I’m a lady who has hardly enjoyed male attention. People usually complement me, tell me I look good but I just never get asked out. No matter how good I look, even if I’m the most good looking among a group of people, others get admirers but I don’t. It’s made me conclude I’m probably ugly or not as good looking as i think. It’s beginning to affect my morale and low key, I’m gradually giving up on ever getting married. Sometimes I just wonder what it feels like to be asked out by someone who just sees me and admires me. I’m nice, decent, don’t sleep around, Godly and take good care of my appearance. I just don’t know what the issue is.
Could it be that there’s really a problem. Am I ugly abi is it village people ni.
I’m truly worried because I desire to get married and don’t want to remain single and lonely forever.

Don't fret about it, it's gonna happen!
Just watch yourself to be sure you aren't the one scaring men away through your behavior/sense of dressing.

I don't know what you believe but for me as a Christian, I believe God comes later to give me the latest!!!

Careful of what you wish for ....
You getting the compliments, that's good. Your worry is about marriage. You actually don't need marriage not to feel lonely, having supportive friends should count at least. but if you are really about the marriage, I concur with lecturerdabo parting statement above.

check you fit get mouth odour

It could be that you're always pressing your phone when out or look intimidating. In any case, you don't need to be worried because it's not every man that you want to be approaching you, as that itself can be a bad thing. You can, of course, pray and fast, if you think it's not ordinary that you're not getting asked out much, but I can tell you the right person will come at the right time.

You will still get your own man. The problem you have can only be solved by you.

InTheCloudySky:
It could be that you're always pressing your phone when out or look intimidating. In any case, you don't need to be worried because it's not every man that you want to be approaching you, as that itself can be a bad thing. I can tell you the right person will come at the right time.

Right!!!

Sometimes don't wait for guys to ask u out. If u see a nigga u like, ain't no crime for a lady to shoot her shot on a guy. Things hv changed

U r ugly

Cokahot:
U r ugly

Wehdone Mr handsome

lecturerdabo:
Don't fret about it, it's gonna happen!
Just watch yourself to be sure you aren't the one scaring men away through your behavior/sense of dressing.

I don't know what you believe but for me as a Christian, I believe God comes later to give me the latest!!!

Amen. I believe that but sometimes get scared when I see good Christian women who didn’t get settled till their late 30’s,40’s or who are still single.
I’m a decent/good dresser and also nice to people

Odoogu:
Careful of what you wish for ....
You getting the compliments, that's good. Your worry is about marriage. You actually don't need marriage not to feel lonely, having supportive friends should count at least. but if you are really about the marriage, I concur with lecturerdabo parting statement above.

Most of my ‘supportive’ friends are married and truth is it’s beginning to get to me. Thanks for the encouragement

Born2winKingOG:
check you fit get mouth odour

Look..... I definitely don’t

InTheCloudySky:
It could be that you're always pressing your phone when out or look intimidating. In any case, you don't need to be worried because it's not every man that you want to be approaching you, as that itself can be a bad thing. You can, of course, pray and fast, if you think it's not ordinary that you're not getting asked out much, but I can tell you the right person will come at the right time.

I do pray about it. Tnx for d kind words

MufasaLion:
You will still get your own man. The problem you have can only be solved by you.

Wish I knew what the problem was

bfaci93:


Look..... I definitely don’t

funny you, person when mouth dey smell can never perceive the odour.

SmellySperm:
Sometimes don't wait for guys to ask u out. If u see a nigga u like, ain't no crime for a lady to shoot her shot on a guy. Things hv changed

Hmm, not all guys can handle that maturely.

Cokahot:
U r ugly

Even tho I prefer not to call people ugly, I’ve seen people u won’t call good looking have better luck with men

bfaci93:


Most of my ‘supportive’ friends are married and truth is it’s beginning to get to me. Thanks for the encouragement

With all sense of respect, make new ones.