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Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:13pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
I'm as very light smoker- at most, three to four cigarettes a week... I'm very young, and I started smoking two years ago... In our society, if a woman is known to be a smoker... She's looked down on... And false assumptions are made of her personality... Why the stigmatisation? I know men are victims too but women who smoke are viewed as classless etc... While with men, it's simply a bad habit... What's your opinion on women who smoke? And what's your reason? I would appreciate comments based on experiences rather than bias... And I need valid points how SMOKING directly indicates a wayward woman... Thanks! 38 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by NaijirianKing: 12:16pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Women who smoke are poor examples of what a lady is supposed to be and should be avoided at all costs. Wife material is costly because wife material is rare. Every women is not a wife. Certain red flags allow you to separate the quality from those who are merely quantity. A woman who smokes doesn't truly value herself, her image, or even her own health. Datboredberry: 244 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Bigredmachine: 12:20pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
I just embarrass myself now... Nkechi told me she was coming yesterday to stay with me till Sunday, after preparing for her cuming... She ended up not showing up, I called her but her phone was off, till now her phone is still off... Wetin I go do that girl if I see am ennnn I had already bought exhibit before that night, I forgot I kept 2 in my back pocket, so this morning I say let me rush down to the bank and do some transaction... Just to try and bring out my wallet, those 2 exhibit fell out to the full glare of the people in the bank... Which kind embarrassment be this for me this morning... Na for this reason I go beat Nk die 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
NaijirianKing:Like I clearly stated... No cultural bias... I don't need your, "women should be this or that" lectures! A woman who smokes, how does she not value herself? As for her image, that's the point of this post... Why smoking damages the image of a woman and not a man! Can you answer this? And the only drawback to smoking is it's impact on one's health... But do you care that men smoke more? Are you concerned about their health also? Plus, there are a million bad habits...that could kill faster... ![]() 81 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:27pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:Why what? Do I smoke or why the society judges women who do? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Bigredmachine: 12:32pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Datboredberry: Smoking in general is something that's attached to a wayward life... A man who smokes may be seen as an irresponsible man, infact society of today will quickly say he's a useless man... But hell no, not all who smoke are irresponsible... As for women who smoke out of any reason... Will always get harsh treatment from the public cos, the society sees women as gentle and tender creature who should not be caught in such act... I won't blame the society for looking down on women cos from my observation 84% of women who smoke lives a wayward life... The rest are just addicted to it... That's just the way it's, even me I classify women who not only smoke, but pierce their nose as wayward (I need to change that thinking, I know this)... Well OP just live ur life the way it pleases you, so long as u don't affect the life of others 111 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Lee99: 12:34pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Women who smoke turn me on, I am attracted to them a lot, we have a lot of fun together most times, na cruise and we dey fit relate well. But I can never and will never wife a woman that smokes. ![]() 221 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:I sincerely wish derailers on Nairaland would drop dead! You're trying to ruin my thread! ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Candidlady: 12:36pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Iwas once taggd irresponsible cuz iwas smoking.. Til date istil hate that girl funny thing was that, this so called girl was taking alcohol. And me icant drink witowt smoking it wont flow. the e'd'yot girl went bout teln ppl am a chimney that shes sure am irresponsible smoking has never in anyway defined my life. Things only got owta palms when istartd doing drugs >>curently dragin my captain black in peace<< ¤whatever you do in life moderation must/should be your daily donut/nugget¤ 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99:Nice contribution! Why can't you marry a woman who smokes tho? You vibe well with women who do... I think it's because you want a solid image... But it women who smoke weren't stigmatised, then there would be no need for this... ![]() Another issue is that a white woman smoking is more tolerated in black communities than black women who smoke. Assume you're engaged to a Dutch lady, and she's a light smoker... Is she also disqualified? I'm just trying to see things from the perspective of a man... ![]() 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by YeyeGbami: 12:38pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
If you can maintain a very good oral and body hygiene, smoke is no big deal to me. People smoke for different reasons. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Divoc19(f): 12:41pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Have you seen girls smoking shisha? Depends on what they are smoking though, the stigma is reduced 3 Likes |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Lee99: 12:41pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Datboredberry:First of all I don't judge people or my reaction towards people based on the color of their skin, that's racist, white or black or yellow, woman is woman to me, same reason I won't wife a Nigerian girl is the same reason I won't wife the Dutch one, its my principle 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Candidlady:Thanks! I remember a day I spent with a boy... He's in his twenties... He was extremely nice, tried to flirt... But he was shy... One thing led to another, we ended up in his friend's home smoking cigarettes and Arizona... We vibed really well... Only, he assumed I was in a cult! ![]() Thought I was a bad girl... Started speaking street slangs... I couldn't even understand him! Like, I enjoy smoking... Doesn't mean I'm wayward... It's simply pleasurable... And if I'm with someone who doesn't smoke, I don't... I really like you! Honestly... 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Bigredmachine: 12:43pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Datboredberry: If wishes were horses beggers would ride... Your wish won't come to pass... Sorry 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:43pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:Ever thought that maybe the argument is this: wayward people smoke... Not... People who smoke are wayward... 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99:Thanks! I noticed some men hold African women to impossible standards... Till they travel abroad and surprisingly, they don't mind the white women smoking... ![]() I get your point 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Great2021(m): 12:46pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Bigredmachine:really? |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Bigredmachine: 12:46pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Datboredberry: I know not all people who smokes are way ward, but the number of the wayward people far out Numbered the cool headed smokers... Society will see 500 wayward smokers before they see 5 cool headed smokers... Hence their believe that all smokers are wayward 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Lee99: 12:51pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Datboredberry:Where are you based? Maybe we can organise a smoking session, I do Rothman brown or switch, Bohem when I don't see either 4 Likes |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by siofra(f): 1:06pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99: Datboredberry ruuuunnnn ooooo!!! 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Lee99: 1:08pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
siofra:You this hairy balled guy, you no dey rest? ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Deffjam: 1:08pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
I sincerely likes girls that smokes.....dated many........they just turn me on, especially when we inside...with the door locked............. smoke and sleep!!! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Deffjam: 1:09pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99:interested.. |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by siofra(f): 1:10pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99: You think you have sense shebi But sha datboredberry is an open-minded person, so she might consider you. 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by siofra(f): 1:11pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
NaijirianKing: Seriously STFU! ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Lee99: 1:11pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Deffjam:I dey Abuja |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by FirmTR(m): 1:12pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99: Although to me, it's irresponsible for a woman to smoke, but still can be friends with one in a non-romantic way. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Lee99: 1:14pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
siofra:Thank you for your recommendation that wasn't asked for ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by Lee99: 1:14pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
FirmTR:I get what you mean bro 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why The Stigmatisation Of Women Who Smoke? by siofra(f): 1:16pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Lee99: Tell that to 16 year old Sikira that lives on your street she'll believe you.
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