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| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Karleb(m): 5:42pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Mftivi: That's how you know a feminist.  Once they start saying things like; One in 3 women are oppressed daily. Two in 10 women are raped yearly. 2 in twenty women has been slapped today. Just abort mission, for it is them, the feminists. They can't ever be reasoned with. Just save yourself the stress because everyone but them is the problem. Always. 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by djon78(m): 5:45pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Amhappy: Here is a woman that understand the whole drift The society is being affected with the upbringing of men that doesn't know there left from there right When men are raised right The society greatly benefits from it And we need to Target them when they are still young |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by djon78(m): 5:47pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Karleb: It's not even wise exchanging words with them Because you can't get any meaningful thing from them Best is to avoid them A toxic person has nothing to offer. Absolutely nothing 2 Likes |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by LutanFyah: 5:47pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry:Keep your rhetorics for the OP and his ilks. Just a war will send you folks and weaklings like the OP to where they belong (natural selection). |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by LutanFyah: 5:49pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE:I love your chocolatey tears. 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by djon78(m): 5:56pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
B Favfables1: Still at the pilot stage Will let it out at the right time |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by okosunehis: 6:02pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry: It's funny cos you guys are having a conversation already! Assuming without conceding that the patriarchy is such a bad construct, can you answer a quick question: Can you factually say that no woman ever played a role in building the patriarchy; or that all men are complicit in enabling it? Every man was born by a woman, most men are raised by their mothers. In this imperfect world that we are all born into, both men and women have been victims of malevolent, murderous and wicked people. I will admit men have played a greater role in such ills, but the flip side, in most cases, both the villains and heroes in history are men - so it is strong good men that protect the world against strong evil men. Children are generally weak and vulnerable in the society. It would be more beneficial for grown ups to focus on protecting the young without drawing indelible tribal lines between boys and girls. 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Nobody: 6:11pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
okosunehis:Many women did! And most men aren't complicit... Yet many still encourage it and that's the difference... Men are the ones who refuse to let go of this toxic system... To suit their egos... Most women are fighting it...'feminism'... Every man was born by a woman, most men are raised by their mothers. In this imperfect world that we are all born into, both men and women have been victims of malevolent, murderous and wicked people. I will admit men have played a greater role in such ills, but the flip side, in most cases, both the villains and heroes in history are men - so it is strong good men that protect the world against strong evil men.Perfect point... I only argued because most men here are comparing the woes of a girl child to that of a boy child... It's annoying... Imagine saying that girls in their states are educated so therefore there's still no need to campaign for the right of a girl to go to school...  They could comment their solidarity with young boys without hating on young girls and the women protecting them... It's just petty and it shows that most men here don't even care for these kids... It's all a gender war... So I educated them... 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Aiel123: 6:14pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry:This your argument of girls denied education is lopsided. The recent waec written,girls have the larger share compared to boys.you don't give a girl admission because she a girl it is earned not given. Two third of the 750 million illiterate (suspicious and doubtful it is) being women is because they chose to. You don't visit the atrocities of some people on others. life itself is a competition we won't buy the exploitative nature of women being weaker vessel. |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Aiel123: 6:18pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Walkee:Na true you talk. |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by tete7000(m): 6:19pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
In a bid to solve his problem without recourse to his creation, man creates more problem for himself. God created them male and female, in his own image. People should be respected because in them we see the image of God who created us all, not because they are male or because they are female. |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Nobody: 6:23pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Aiel123:see how dumb you've proven yourself to be... More girls registered for the WAEC... Does it change that fact that there are more boys in schools than girls? In Nigeria, sub-saharan Africa...and the world... It's a fact, go do some research... see how toxic you are... blaming little girls for not being allowed to go to school? Do you also blame them when they are married off as kids? Or mutilated? Girls in the villages aren't allowed to school... Same for those from families with backwards cultural and religious values... And you think it's a choice? So do you think the few boys who are deprived are also not victims? Imagine a grown-ass man blaming gender discrimination on kids... All so he can play the card that his gender is the victim! Yu don't visit the atrocities of some people on others. life itself is a competition we won't buy the exploitative nature of women being weaker vessel.Did anyone blame you? Can you comprehend what I wrote? People criticized the campaigns to educate the masses that girls should be educated and i explained why it's actually necessary... Are feminists arresting random men on the streets? Nope, we're posting flyers encouraging girls to pursue their education... To avoid societal pressure... To follow their hearts and achieve their dreams... How does that hurt men? Exactly! Women aren't weak... Men should stop believing so! Personally, I think both sexes are equal... That's the belief of every feminist... 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by dhiqson(m): 6:30pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Pataricatering:  Trust meI do that with every ounce in my body But why you trynna deflect from the topic What's "measuring women's vaginas"?? Left for me I really don't care Sha As long as I'm living life on my term I'm good. assalamuAlaaikum  |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Aiel123: 6:32pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry:Go get a life and competite.life is survival of the fittest. Everyone needs help not only women |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by babasolution: 6:32pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
