start buying cars, generators , ac and plasma TVs. The landlady cannot stand a tenant doing well than them because they have none of the appliances I just mentioned.

What is wrong with people? Why do people kill their friends because they are making money? Why do people have an issue with you once you start dressing rich and glowing skin?

Why is envy so strong in the hearts of people?

Na Nigeria poverty and hopelessness cause am

Caboceer:


Truth is you cannot even drive clean 04 Corolla these days as a young dude, without popo chasing you upandan

And they say Nigeria will be great

As in eeh..ee weak me

Financial upliftment generally comes with jealousy n envy especially d poor ones so we hv to be careful

Prettydevil:
What is with people and envy? Why do people want you to suffer like them before they can be free with you?

Why would a landlady pursue every single tenant who has ever lived in her house once they start buying cars, generators , ac and plasma TVs. The landlady cannot stand a tenant doing well than them because they have none of the appliances I just mentioned.

What is wrong with people? Why do people kill their friends because they are making money? Why do people have an issue with you once you start dressing rich and glowing skin?

Why is envy so strong in the hearts of people?

It's because they're pretty devil as your moniker

I think it's only yoruba people ooo...but now I know it's general things....may God dey protect us from evil eyes and don't loose guard too,eniyan o feni foro bi o she ori eni





Check my signature and my profile for my work

SmartPolician:


You should not let that bother you.
Make the money first.
You will relocate, afterwards.
Rich people and poor people don't live together for a reason.
Rich people rarely make friends and marry poor people for a reason.
They don't even think alike.

You spoke the truth here. Just my mind.

Prettydevil:
When I was looking tattered I swear everyone acted like they loved me, while saying “ndooooooo” to me every second. Once I started wearing designers and entering cab while buying bulk fast food takeaways then the hate started, every single day my landlady would have a problem with my front yard, my backyard, my rope, my chair , just with anything I do. Same woman who has never quarrel with me when I was looking like who was about to die of hunger. She couldn’t take the generator I bought so much so this woman said I should park out. I swear till I die I cannot ever believe anybody loves me again except for just my mother

and your father....

Prettydevil:
What is with people and envy? Why do people want you to suffer like them before they can be free with you?

Why would a landlady pursue every single tenant who has ever lived in her house once they start buying cars, generators , ac and plasma TVs. The landlady cannot stand a tenant doing well than them because they have none of the appliances I just mentioned.

What is wrong with people? Why do people kill their friends because they are making money? Why do people have an issue with you once you start dressing rich and glowing skin?

Why is envy so strong in the hearts of people?

The thing tire me it's general things now,eniyan o feni foro bi oshey ori eni,may God dey protect us from evil eyes and make we not loose guard too...once you know your enemy the rest is simple

Use geechy

@op...

Fact be say, guys, i mean the male folk no really get your time whether you live good or not.
The problem is the women that get attracted to your money.
Na dem go report your mata for their WhatsApp group and instigate your fellow man against you

Cos u no longer depend on them

alexola20:
Even some mothers will prefer they are the ones feeding their children and grandkids alike.
They just like to be on top of everything and in command too.
They seek evil powers to achieve this on their children too.

Oh my goodness, you just described what's going on in my mind and my life.

Mutaultope:
Just like the open heaven of today


envy is evil ...

some people will never want to see you live a better life , it doesn't matter your level in life , It's already in all of us but most suppress it with the help of God .

1... some have but won't want you to be at their level of better than them

2.... some don't have and won't want you to leave that level you both are ..... just like bachelor friend won't want you to marry just for you not to leave the clique

3... some are just devilish and envy lives in them .

which one are you ?

getting married does not make you successful.... Leave that phase!

Even if u win betting,go dey still envy u say nah big money e use play am.that is y e win...even d pregnant woman they envy themselves,I don't know wetin dey don envy for themselves

One word for it is envy. Some people are always happy seeing you poor and always begging them (that’s because in that state, they can always control you) but once things begin to get better for you, they become uneasy and envious

Truvelisback:
It is better for people to envy u than for them to pity u.

Prettydevil:
When I was looking tattered I swear everyone acted like they loved me, while saying “ndooooooo” to me every second. Once I started wearing designers and entering cab while buying bulk fast food takeaways then the hate started, every single day my landlady would have a problem with my front yard, my backyard, my rope, my chair, just with anything I do. Same woman who has never quarrel with me when I was looking like who was about to die of hunger. She couldn’t take the generator I bought so much so this woman said I should park out. I swear till I die I cannot ever believe anybody loves me again except for just my mother

Ok, let me explain to you what actually happened to your landlady. Now, the bolded indicates misery and so, ones misery tend to form the basis of some people's joy, they feel relaxed and comfortable to know all is not well with you. So, the moment they see that the misery has ended, it also ends the source of their joy from you, hence the bitterness she is displaying.

this is scarcity mentality, predominently found amongst the underdeveloped country.

