Bradford14:
I feel uncomfortable walking without a cap this has affected my self esteem as ilook at a myself as a less privilege even at talking to girls I feel rejected even without giving it a try I need help on this please as of over the years have generated a strong hatred for my brother we no longer talk freely like siblings and evil thoughts are always on my mind to hurt him badly even though it's been long it happened.

Nbotee:
If ur problem is about a small scar on ur head dat is barely even noticeable then that means the likes of the lady who survived the sosoliso crash and is a living scar should do what?? U are a disgrace to ur family

Bradford14:
Images of the scar how can I handle this I need advice cux I'm losing my senses

Ahmed0336:
Don't feel bad bro.

If I were you, I'd start barbing complete skin like David mark and save myself all these stress.

Enskynelson:
This is not such a serious issue bro. Try and take your mind off this. Ladies really don't care about this one, abi you forgot Oshiomole face? Low cut or skin cut will help a great deal like someone already suggested. This is nothing worth going to hell for (in fact, nothing will ever be worth that). Face your career and make good money. All the ladies you think are running because of that small thing u feel depressed about will come running to you. Cheers bro.

Datboredberry:
Bradford14...:

I perfectly understand how you feel... Sometimes, we stress ourselves over certain imperfections... I've been there a million times!

I'll tell you as a person who's so insecure... There's nothing to wrong with you... If only you could truly see yourself through the eyes of others... You've spent years fixated on a scar that's barely noticeable... And it's damaged your self-esteem... And now you're contemplating suicide!?

First of all, every one has flaws... No body is perfect... Accept this... And you would stop holding yourself up to impossible standards...

Secondly, stop assuming that women are vain creatures who are gonna treat you badly for something are unimportant as a scar! Most of us understand body-shaming and have been victims of a society that sees only the beauty of a woman... The girls you're scared of approaching...most are concerned with their weights, spend thousands on hair and skin products, compare themselves to every other woman... We all have our insecurities...

Thirdly, don't kill your brother or even think of harming him... That's just ridiculous!

My advice to you:

Try seeing yourself in a more positive way... Take a mirror and study your reflection but without criticism... Take away your judgement... And you'll have a more realistic image that you would appreciate!

Try to come to terms with the fact that you're not perfect and the entire world knows this...and we still accept you all the same because none of us are perfect... Whether your skinny or fat, short or tall, hairy or not... You're unique and beautiful... We're not going to criticize you over a damn scar that's hard to even see!!!

I would encourage you to first learn to appreciate yourself... Then to allow others...

Around your family and closest friends, don't want a cap... Be natural... You'll realise that your fears aren't real... Take it a step further, go out to a nearby store.... Do these slowly and only when you're comfortable... And your confidence would be rebuilt with time...

Don't try to change yourself for anyone... Don't dare hide the scars that makes you who you are... Anyone stupid enough to mock you doesn't deserve to breathe the air sane people breathe...

meezynetwork:
Are you sure that hitting of ur head didn't remove some of your senses? Cos I don't see any issue here

Kobojunkie:
You want to kill yourself because of what looks like a quarter-sized space in your scalp where you have no hair growing?

Is your life worthless if you are not able to please a girl or woman? Why do people raise kids with this mentality in this day and age?

If you are looking for solution to the depression, then you should please make an appointment with a mental health therapist/counselor or psychiatrist or psychologist so you can be put on treatment please.

SkyFlyGang:
This is boundto happen since babies be having babies too