Femi8586:
Simping is bad... Kai

A woman has been denying you sex since you married her

She has made your life so miserable..

She is even cheating on you on top that.

She even manipulated you to the extent of changing the names of all your properties to include hers

She's now filing for divorce so that she can take over all of your properties.

She petitioning Italian government to relieve you of your job and also deport you.

She frustrated all your mum's effort to see her grandchildren till the innocent woman died.



Simping is so bad..

I hate that notion of "women denying men sex".... it's due to stupid religious beliefs though. I believe a man can and should get sex from female friends even if not officially married so long as he didn't promise his wife monogamy....

BlackPantherxXx:
Lie down and be killed.

I dont pity him.

His story sounds one-sided... to be honest couldn't finish it.

Too one sided to be believed.
I started suspecting his own version of events when he started using God and attendance in church as a criteria of goodness.
This is the kind of tale that if you hear the woman's version of events,you may never want to believe any man again.

seborrhic:

Too one sided to be believed.
I started suspecting his own version of events when he started using God and attendance in church as a criteria of goodness.
This is the kind of tale that if you hear the woman's version of events,you may never want to believe any man again.

There is something about the man's story that didn't add up and that made me check for hers. The woman's story is online and they are totally different stories. OP only posted the man's story because he knows that this is what some of the males on Nairaland, young and old live for. Toxic masculinity and showcasing their deep hatred for women. It's really sad and I don't know why Seun and the mods allow it. But then it's their business.

Cc: Blackpantherxxx

DropsMic:
You knew it was a snake when you picked it up yet for some reasons best known to you been feel say e no go bite you maybe because you are serving a living God. Now wey e don bite you, you dey cry

men sacrifice alot in the name of relationship and with just a twinkle of an eye , someone turns it upside down

My own us that this marriage thing is it worth It?

Iyaebe:
Don't pass any judgement till we hear the woman's side of the story.You know men and their victim mentality especially in marital issues.

Holy gram.

What day fuuc.k

Oh gerrout

A man rests Vivian as his surname?

The wo/man's pic actually gave a clear sign that s/he(Vivian) is passing thru a deep shit!..

How is that possible?

Francismeek:
Truth is, most women can change on you at any given point in time, whether she started off as being loyal & humble, they can evolve to your worst enemy leaving you very surprised,...that's why it's very important never to have no expectations from women,... Whether girlfriend or wife!... Once their feelings for you is gone, that's when they show you their real character,... Remember women never love in the true sense of the word, their love for you is solely based on how you make her feel at the moment... Which is your ability to provide!...I can go on & on but Lession to learn is never fall in love with women, what ever you do with them ,apply caution & always use your head.

So true.

If you live abroad, don't come back here looking for wife. It will end in premium tears for you. Read and learn.

Prettiepearlz:


There is something about the man's story that didn't add up and that made me check for hers. The woman's story is online and they are totally different stories. OP only posted the man's story because he knows that this is what some of the males on Nairaland, young and old live for. Toxic masculinity and showcasing their deep hatred for women. It's really sad and I don't know why Seun and the mods allow it. But then it's their business.

Cc: Blackpantherxxx

Me too I went back to read the woman's version of events and my conclusion is this:these are 2 chronic liars twisting the story to suit their own narrative;but the man in this case looks like the bigger liar and a lazy man at that.
Imagine asking who brought the woman to Europe?
So because you brought someone to a foreign country,she must be subservient to you.
He is even a claimed pastor! Exactly the reason why pastors in Nigeria are now taken at face value.

never too.later poison her case close

Iyaebe:
Don't pass any judgement till we hear the woman's side of the story.You know men and their victim mentality especially in marital issues.

I don't blame the woman at all.As a matter of fact,I am in support of what she did since he wants to remain a weakling, experience is the best teacher.
How can a woman stop you from seeing your immediate family?
Who the hell is she?
I can't stay with this type of woman trust me, she will regret ever knowing me in the first place.

dre11:
My Wife Changed Names On All Our Property Documents In Nigeria To Hers, Plans To Kill Me To Take Over All I Own— Italy-based Man



http://saharareporters.com/2021/11/26/my-wife-changed-names-all-our-property-documents-nigeria-hers-plans-kill-me-take-over-all

. ... Woman when for Don lost since.... If you're a real man... Table the issue before your village people.... As far as your hands are clean, in less than 3 months, the daughter of doom will leave u for good with all you have worked for intact

Mugu and simp ....very lethal combination..

This is really touching, he should seek advice from his pastors on how they can be of help to him, he should keep praying for her to change, but divorce shouldn't be an option for now.

Nonexisting:
If you live abroad, don't com e back here looking for wife. It will end in premium tears for you. Read and learn.

On the other hand, it seems abroad turn men to SIMPS sef

ReoCoker:
How can you be a father figure in the lives of your children when your name is VIVIAN?

How can you get the respect from your wife when you're a full blown weakling both in Italy and Nigeria?


Some women are evil, but this man is a MUMU.