The reason for this isn’t farfetched. First, it’s in our nature as human to envy others, and the reason for this is that, we want to succeed more than others, it’s only logical that with that mindset, you hate on others when they start getting higher than you.

The remedy to this devilish mindset is to change it. We should aim to succeed in life because we want to, not because we want to show off to others that we’ve succeed. Secondly, we should learn how to manage our happiness. Every small wins count and should make us happy. The very fact our interest differs with others and what makes some of us happy isn’t necessarily what make others happy is enough reason to see why happiness is relative and not general, hence there’s no need to envy what makes others happy. Enjoy what makes you happy instead and wish others well.

Also, we should remember death. We brought nothing into this world and non of us is leaving with anything. Why then should you hate on others for all these temporary stuffs?

Doyou2019:

Hmm 48 Laws of Power. : ONCE ENVY EATS AWAY AT SOMEONE, EVERYTHING YOU DO ONLY MAKES IT GROW, AND DAY BY DAY IT FESTERS INSIDE HIM. EVENTUALLY HE WILL ATTACK!

Word.
The human animal has a hard time dealing with feelings of inferiority. In the face of superior skill, talent or power we are often disturbed and ill at ease. This is because most of us have an inflated sense of ourselves. And when we meet people who surpass us they make it clear to us that we are infact mediocre, or at least not as brilliant as we had thought.

This disturbance in our self image cannot last long without stirring up ugly emotions. At first we feel envy, if only we have the quality or skill of the superior person we would be happy, but envy brings us neither comfort nor any closer to equality. Nor can we admit to feeling it for it is frowned upon socially.

To close friends we may confess our secret unrealized desires, but we would never confess to feeling envy.

So it goes underground, we disguise it in many ways like finding grounds to criticize the person who makes us feel it.

mrvitalis:

Maybe u might understand why igbos are hated

remove those drug Barron...how much Igbo get near hausa....who even hate Igbo!

Jephyard:
Some how I feel what this op is saying is wrong. I have been on both sides of life being poor and being rich. The question everyone is not asking is why do rich people think everyone is jealous of their wealth or why did people who just made money thinks people envy them.

In Nigeria that I know everyone loves money bag, handsome/big boys, fine/big girls and so on. No one love the poor. So where does this notion come that the poor hate you for making money in short if you are among them you are seen as their helper.

This is what I notice about people who just made money, Arrogance. You no longer hangout with your old pal, u no long listen to their opinion, you become disprectful, you think your opinion count only and so many. I have been there and become a better person. So stop the notion that people envy u when u made money. It you who got the problem not the other person.

No wonder you are now broke. I see why.

Omuuvwie:
Na bad belly people Dem bi, not only landlord or landlady, even neighbors, people in the community, once they see you are progressing, before you know how to bring you down is what they will be looking for, they just to see that all of you are in the same level, but any they try God pass them, who God has blessed let no man envy.

What you said is true and this is what is killing us africams

Prettydevil:
If you are young and doing well please I’m begging you, resist the urge to show off. Just hide yourself, 99 percent of people you meet everyday want you to lose everything and even die if possible. Stop showing yourself to people who wished you even died

This is serious

Prettydevil:
What is with people and envy? Why do people want you to suffer like them before they can be free with you?

Why would a landlady pursue every single tenant who has ever lived in her house once they start buying cars, generators , ac and plasma TVs. The landlady cannot stand a tenant doing well than them because they have none of the appliances I just mentioned.

What is wrong with people? Why do people kill their friends because they are making money? Why do people have an issue with you once you start dressing rich and glowing skin?

Why is envy so strong in the hearts of people?

The heart of a man is desperately wicked...they only pretend like they care and want your good..

tosaino95:
Na that show off i dey hide am because na downfall e dey bring

My dear, you cannot work hard to make money and still hide to enjoy the result of your hard work. If you make money, relocate at once. Move to a place where people like you live. The moment you do that, you get more important information and network better.

Remember, wealth is a byproduct of information. If you remain where you are, you are just looking for trouble because financial breakthrough naturally comes with envy.

uthlaw:
remove those drug Barron...how much Igbo get near hausa....who even hate Igbo!

Which sector of this economy those hausa control again ?

Igbos control electronics ,
Moto spare parts
, phone accessories ,
big players in auto industry ,
big players in real estate
, dominate clothing market ,
dominate cosmetic market
,big players building materials ,
big player in pharmaceutical industry
Big player in he banking industry
Big player in the oil servicing industry
Big player in general commodity market
Big player in the retail market
Big players in aviation
Big players in Transport industry
Big players in lifestyle Industry
Big player is electrical systems
Big players in processed food industry

Name 5 Industry hausa are big players out BDC ?