Danycrusoe:



Of course, don't be a faithful loser, you know some older women who are married with kids fifteen years old once told me the best thing as a man is to have multiple ladies as options, the moment Ur gf knows she is the only one, she will misbehave.


They said keep her on her toes let her know she is just another lady and u can always move at the speed of light to another woman. Infact some of them told me they don't like having a guy who is just about them, it's boring and makes them too comfortable.

Make that of what you may man. Even when u don't have another, form an imaginary one or pull another female friend closer.

Everyday the things I read here and people like you post happen to my face and I like it

Dliquidmetal:
if you are an high value man then you're their spec,she even spelt feet for fit.

heartofcity12:
She’s so right.
Don’t pity the lonely ladies that constantly cry about how men are trash. They spent their youth chasing dudes that are way above their league, instead of building a family with the dudes around them. When those dudes have their ways with them and refuse to be committed to them, they resort to label all men as scums.

Meedon:

She is ready for what

Danycrusoe:
I don't care about the man's reply but does this lady's post ring a TRP bell?

ubunja:

Pre-selection. That's what it is. As others have said already.

Pre-selection is when a man is already wanted by other women, or already "selected" before a woman accepts him. It makes the man wanted because him being already wanted vouches for him. It's like a letter of recommendation. The simplest way to see this in action is when you're single, no woman wants to talk to you. But when you get a girlfriend, suddenly all these women are interested in you. What has changed? A girl likes you now. And that broadcasts to all women that you're a good guy after all not some awkward loser.
Think of it like money. If you want to deposit your money do you choose a bank that looks broke or do you choose a bank that looks rich? Obviously the bank that looks rich. That the bank has its own money already broadcasts to you that your money is safe with them. Same thing. When a man has a woman, or women, it broadcasts to a woman that she's in safe hands with a man who knows what he's doing. That you've a girlfriend tells other women a lot about you instantaneously- that you can provide,, you're not stingy, you can fucc and you can protect. When you're single it's not easy for women to deduce these things and for any woman to get close and try to test you, it will take too much of her time and effort. So women rely on Pre-selection to get the job done. They want another woman to do the work on their behalf. To test and choose you first.

Why do women want married men? Pre-selection. Why do female friends steal each other's boyfriend? Pre-selection. Why does a guy who makes 1 girl pregnant usually make another girl pregnant soon after? Pre-selection.

Just like it's easy for a rich man to have more money because money goes to money; it's easy for a player to have more women cause women go to where other women are.
It's easier for a man in a relationship to get another woman than it is for a single man to get a woman. Pre-selection.

I can stop here or I can go on:
If Sandra is dealing with two men who want her: one, Lazaro who does everything and moves heaven and earth to show her. And two, Martinez, who doesn't do anything really to show her love, but instead has other women moving heaven and earth to show HIM they want him, who will Sandra choose?

Martinez of course.

Why? - - - - - - - > Pre-selection.

A Woman wants a man everyone wants. She wants that man to then ignore everyone and choose HER. That makes her feel more special than having only one man move worlds to prove his love. Women want to compete for a man. Not men to compete for them. When men compete over a woman Yes it's a special thing for her, but not as special as when she herself beats ten prettier women to get that one guy all women want. It's why women will literally exchange blows over a man,, that man is Alpha. But when men exchange blows over a woman, those men are Beta, regardless of who wins. A woman wants to win her man.
The man she wins she'll submit to,, but the man who wins her, ends up submitting to her in fear of losing her. Therefore the man she wins is her Alpha while she's his beta. Whereas,, the man who wins her is her Beta while she's his Alpha. Remember Alpha gets the power, Beta gets the fantasy. The chaser/competitor is the beta who gets their fantasy but does so at the expense of power.
What is Power in a relationship? Well when there are fight and disagreements, who usually apologizes and compromises to keep the other happy? The one without power. This must be the woman if a relationship is to work, and Masculinity and Femininity coexist peacefully. Women must have the fantasy, men must have the power. By "women must have the fantasy" I mean women must be the ones dating their dream man.

