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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:52am On Dec 01, 2021
sharpwriter:

Hmmmn...Is this really coming from you or someone don hijack ya profile. Abi you are really a male with huge hairy ballz grin grin

Yes, I'm a male.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by CanadaOrBust: 9:52am On Dec 01, 2021
Jeezuzpick:


So you think polygamists don't have sidechicks?

In any case, I am sure wives in polygamic homes don't see their husbands having other wives as infidelity. They are all his wives and they came knowing he has other wives.

Not true. Not the first wife - just like the first wife of the guy abroad.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by JusthowIfeel: 9:53am On Dec 01, 2021
Well, distance relationship is not for everyone.

There are a whole bunch of partners that are faithful despite the distance barrier and there are several coping mechanism they put in place in order to not feel 'Out of sight is out of mind.' It all falls back to what the partners want and how they tend to manage their closeness with their daily activities.


It's the era of internet, mobile apps and communication now knows no boundary.

Communication they say is "key" and being sincerely open while communicating is a huge deal.

Both partners must understand boundaries of physical touch. Spicing things up virtually can replace physical activities too.

More brutal truth is definitely needed in terms of distance romance. Speak out about what you want and how you want your partner to communicate and reach out.

Create schedules ahead (together).



Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 9:54am On Dec 01, 2021
Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?

wetin concern you

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Opeyemic01: 9:56am On Dec 01, 2021
joelag:
Place magun on her before you leave, and have peace of mind.

That's wickedness, except she is permitted to place it on you too before you leave

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by sharpwriter(m): 9:58am On Dec 01, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes, I'm a male.
lol... i hear una.... it seems you periodically choose times to be naughty cheesy
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by VEHINTOLAR: 10:02am On Dec 01, 2021
mvem:
why are we one sided?...The man that went abroad doesn't he sleep with ladies or have some he sleeps with ? ...why are we fixated in the woman ...is the man faithful in that abroad too ?

This tit for tat mentality is why some ladies are now in their mid forties and are still carrying their maiden names all around ! If we are to go by your argument here,it is okay for the woman too to sleep around since the man abroad does same,right ? Well done sir ! May the devil help such a married woman the day "kasala" go burst !

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 10:05am On Dec 01, 2021
Toks2008:
The faithful ladies use dildos and the men have side babes.
Some ladies say they love to be smooched and French kissed than actual sex.Some do that but don't have sex with their side guy.If I as a guy no smooch and kiss,I won't have the urge for sex.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 10:09am On Dec 01, 2021
vickydevoka:
Masturbation help especially de female partners. Men don't really love it. De need real puna, so they are liable to cheat
Most women love cuddling and kissing more than sex.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by asanausana91: 10:23am On Dec 01, 2021
Bennysam:

Ironically most of them don't think like you, they don't care if she cheat or not , all they care about is their kids
how sure the so called kids are his'?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by QueenAgbo(f): 10:28am On Dec 01, 2021
Me @sufferingboy can not try it.You must dey with me abroad.

I nor dey share toto with another man.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by afesco: 10:34am On Dec 01, 2021
Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?
5 years is even better unlike my former neighbor dt spent over 8 years in Europe b4 coming to see his family. Of a truth, I really don't understand how his wife was able to cope

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Billygee2u: 10:42am On Dec 01, 2021
Joysticks:
Coded cheaters.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Jenniferamams(f): 10:44am On Dec 01, 2021
There are still some faithful ones out there.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Billygee2u: 10:45am On Dec 01, 2021
Lalami3232:
grin I pity you as a man wey leave your spouse for 9ja and travel go abroad, you just be like person wey plant corn by the roadside grin grin. On no condition should you ever leave your spouse in 9ja, no ever try am atall because you don give free food to friends/community and street urchins. Even the woman wey you dey live with for house still dey carry another man pikin to give to you, talkless of say you leave her at the mercies of people. Women dey always claim say dem no like sex and fit control body, my dear na lie ooooo. Deep down, dem want their engines to be serviced regularly and greesed thoroughly grin.
Never make the mistake of leaving ur spouse for 9ja while you travel for long, I don warn you finish. Pu*sy no be like WhatsApp wey get "LAST SEEN", so u no fit know if dem dey cheat but 99.9999% of the time, one guy dey drill her oil on a regular basis.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again " The day I go mistakenly born girl pikin eeh, I go *********** "
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Ganbite: 10:46am On Dec 01, 2021
Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?


