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Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Timekeeper: 8:05am On Nov 27, 2021 |
I noticed that we all tends to blame women anytime there is a crash in a marriage.. Everyone quickly assume that the woman is/was the reason the marriage couldn't work.. You start seeing different assumptions like she cheats on her husband, she is beautiful but doesn't have character, she keeps malice too much, she can't cook, she doesn't respect my family and so on.. Kindly note that all these assumptions happened without hearing from the woman side but we all bliv na the woman cause am... A guy said this on nairaland and u quote "beauty gives woman a home and character takes it away". My question is, what of a wicked and irresponsible man? What if a good woman marries a devil in disguise? Do we still blame the woman for the inability to manage a toxic home? Do we still she needs to endure the bitterness bcox she is a woman? Is it only the women responsibility to keep the home even whne the husband is not ready for a home? Who holds the husband responsible for his actions? I think there needs to be a balance... We should not put the failure of a marriage on the woman's shoulder. It could have been the devil she married. I come in peace. Good morning 1 Like |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Ammishaddai: 8:15am On Nov 27, 2021 |
No one is blaming all women for failed marriages ,but the truth be told : most failed marriages have a lot to do with the attitudes of women . Take this post for example, and see the level this woman is willing to go through just to make the life of this man miserable. And guess what? The law supports this sort of rubbish ! comehttps://www.nairaland.com/6869006/wife-changed-all-property-documents#107984563 |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by adebayour26: 8:16am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Don't assume everybody blames women alone. Some are intelligent and wise enough to ask (or study) the situation around the problem before making the judgement. It doesn't have to be women all the time. 2 Likes |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 8:30am On Nov 27, 2021 |
First time I'm reading something sensible from you. 4 Likes |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Timekeeper: 9:09am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Use your real moniker to quote me. Not the one u created 3 months ago to troll guys and garner attention Thanks but I'm yet to see a sensible post or comment from you... 1 Like |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 9:09am On Nov 27, 2021 |
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Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Timekeeper: 9:12am On Nov 27, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky:. This quote made me create this post Beauty has brought many ladies into matrimonial homes while character has sent them packing I began to wonder what if the woman with good character and beauty marries a demon of a man, do we still blame her for the failure in her marriage |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:43am On Nov 27, 2021 |
According to men/husbands, Wife==endurance==happy home So a woman that cannot endure in marriage is a bad wife. 6 Likes |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 9:52am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Timekeeper:Real men don't talk back at women or fight them, try and be a real man |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Timekeeper: 10:04am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Iyaebe: I bliv you but I still find it hard to believe that you are still yet to quit your toxic relationship from a supposed real man Dt he hits anytime he feels like. |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Drfernandez(m): 10:07am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Iyaebe: No healthy woman can make this kind of manipulative statement or hold such nonsense belief and no healthy man can live by the manipulative statement or hold such nonsense belief. Real man my foot. 2 Likes |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Foodqueen(f): 10:08am On Nov 27, 2021 |
A bad mother, can be a good wife and a good wife could be a bad mother. A good father may be a good husband and vice versa..... That all I want to say 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 10:09am On Nov 27, 2021 |
Timekeeper:I doff my Hart for you nairalanders and the way you concort and frame stories, maybe you are the toxic man I'm in a relationship with that hits me as well. |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
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Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Saintmary(f): 4:12pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Well let me summarize in case others don't want to click the link: 1. Women feel held back by their marriage. They feel like marriage is costing them more time compared to their husbands. 2. Women feel unsupported when they're making more money. You guessed right: jealous husbands. 3. Women can no longer tolerate unacceptable behavior. Most men have been trained that once they bring in money, they don't have to behave well. Well things have changed and women are no longer ready to tolerate such behavior since their husbands are no longer the sole breadwinners. So, my take is that if you're not the only breadwinner in your marriage, you have to learn good behavior if you don't want your wife to walk away. It's usually mostly about the money. Money is very important. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by efficiencie(m): 4:14pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Timekeeper: You and who blames women alone...una go jux wake up one morning begin reason unreasonable reasoning! Na who dey blame women alone na!? |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Awesome summary. Saintmary: 1 Like |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: So because a woman filed for divorce first, it automatically means it's the man's fault?? Wawoooo ... |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Kikikikikiki See emotional blackmail... So in a bid to prove he is a "real man", he shouldn't address an opinion he doesn't agree with, simply because it's from a woman?? Mtttttcheeeeewww... Real men kor, fake men ni... |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Opeyemiextra(f): 5:10pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Ignorance ni |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Foodqueen: Hmm... This is insightful and thought provoking... Well said... |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
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Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Kikikikikiki Awk o... |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Favfables1:No further comments, I suppose? |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by frozen70(f): 7:04pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Timekeeper: In some situations, the blame are always shifted to the woman because they believe their son is a perfect man and with that, they don't want to know anything about the woman other than she is the cause of the problem But when they take time to listen to the woman and discovered that it's the man's fault They go under the carpet and keep quiet and that's when they will know that the woman have been through a lot of things 1 Like |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Kobojunkie: 7:32pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Timekeeper:The vast majority of Nigerians are small-minded and equally close-minded, so they cannot always see beyond that which they have come to accept as the norm. As a result, reality for them is still processed in the same way their parents and grandparents before them did. 2 Likes |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 9:15pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Why?? Sheybi na them dey form "men are providers and women are home keepers".... So let them keep the home, if the house spoil, we know who to catch .... Mentioners and quoters do small small abeg kikikikikiki |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Kobojunkie: 9:32pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Favfables1:Wrong ! That idea came from your fathers and their fathers before them. 1 Like |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Nobody: 5:01am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Kikikikikiki I'll pass... |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Sunmolar(m): 7:32am On Nov 28, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: In as much as the man didn't fall for her tricks & never ending wants.... Divorce is the next card. |
Re: Why do we Blame Women Alone For Marriage failure ? by Sunmolar(m): 7:37am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Since the day of Adam,men have being receiving blames & punishments for their 'eves'. Eves had eyes,heart,brain,ears,mouth & she can reason,perceive,smell...but she fell for subtle serpent. She brought it upon Adam. Since they don't want to submit to the men.. They will get blame for it. They want everything done their way otherwise divorce is the worse case. Vashti lost her place Esther 1:12 But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king's commandment by his chamberlains: therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him. |
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