Coming to the pic below,, it's not a good feeling for a woman to see you trying to get other women but dismally failing because it broadcasts to her that you were lucky with her. And that fuccs up her hypergamy internally. She feels like a loser for dating you whom no woman wants.

It will make your girlfriend's ego sky rocket if she went through your phone and saw YOU turning down women in your DMs or texts. Her pucc would flow with the juices. And not because you're faithful,, but because WOMEN WANT YOU. She stays feeling like a winner. Listen, you can cheat on your girl, but if the female you cheated with is drop dead gorgeous, many times better than your girl, your girl will forgive you. By demonstrating you can get that woman who is a 10, your girlfriend who is a 7 feels also like a 10. How?. If a guy who usually fuccs female celebrities fuccs a nobody of a girl, that nobody will feel like one of the celebs. Pre-selection.

That's why being single is never an option. Always be dealing with women. That's how you get women.

Meedon:


She is ready for what

ubunja:

Pre-selection. That's what it is. As others have said already.

Pre-selection is when a man is already wanted by other women, or already "selected" before a woman accepts him. It makes the man wanted because him being already wanted vouches for him. It's like a letter of recommendation. The simplest way to see this in action is when you're single, no woman wants to talk to you. But when you get a girlfriend, suddenly all these women are interested in you. What has changed? A girl likes you now. And that broadcasts to all women that you're a good guy after all not some awkward loser.
Think of it like money. If you want to deposit your money do you choose a bank that looks broke or do you choose a bank that looks rich? Obviously the bank that looks rich. That the bank has its own money already broadcasts to you that your money is safe with them. Same thing. When a man has a woman, or women, it broadcasts to a woman that she's in safe hands with a man who knows what he's doing. That you've a girlfriend tells other women a lot about you instantaneously- that you can provide,, you're not stingy, you can fucc and you can protect. When you're single it's not easy for women to deduce these things and for any woman to get close and try to test you, it will take too much of her time and effort. So women rely on Pre-selection to get the job done. They want another woman to do the work on their behalf. To test and choose you first.

Why do women want married men? Pre-selection. Why do female friends steal each other's boyfriend? Pre-selection. Why does a guy who makes 1 girl pregnant usually make another girl pregnant soon after? Pre-selection.

Just like it's easy for a rich man to have more money because money goes to money; it's easy for a player to have more women cause women go to where other women are.
It's easier for a man in a relationship to get another woman than it is for a single man to get a woman. Pre-selection.

I can stop here or I can go on:
If Sandra is dealing with two men who want her: one, Lazaro who does everything and moves heaven and earth to show her. And two, Martinez, who doesn't do anything really to show her love, but instead has other women moving heaven and earth to show HIM they want him, who will Sandra choose?

Martinez of course.

Why? - - - - - - - > Pre-selection.

A Woman wants a man everyone wants. She wants that man to then ignore everyone and choose HER. That makes her feel more special than having only one man move worlds to prove his love. Women want to compete for a man. Not men to compete for them. When men compete over a woman Yes it's a special thing for her, but not as special as when she herself beats ten prettier women to get that one guy all women want. It's why women will literally exchange blows over a man,, that man is Alpha. But when men exchange blows over a woman, those men are Beta, regardless of who wins. [b]A woman wants to win her man.
The man she wins she'll submit to,, but the man who wins her, ends up submitting to her in fear of losing her. [/b]Therefore the man she wins is her Alpha while she's his beta. Whereas,, the man who wins her is her Beta while she's his Alpha. Remember Alpha gets the power, Beta gets the fantasy. The chaser/competitor is the beta who gets their fantasy but does so at the expense of power.
What is Power in a relationship? Well when there are fight and disagreements, who usually apologizes and compromises to keep the other happy? The one without power. This must be the woman if a relationship is to work, and Masculinity and Femininity coexist peacefully. Women must have the fantasy, men must have the power. By "women must have the fantasy" I mean women must be the ones dating their dream man.