Most of the expatriates in my company here left their wives in their country because they are not given the chance to come with their wives.

If they can cope i believe some Nigeria can cope too, first they will hand over the woman to their mother, some of these ladies are faithful just that 80% will go contrary to the marriage but in all, it's possible because they create time for communication.

In conclusion, communication is the key and reason why it is possible

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Jeezuzpick(m): 10:56am On Dec 01, 2021
CanadaOrBust:


Not true. Not the first wife - just like the first wife of the guy abroad.

Go and ask any Muslim woman. They may not like it, but they expect their husbands to have other wives.

In fact, my Muslim friends like saying polygamy is better than having side chicks
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Gilgal36: 11:13am On Dec 01, 2021
Self service
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by membranus: 11:22am On Dec 01, 2021
mu2sa2:
That's typical of yoloba, highly cunny and deceptive people.

And the Igbos are gentle as lambs and saintly?

Have you watched the videos of your brothers cannibalising three innocent Policemen?

I pity you brother for always running away from the truth, but after blatant lies.

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Kobicove(m): 11:25am On Dec 01, 2021
Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?

What?!

He left his wife and kids for 5 straight years? shocked
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Bennysam: 11:29am On Dec 01, 2021
asanausana91:
how sure the so called kids are his'?
DNA test my brother
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Bennysam: 11:31am On Dec 01, 2021
Myexdisturbs:

Meaning u have someone u cheat with as well, its just natural its not your business what she does since u both are deceiving yourself and doing same thing cheesy wink
If you based abroad you will understand, if you put mind there you will die brother, most of those guys abroad live with a woman . Like i said before they are married because of kids sake
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Bennysam: 11:32am On Dec 01, 2021
BABANGBALI:
uncle can I have your wife’s number please?
I can't give you but i won't stop you from going because woman is something else

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Myexdisturbs: 11:32am On Dec 01, 2021
Bennysam:

If you based abroad you will understand, if you put mind there you will die brother, most of those guys abroad live with a woman . Like i said before they are married because of kids sake
I'm in the abroad now bro wink so what else do you want to tell me
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by joelag: 11:35am On Dec 01, 2021
Opeyemic01:


That's wickedness, except she is permitted to place it on you too before you leave

Some of those men claiming holy holy, you think it's their ordinary eyes... Na dia wives put magun on them
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Bennysam: 11:35am On Dec 01, 2021
Myexdisturbs:

I'm in the abroad now bro wink so what else do you want to tell me
Alright , what i will tell you is please don't put your/trust in a woman in Nigeria so that you won't die young brother

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Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Father4all: 11:36am On Dec 01, 2021
Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?
wetin concern you?

Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Jsabigi: 11:38am On Dec 01, 2021
The most faithful ones masturbate.
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Myexdisturbs: 11:39am On Dec 01, 2021
Bennysam:

Alright , what i will tell you is please don't put your/trust in a woman in Nigeria so that you won't die young brother
Lol, okay oo
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by seyz91(m): 11:44am On Dec 01, 2021
Which kind stupid question be this?

Even spouse wey dey work next/neighbouring state sef no sure as dem dey Bleep around undecided

Kon dey talk abroad undecided
Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?
Re: How Do Spouses Whose Partners Live Abroad Cope Sexually? by Elxandre(m): 12:14pm On Dec 01, 2021
joelag:
Place magun on her before you leave, and have peace of mind.
When wahala happen, your wife go chop disgrace too, which will extend to your kids and you, yourself. grin

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