brosom:
Unfortunately, that's of the bad of being too beautiful.

It comes at a cost

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

samorobo:


Loreetta are u from Ijegun/Ikotun axis ir did you once live there.

Pls answer freely I want to confirm it is the Loretta I know of.

Divoc19:
Beauty for me is in the brain.
A smart and intelligent girl is beautiful... like, I have to interact with you (literate or not) before I can conclude your are beautiful or not.

Loreettaa:

No

placeofallure:
Back in my university days, I was a Jambite and lived with my 400 level-accounting big sister and her two friends. One of her friends borrowed a book from a medico student (a guy) in the neighborhood. He came that afternoon to collect his book and I was the only one at home. After welcoming him, I offered to search around for the book. I didn't see it and I told him so. He left afterwards. We later became friends. It was then he confessed that he used to think I'm a snub, that he always wondered how a girl could be so beautiful and still be courteous and respectful. His friends too couldn't believe it.

I never lack the company of the opposite sex, even younger men up till tomorrow. Now, I don't see beauty as anything. I believe in a woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it's just an icing on the cake. That's why my beauty doesn't ever get into my head. It's relative.

Loreettaa:

What's so wrong with being aware of your beauty? Handsome men don't shy away from theirs, some are very cocky about it and the sky hasn't fallen. What's with this mindset of beautiful women downplaying their good looks so as not to seem vain to men?

Loreettaa:

What's so wrong with being aware of your beauty? Handsome men don't shy away from theirs, some are very cocky about it and the sky hasn't fallen. What's with this mindset of beautiful women downplaying their good looks so as not to seem vain to men?

Carchoice:


Person don tell you her mind, you are still asking her why. You want the violence. Nonsense and pepper soup ingredient.

siofra:
Being beautiful is a serious flex

Somebody will just dash you money because he thinks you're beautiful.

placeofallure:


There's absolutely nothing wrong. I flaunt it by wearing the simplest of things - accessories, clothes etc.and I'll still be conspicuous. And at other times, I am intentional about my dressing and all. Most of the time, I'm too busy running an organisation and the home front to bother or remember how exceptional I look.

Loreettaa:

You've been noticed. Now get lost.

Loreettaa:

And some men can avoid you for being too beautiful too. It can be a plus or a minus sometimes.

Carchoice:


[s]Tell that to the OP that created the thread.[/s]

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

siofra:
Being beautiful is a serious flex

Somebody will just dash you money because he thinks you're beautiful.

placeofallure:
Back in my university days, I was a Jambite and lived with my 400 level-accounting big sister and her two friends. One of her friends borrowed a book from a medico student (a guy) in the neighborhood. He came that afternoon to collect his book and I was the only one at home. After welcoming him, I offered to search around for the book. I didn't see it and I told him so. He left afterwards. We later became friends. It was then he confessed that he used to think I'm a snub, that he always wondered how a girl could be so beautiful and still be courteous and respectful. His friends too couldn't believe it.

I never lack the company of the opposite sex, even younger men up till tomorrow. Now, I don't see beauty as anything. I believe in a woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it's just an icing on the cake. That's why my beauty doesn't ever get into my head. It's relative.

siofra:


That's not my experience sha!

It happened to a friend of mine.

Nyascobar1414:


Picture or ion believeit

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.