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I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:18pm On Dec 04, 2021
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by KiNg0G: 9:21pm On Dec 04, 2021
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op that will cause me future grievance, let it miscarriage.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Orgasmgiver123(m): 9:22pm On Dec 04, 2021
One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. Nasty.. I'm out of here

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Ulunne777(f): 9:23pm On Dec 04, 2021
Keep doing it.You woke up late.

Somebody you already sponsored ND1 and paid rent for ,feeding money come be problem.

You will be there and someone else will colect her. grin

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Dec 04, 2021
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:24pm On Dec 04, 2021
Ulunne777:
Keep doing it.You woke up late.

Somebody you already sponsored ND1 and ND2 ,feeding money come be problem.

You will be there and someone else will colect her.


Is not a problem, but I don't think is proper for me to be feeding her, even when she's in her parent house bro.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:25pm On Dec 04, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibility, there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

I expected much from you.

But what nairander called you is what you're.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by ednut1(m): 9:25pm On Dec 04, 2021
You knew all these. You are nothing but a simp and silly man. Na una dey spoil all these women. Shame

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by liya11: 9:26pm On Dec 04, 2021
This question is irrelevant at this stage mister.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:26pm On Dec 04, 2021
ednut1:
You knew all these. You are nothing but a simp and silly man. Na una dey spoil all these women. Shame

Her parent can't just do anything, but just at least to help her.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:27pm On Dec 04, 2021
liya11:
This question is irrelevant at this stage mister.

Ok what do you think I can do?
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by liya11: 9:28pm On Dec 04, 2021
ednut1:
You knew all these. You are nothing but a simp and silly man. Na una dey spoil all these women. Shame


Exactly, people like him are the reason why we have so many lazy ladies in nigeria.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by endsarrrs(f): 9:28pm On Dec 04, 2021
undecided Entitled mentality


BTW This pounded Yam is practising Polygamy

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by liya11: 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


Ok what do you think I can do?

Well, for a starter, if you're tired of being her daddy tell her so.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2021
liya11:



Exactly, people like him are the reason why we have so many lazy ladies in nigeria.

She is ambitious though, but her parent can't help.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:30pm On Dec 04, 2021
endsarrrs:
undecided This pounded Yam is practising Polygamy.

Can you translate this bro

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


I expected much from you.

But what nairander called you is what you're.
You expected me to shy away from the bitter truth? it is the reason I'm always the odd one out in most opinions on issues because i spit reality,you are enjoying marital bliss and other conjugal enjoyments but you don't want to spend,are you her creator? As long as you are sleeping with her please don't complain of any demands from her,nothing is free,not even the air we breath.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by ednut1(m): 9:31pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


Her parent can't just do anything, but just at least to help her.
so why complaining If you start to feed a wild animal eg crocodile or lion. It will stop hunting and keep coming to you for free food. Any woman from anyhow family best is to stay away. Most of the girls cannot be loyal, they sleep around for money to survive. If you dont send her money another guy will. And she go nack am

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:32pm On Dec 04, 2021
liya11:


Well, for a starter, if you're tired of being her daddy tell her so.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Dec 04, 2021
KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op, let it miscarriage
TotoOG but you pay for sex,is that not simping? kikikiki

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Ynix(m): 9:34pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.
Na your type, your fellow man and childhood friend will ask for support for his business but you will say, oh sorry friend I am broke now.
Any ways if you have money you are not using me I need am to promote my cryptocurrency project.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:34pm On Dec 04, 2021
Iyaebe:
You expected me to shy away from the bitter truth? it is the reason I'm always the odd one out in most opinions on issues because i spit reality,you are enjoying marital bliss and other conjugal enjoyments but you don't want to spend,are you her creator? As long as you are sleeping with her please don't complain of any demands from her,nothing is free,not even the air we breath.

.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Ulunne777(f): 9:34pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:



Is not a problem, but I don't think is proper for me to be feeding her, even when she's in her parent house bro.

Yes it isn't but at this stage you cant do anything again except to make sure she ha s something doing.

It is ur cross

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Dec 04, 2021
You've no one to blame but yourself. I'm sure you were waving your car keys and wallet in her face when you met her, trying to show her you've money. Some of you Nigerian men think you can buy a woman's love with money, not knowing you're setting the precedent for how the relationship will unfold. When you've been carrying all her financial responsibilities for 3-years like one big shot, why won't she continue to expect it and see you as her 24/7, accessible atm?

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:35pm On Dec 04, 2021
ednut1:
so why complaining If you start to feed a wild animal eg crocodile or lion. It will stop hunting and keep coming to you for free food. Any woman from anyhow family best is to stay away. Most of the girls cannot be loyal, they sleep around for money to survive. If you dont send her money another guy will. And she go nack am

Ok she can go nack bro

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Dec 04, 2021
Bro, u don already turn to her mama and papa, so no need to ask her that question.
Shebi na u dey provide her basic needs before, why u con dey vex as she ask you for feeding money?? grin grin
This guy ehhh, you don't know what is going on.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2021
KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op, let it miscarriage

But you also pay to Bleep asawo now. You be simp also

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by liya11: 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


She is ambitious though, but her parent can't help.

Then, don't complain.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2021
Ynix:

Na your type, your fellow man and childhood friend will ask for support for his business but you will say, oh sorry friend I am broke now.
Any ways if you have money you are not using me I need am to promote my cryptocurrency project.

I help everyone around me bro

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 04, 2021
Useless men everywhere, I pity ladies that give you people free sex all in the name of expression of feelings, even Adam couldn't touch Eve till God asked him to do something which serves as the bride price before he was allowed to touch her but some ladies wey nack head for ground will begin parting their legs over nonsense expression of feelings. Its unbibilical to have free sex,go and find out.So Oga Op if you can't feed her then leave her for her parents and go your way,you did not complain when you were winning your pelenge waist on top of her.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:38pm On Dec 04, 2021
Ulunne777:


Yes it isn't but at this stage you cant do anything again except to make sure she ha s something doing.

It is ur cross

She want to enroll for catering professional now, which will be like 6months
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:40pm On Dec 04, 2021
Beebah2000:
Bro, u don already turn to her mama and papa, so no need to ask her that question.
Shebi na u dey provide her basic needs before, why u con dey vex as she ask you for feeding money?? grin grin
This guy ehhh, you don't know what is going on.

But she's in her parent house now, why will be feeding her when she's with me and be feeding her again in her father's house.

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