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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:40pm On Dec 04, 2021
liya11:


Then, don't complain.

Am not complaining, but I want to push her to her parent, at least talk to them to up their games,

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by ednut1(m): 9:43pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


Am not complaining, but I want to push her to her parent, at least talk to them to up their games,
after 3 years u better send her 20k now hahahha

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 9:44pm On Dec 04, 2021
ednut1:
after 3 years u better send her 20k now hahahha

For you to know, I have really tries, but still are parent is still not improving.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Skullano(m): 9:55pm On Dec 04, 2021
Idi very very stipoodd to even bother us with this nonsense you just wrote here.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


But she's in her parent house now, why will be feeding her when she's with me and be feeding her again in her father's house.
lol. Maybe she like asking you for money. She's already use to your money cheesy
Even if na Buhari house she dey, she will still call u and tell u to send her feeding money grin

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Ynix(m): 10:36pm On Dec 04, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


I help everyone around me bro
That's okay
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by AYNL: 10:49pm On Dec 04, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

and all you could talk about is sex

shey na only him dey enjoy it

and BTW, should sex be the only thing the girl can offer in return for everything he's done for her

shey the girl na olosho?

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Iyasaburi: 11:40pm On Dec 04, 2021
At this point, bros, it is too late to be asking such a foolish question

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Cokahot: 12:07am On Dec 05, 2021
They are all useless. O met a girl 3 weeks ago,we chat n all,she refused to send me her nudes,but went ahead to send it to another guy who casted her. I got to know she is a runs gal,mind u she begged me for 3k nd I sent to her last week. I asked if she is a runs gal as she is always travelling, and next tin she blocked me. Well I felt relieved.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by arthurwillia(m): 12:14am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

Who be this one like this

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 1:55am On Dec 05, 2021
AYNL:


and all you could talk about is sex

shey na only him dey enjoy it

and BTW, should sex be the only thing the girl can offer in return for everything he's done for her

shey the girl na olosho?

I just ignore all her quotes

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 1:56am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyasaburi:
At this point, bros, it is too late to be asking such a foolish question


It's not too late, at least trying to push her to press her parent to be at least a bit responsible

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by yinkaOdutuyo: 1:57am On Dec 05, 2021
arthurwillia:


Who be this one like this

Full House Prostitute

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Goldbw122(m): 4:59am On Dec 05, 2021
That is why it is good for the girl to have something like a hand work before hand, before the relationship so that you don't need all those heavy load, the girl her self can sort out her problems.. by her self.. that is why it is good to be with a girl that have a hand work it is very important.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Goldbw122(m): 4:59am On Dec 05, 2021
Cokahot:
They are all useless. O met a girl 3 weeks ago,we chat n all,she refused to send me her nudes,but went ahead to send it to another guy who casted her. I got to know she is a runs gal,mind u she begged me for 3k nd I sent to her last week. I asked if she is a runs gal as she is always travelling, and next tin she blocked me. Well I felt relieved.
Touching
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by AgentGoat: 5:03am On Dec 05, 2021
You don tire?

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by MufasaLion: 5:47am On Dec 05, 2021
Yes, you're wrong by writing "Are My Wrong?" It should be "Am I Wrong?"

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by danot1030: 6:18am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

You are not wrong. For all you have done for her so far I hope she will live to appreciate it cos most times this kind of things usually ends in story that pains.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 6:25am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves



at this point let me conclude, your father never brought you up well

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 6:26am On Dec 05, 2021
Johndagr8t:




at this point let me conclude, your father never brought you up well
Onyenzuzu

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 6:37am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Onyenzuzu


to your mum

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by arthurwillia(m): 6:41am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


Full House Prostitute

Omo this one choke oooo

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by omolasho: 6:45am On Dec 05, 2021
Let me guess, Ops you are kidding right? Now this is the thing, you love this girl and probably contemplating spending your life with her. The prob is she most probably don't love but sees you as a leverage to make good of her life. She manipulates you with coded lies and prolific sex to do her bidings. Don't think you can guit her into believing she owes you gratitudes, rather she believes is rewarding you with good sex. Marry her at your peril.
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Saintinoo(m): 7:02am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.
I don't care how you spend your money, but I hope you also spend this much for your mother and female siblings.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Elchappo: 7:18am On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

Nah ur type dey born prostitutes... I wish u change ur mindset before it's late..

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 7:31am On Dec 05, 2021
Is she your wife?

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by dhiqson(m): 7:43am On Dec 05, 2021
So let me get this well
You were a provider ever before you got married
And now you're backing out of what you signed up for
Even coming here to ask us if you're wrong for.....



See ehn Men like you are the reasons why ladies feel dey are the real deal
Cause WTF man


I'm not the one to call you names
Just enjoy your cross
Enjoy bro

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Harddiskng(m): 8:26am On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
………..

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

You need a helper not a dependent to weigh you down, better make that clear to her with your actions. Yes she is in school, without any means to provide for herself that the more reason a sensible babe would manage herself not want whatever nonsense others have.

Better count your losses and move on. If she is not married to you never provide for her what her parents cannot, you have broken that rule already.

Please at bolded is this really the kind of person you want to settle with, the moment (God-forbid) you lack the capacity to provide she would be off to the next one.

KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op that will cause me future grievance, let it miscarriage.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Harddiskng(m): 8:33am On Dec 05, 2021
AYNL:


and all you could talk about is sex

shey na only him dey enjoy it

and BTW, should sex be the only thing the girl can offer in return for everything he's done for her

shey the girl na olosho?

Bro why you go dey quote Iyaebe, you see say nobody quote am or follow am talk. Imagine trading something of value for something of zero value.

Abeg leave the senseless weyrey

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by excanny: 8:36am On Dec 05, 2021
You already made a fool of yourself. Too late. Best thing is cut your losses and move on.

This kind of girl will end up cheating on you, if she's not even doing it already sef.

Just end it and sin no more. Be wise next time. Don't be a father and mother to a love interest. Don't start what you can't finish.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 8:41am On Dec 05, 2021
I don't think the problem is her parent.... No parent will totally neglect their daughter financially, no matter how poor they might be. She's collecting from them and at the same time she's collecting from you. So that itself equals cheating.

To maintain her lifestyle and whatever. Asking for feeding money from you while she's at home validate my point. Cus I know her mother is cooking for her, no matter how sub-standard the food might be.

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by AfroKnight: 8:48am On Dec 05, 2021
Guys, please focus your helping hands on men. When you invest in men, you have indirectly invested in other people. Stop investing in entitled women.

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