Coming to the pic below,, it's not a good feeling for a woman to see you trying to get other women but dismally failing because it broadcasts to her that you were lucky with her. And that fuccs up her hypergamy internally. She feels like a loser for dating you whom no woman wants.

It will make your girlfriend's ego sky rocket if she went through your phone and saw YOU turning down women in your DMs or texts. Her pucc would flow with the juices. And not because you're faithful,, but because WOMEN WANT YOU. She stays feeling like a winner. Listen, you can cheat on your girl, but if the female you cheated with is drop dead gorgeous, many times better than your girl, your girl will forgive you. By demonstrating you can get that woman who is a 10, your girlfriend who is a 7 feels also like a 10. How?. If a guy who usually fuccs female celebrities fuccs a nobody of a girl, that nobody will feel like one of the celebs. Pre-selection.

That's why being single is never an option. Always be dealing with women. That's how you get women.

Adeniyi33:


Nice one ubunja, stuffs like this should be posted to miseducation too, for easy assess in case we need to refresh our memory with it.

Adeniyi33:


Nice one ubunja, stuffs like this should be posted to miseducation too, for easy assess in case we need to refresh our memory with it.

ubunja:
that's actually a very important point....

heartofcity12:


I hope the guy is not an ex, if he is, that makes her an alpha widow and she could cheat with him if the opportunity presents itself. If the guy’s a celebrity or just a random fine guy, she definitely has a huge crush on him, she’s in her hoe phase like it’s stated above.
Try to know which it is and keep monitoring her actions, she’ll expose herself with time.

Martinez39s:
You did a very good job explicating pre-selection. Once again,

dunmorris:
He is just a random fine guy..

fattprince:
Hello redpillers.

So I went to school yesterday to have some fun since our lecturers aren't ready for resumption yet. As I was on my way to the game center a pretty young lady just stopped me to ask for the cyber cafe. Okay the cafe was where I was headed so I told her to follow me. As we were going she told me if I'm a student I replied in the affirmative and told her I'm in my finals. She told me she was a fresher and she's already going insane for getting a ways wrong. I just showed her the cafe and she left. As I was going to my destination I just thought about how I said I will catch girls when we resume and make friends with many of them to benefit in anyway. I've gotten redpilled to some extent to I should be able to sight manipulation if that's all I can do cos it's the basic of redpill. So I went back looking for her and I saw her. We chatted a little and I collected her number. She dressed decent and looked innocent but I'm not falling for that shit. I didn't even ask her name, saved her number with fresher and I told her. I'm just happy I went to school yesterday, I'm happy we met. No, don't misunderstand me I'm not gonna simp for her just that I'm excited to be adding her to my realm. She going to be very beneficial as she's a graphic designer. So I'm going to hmm and still learn graphics on a one on one tutorial something I've been looking for. But if she's not into me like that then I just learn graphics from her. All I'm planning to give is little of my attention and that's if she agrees to teach me the graphics.

Tonnyray:
Did anyone else catch this horrific scene from a tragic turn of events that trended recently?

Oyin2212:
What happened bro?

richkal:
@Ubunja Thanks for spilling the beans.

Pre-selection was at play when Funmi asked me why I choose her when I have other prettier ladies around me. Now I understand better. Thanks man

richkal:
@Ubunja Thanks for spilling the beans.

Pre-selection was at play when Funmi asked me why I choose her when I have other prettier ladies around me. Now I understand better. Thanks man

Martinez39s:
@Ubunja

Martinez39s:

Winnerly:


Always look good and clean. Wear nice clothes and make an effort to be easy on the eyes. ( nice hair cut, no body odor or bad breath, good shoe, etc)

Live higher than your means ( good phone, car, nice accommodation etc). Although this is controversial, in my experience, people want to give you more money or opportunities when you look the part already.

What people call you attracts resources from the universe to you. If people think you’re rich, you will eventually become rich. When i was a new joiner at work, people thought i was rich although i was broke as hell but i always used expensive phones, lived in VI when colleagues were living in mushin and other interior places.

Something interesting happened years later, i became exactly all that they thought i was already. Things i exaggerated ended up becoming true for me.