What is happening in Nigeria is very dangerous and will have a disastrous effect in the future,the new system that Nigerians have embraced propping and elevating girls at the expense of boys,its already yielded bad fruits with the weak performance of boys in academics, soon the full realisation of what this stupid generation of older men have done will materialise,they are gradually and systematically destroying boys just to elevate women,the women are enjoying and cashing in on it,Nigeria and the black race will forever remain at the bottom if we continue that system,it's a system created by whites,having already established themselves as the top race,they are now weaking men of other races especially now of the black race and stupid blacks are buying into it,the neglect of boys through almajiri system is what has brought the disaster happening to the north,it will happen to the south in another form in the future, with the gradual systemic neglect of southern boys.No society can develop with neglected boys,that system the the UN and Western nations preach which Africans are buying into now at an all time high rate will eventually lead to the gradual destruction of the black race.Blackmen need to wake up,we should stop shooting ourselves in the foot,we have done that for generations now is the time to take our destiny into our hands,The foolish old men just like during the time of slavery are once again systematically and gradually destroying their own race |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by babasolution: 6:40pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry: There's nothing like patriarchy,those are fairy tales created by Western system to antagonise men,many bad things done to women in the past were crimes of nature,men also suffered,women also suffered men in the past. 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by babasolution: 6:44pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Nosayer: Have been talking about this for a while now,the grave costly mistake these older men are making will destroy Africa in generation to come,Stupid African men are playing into the hands of the enemy as Africans have always done,we should quickly retrace our steps before it costs us dearly |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Aiel123: 6:45pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry:I won't spend time arguing with you. Who gave you the vain ignorance-ridden idea that the world is Men? Resorting to anger during verbal banter is cowardly. Try replying without insulting |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by babasolution: 6:47pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry: It's not about victimisation,you just desire for men to accept to be victims, men are not accepting any victimisation, what is at stake here is that the disaster this new system will create will cause total devastation,even women will be worse off for it,an empowerment man is better than a vile loser man,this is the point.not whether men are victims or not 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Aiel123: 6:50pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry:Channel your grievances to constituted authority Saying more girls registered for waec,I want to ask is waec not part of education. Or you want to tell me they never got teaching material s and tutors? |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Nobody: 6:53pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Aiel123:You've never heard the popular statement, "It's a man's world"? |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by babasolution: 6:58pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Pataricatering: These are rehearsed stereotypes taught to women now, |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Yampotatocarrot(m): 7:00pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Lol, this argument have been made over and over, but no one seems to be listening I for one have decided to just go with the flow. These women that we all concentrate on now grow up and end up marrying the boys we neglected who are now men If you doubt me, check out the wives of chief thugs in the garages, most of them are educated, pretty ladies. Same way a lot of women end up with guys who beat them up or just irresponsibly stupid cos they weren't taught how to be responsible, no one cares about them while.growing up. You'll see an educated woman end up with a man who doesn't live up to his responsibility, not because he can't, but because he chooses not to... Yet, they'll up popping babies every two years like new varieties of Kellogg's cocopops 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Wizpa(m): 7:01pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Ow0eg0kudi: Another SIMP spotted |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by babasolution: 7:01pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry: It's a big LIE,it's a stale narrative women like to use to blackmail men, women have been going to school at an equal rate since the 80s,for every girl now not going to school there is equal amount of boys not going to school and viceversa |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by babasolution: 7:02pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Pataricatering: Boy child is now our wahala |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Nobody: 7:10pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
babasolution: Have you asked yourself how these girls started going to school? Who fought for their rights? Or why they didn't have their rights respected in the first place? This stale narrative is true... There's still a gap. 1 Like |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by zed7: 7:54pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
ivolt:Defend my points against a nobody? It's either you comprehend and take notes or you go read something less intellectually demanding. |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by matm: 7:55pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Women folk are playing on the intelligence of men and this men who reason with their dick do not understand.And dts why they keep dying untimely. A child whether boy or girl is a child and needs to be protected. Both are abused daily in Nigeria with little nale boys having greater share and underreported Beware of teen girls in their 17+,university girls,and women who control and dominate their husbands. Make ur boy child confide in you,and u will be shocked over what attempted molestations and real cases of molestations dt happen in ur absence. Anyone who champions the course of protection of girl child only is a promoter of gender discrimination and shld be a prime suspect of child molestation |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by cornelman: 7:56pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] ivolt: I think you didn't get the picture well. As a child, you don't just walk up to anyone to say you've been molested. People especially girls and women come out now to say it because they are encouraged to report such wickedness and the society is frowning at it. But no such awareness is even created to liberate the boy child. A research shows that one out of six boys had been sexually abused before age 16. The research even claimed that it likely underestimated the number due to audience received. Ask guys around you and get stories. Nobody asked them, not their families nor the society. Today, It is certain that girls won't talk too if they are aren't encouraged to do so. Molestation of girl child has always been from time past. But today they have a voice supported by both men and women. The same should go for their brothers too. The point is every weak irrespective of gender, needs a voice to speak for it, a voice to encourage it to report evil against it, eyes that wouldn't turn the blind side, ears that wouldn't turn the deaf side and mind that wouldn't be insensitive to their unheard and unsaid plights. |
| Re: Neglect Of The Boy Child: We Need To Speak Up by Richyblack1(m): 7:59pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Lets make this go viral so the gov't can see it,maybe they may help cus actually the neglect on the boychild is much, creating monsters while looking for monster hunters to protect the girl child. Becus we are male doesnt mean we are meant to be treated harsly |
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