I couldn't relate with the story because of the names used ; thanks for your question.

ayatt:
Vivian? He must be a SIMPle man

I have read the woman's story, all I can say is that the man is not a SIMPle man instead an Alpha male by nairaland standards.

I feel the guy is really loaded with cash, he wants to quietly leave the known properties to the wife and enjoy his loot with a new 'tear-rubber woman'.

dre11:
My Wife Changed Names On All Our Property Documents In Nigeria To Hers, Plans To Kill Me To Take Over All I Own— Italy-based Man



http://saharareporters.com/2021/11/26/my-wife-changed-names-all-our-property-documents-nigeria-hers-plans-kill-me-take-over-all

Lol

VIVIAN

U ARE A MUMU MAN

Femi8586:
Simping is bad... Kai

A woman has been denying you sex since you married her

She has made your life so miserable..

She is even cheating on you on top that.

She even manipulated you to the extent of changing the names of all your properties to include hers

She's now filing for divorce so that she can take over all of your properties.

She petitioning Italian government to relieve you of your job and also deport you.

She frustrated all your mum's effort to see her grandchildren till the innocent woman died.



Simping is so bad..

The man do not seem to be a SIMP by any standard. He is a 'WOMANIS*R', looks like the woman too. He is really loaded with cash and properties. I think he wants to leave the 'known' properties for the 'old' wife and kids. He just want to enjoy his loot with a new wife, shikena.


Also, na the guy man dey file for divorce but the old-wife is saying he rather dies than marry a new wife.

ivolt:
Stories that touch.
Why can't the man come back to hand over your properties to lawyers for management?

Because the said property are jointly owned.
If the property are that important to him, he should institute be more serious with the divorce
so they can be properly shared.

Because the man mumu

Hmmm

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BRATISLAVA:
Another emotionally charged headline.

Dig deep enough and you will find out that the man is not saying it as it truly is. Another strungup79.

We need to hear from this wife. You will be shocked at the truths she will reveal.

Yiimu ! you never disappoint, the wife story was even out before vivian put out his own side.

www thecapital ng/bigamy-pastor-abandons-wife-in-italy-remarries-in-nigeria-takes-over-wifes-properties-and-threatens-her-life/


read n back to do what you do best

Mancrossfire:
From what I read up there all red flags were shown but ignored. The man is a SIMP right from his name down to his behaviour and to make matter worse he have a bitter vindictive divorced mother in law.
I dated a very beautiful girl years back that turns head. All my sisters love this girl because of how beautiful she was and they wanted me to marry her. I stylishly ghost out of the relationship for two reasons...
1... she was short tempered
2... her mother had three failed marriages and as far as life is concerned her mother is her bestie.

So mr vivian please enjoy your predicament with Italian delicacies biko...no come nairaland come dey disturb us

Search for the story on google, na the guy man wan divorce oo, he even wants to leave the 'known' properties for the old wife but the old wife no gree, say they must marry.

From the old-wife's account, the man is really loaded with cash which HE the man short-changed her from. So now the man wants to enjoy all the money with a new wife, but the wife doesn't want it to go down without a fight.

dre11:
My Wife Changed Names On All Our Property Documents In Nigeria To Hers, Plans To Kill Me To Take Over All I Own— Italy-based Man



http://saharareporters.com/2021/11/26/my-wife-changed-names-all-our-property-documents-nigeria-hers-plans-kill-me-take-over-all

Nairalanders please don't marry bcus of love, marry with sense, if u want take a gal outside Nigeria. Check her family background. If she is from a broken home abeg run. If na single mother raise her abeg run, if de mum is de head of the family abeg run with your two legs. Please men should have sense.

Reading this am so fucking scared to marry again

Prettiepearlz:


There is something about the man's story that didn't add up and that made me check for hers. The woman's story is online and they are totally different stories. OP only posted the man's story because he knows that this is what some of the males on Nairaland, young and old live for. Toxic masculinity and showcasing their deep hatred for women. It's really sad and I don't know why Seun and the mods allow it. But then it's their business.

Cc: Blackpantherxxx

So what n what addup in the her own version of the story ... she said vivian left 2019 n remarry , buh why did the change of name publication she claimed to have recieved carry oct 2021, was the marriage post dated

she claims to own all the property buh between vivian & bolaji whu helped who abroad, whu had grounds in italy

ReoCoker:
How can you be a father figure in the lives of your children when your name is VIVIAN?

How can you get the respect from your wife when you're a full blown weakling both in Italy and Nigeria?


Some women are evil, but this man is a MUMU.

it is easy to haul insult and judge from the side road. You think this kinda thing would never happen to you? You call the man Mumu but he managed to run a successful business and made money before and after he married the evil woman, You think you are a hard man? Just wish this kinda thing doesn happen to you because someone like with your temperament would just make mistakes and end up in prison in Italy for assault and battery of a woman, the European justice system isn't like lawless nigeria. He was also thinking of his children that was why he kept quiet and didn't fight the woman.


I can bet my left balls if this kinda thing happens to you you wouldn't be able to handle it.

Women are like cars.u ride them and change them.