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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Nilx: 10:48am On Dec 07, 2021
That’s the second most stupid thing do for any living thing
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by ugotaya: 10:50am On Dec 07, 2021
PTA VIRTUAL MEETING ON DOWEN COLLEGE. PLEASE LISTEN!

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Finest6: 10:52am On Dec 07, 2021
Sending a lady to school is the most dangerous harm a man could do to himself. Instead marry her and impregnate her before sending her to school. Because when she gets there her eyes will be opened to see that the man is too Old for her to marry.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Kenneth10110(m): 10:54am On Dec 07, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
A similar thing once happened to my elder bro friend...Na once the guy arrange some of him fellow close nigha men to track her reach her mama house......The luck wey the guy get na be say he dey keep all the tellerd wey he dey use send her money all those while for school......Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her..

Wetin pain the guy na be say she even send the guy invitation via WhatsApp......Las las,her mum gats raise money to settle the guy...

If I dey kind to you,no think say I be fool....just that,I dey naturally nice..

No body be mugu undecided


wait o did they sign any agreement that they must marry if that girl get better back up the guy for loose the case.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Truvelisback(m): 10:58am On Dec 07, 2021
It's only fools that do so.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by senatrpaichulo(m): 10:58am On Dec 07, 2021
You can't be held responsible for what you don't own. Don't ever make that mistake. Better you marry her first. Don't train before you marry, hence you're only fueling a car you don't own. My one cent
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Nobody: 11:17am On Dec 07, 2021
Nicklaus619:
Mistakes that could easily be corrected,

if i was the man, i will first of all gets her pregnant, marry her , she gives birth then we discuss school, just when she's gain admission, boom I get her pregnant again, she will birth my kids before she graduate cool
see wetin you dey plan for person daughter grin grin grin

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by floraojo(f): 11:19am On Dec 07, 2021
Not every girl is an ingrate. Stop generalizing .
My younger sis was trained by a guy. The guy started with paying her Jamb fee uptill university level. She no even wait make the guy pay her bride price she run go meet d guy.you as her sister no go even open mouth talk rubbish about d guy. You go become her enemy. No be every girl bad.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Damoche10: 11:24am On Dec 07, 2021
I once met this damsel years back that I was so much into. A very serious relationship it was and she was a student. She asked me of 250k to start a clothing line at one time which I consented to give her. Guess what? It came out that she was a coded Olosho. My friend's pally was talking about her not knowing I was dating her....see pictures....see whatsapp messages shared about Sx...and plans on what next to do?... ..kicked her to the curb.

Oga, open ya eyes ooo...not worth it. Put your money to good use like career development initiative.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by seyz91(m): 11:28am On Dec 07, 2021
Confirm!
Sonnobax15:
Woman wey go move go must surely move one day...If you like buy many rings for all her finger nails like queen of the rings,she go still move leave you.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by henryobinna(m): 11:30am On Dec 07, 2021
God1000:

Are you serious?
there's almost nothing he can do right now.

Count his losses and move on.

He can't tie her down, it makes no sense spending on her hoping she stays, it's a pointless 'battle'
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by seyz91(m): 11:30am On Dec 07, 2021
You no lie
zanshi:
Naija women don't know how lucky they are with Naija men.

Go to countries like UK, USA which man go help you pay student loan except he is a multi millionaire or extremely generous.

Some men in some countries don't have time to extend this level of generousity to a fully able bodied women.

It's like God giving you the man you can dev with and build something and you are telling him noo he is not good enough and that i will go find mine.

Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by seyz91(m): 11:30am On Dec 07, 2021
cheesy
knowhowk:
U mean there are still Daft that does this Nonsense ?
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by ComedianzazaB(m): 11:32am On Dec 07, 2021
How a grown man with his right sense of humor go send Nigeria girl go school with the mindset say him go marry am when she graduate? Why him no fit put her belle or even born one first before school story



Instead of me to used my hard earned money to sponsor any girl in school, I'll refer use the money to buy enough condom beef a lot of prostitutes
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Tboymessiah(m): 11:33am On Dec 07, 2021
AlphaAlex:
grin grin grin grin hahahaha you men will never learn . As far as she’s getting what she wants from you without stress she will keep playing Along . Stop trying to use money to woo women in any form it only ends in tears Una no Dey hear something

Correct, if I may ask, that playing Along
Expand it for me, let me learn.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Danny5050: 11:39am On Dec 07, 2021
Hahahah... E choke.
Is only a foolish guy that does such nonsense.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by brainhack(m): 11:41am On Dec 07, 2021
Sonnobax15:
Na once she knee down and begin shed tears,dey beg...But the guy no gree forgive her.

If I dey kind to you, no think say I be fool....

At the bolded I hate it when I see wicked people begging, It fuels my anger. They act wickedly then turn to beg when cornered. What exactly is the purpose of their begging undecided

Don’t sow seeds you are not ready to reap.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by FunnyDude(m): 11:47am On Dec 07, 2021
Solofresh2:
One thing we should know in life is that, there is a reward for everything we do in this life.

Helping someone (either male or female) to achieve their desire should be something done from the heart without expecting a profit or gain in the future.

It is better you don't help at all than helping and expecting to gain from the person you helped, even without their consent.

I don't for once approve sending a lady to school so you can marry her later.What is the job of her parents if i may ask?
Even if she is an orphan,I still don't support it because women are like snakes.They are not straight forward.She might end up bleeping a guy there without your consent.

I would rather help a male like me than help a female because I know I might sexually be attracted to her.So what is the point of helping her in the first place.

I can't send a lady to school.The highest I can do for you as a lady is feed you and it can't be all the time.
Even if you are my wife,I can't still send you to school because I know women are fragile in nature.She can get there now and start bleeping one good for nothing dude and she will keep it a secret.I can open a business for you as my wife because you are now part of my life but school is a no no for me.

100% support this. Nice one

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Nicklaus619(m): 11:56am On Dec 07, 2021
anewchapter:
see wetin you dey plan for person daughter grin grin grin

I dont take chances bro grin
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by frank950(m): 12:01pm On Dec 07, 2021
Offpoint1:
Any guy doing that or thinking about doing it should stop.

I have a female friend which her boyfriend has been sponsoring her schools for years, she's serving now. She confided in me that should won't marry the guy... I was heartbroken cuz I knew this guy through her, very quiet guy. I won't even state what he does for a living, this compounds the pain.

Only train a woman you're married to, women generally are emotionally unstable... Only few are deeply deeply in love can withstand the temptations out there.


Must it always be women that get trained ....
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by ComedianzazaB(m): 12:01pm On Dec 07, 2021
Who witness am angry


floraojo:
Not every girl is an ingrate. Stop generalizing .
My younger sis was trained by a guy. The guy started with paying her Jamb fee uptill university level. She no even wait make the guy pay her bride price she run go meet d guy.you as her sister no go even open mouth talk rubbish about d guy. You go become her enemy. No be every girl bad.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by professore(m): 12:07pm On Dec 07, 2021
Bigredmachine:
The man is a fool...

Why not marry the lady before sending her to school, or who don marry no dey go school...

At times some men behaves like they don't have choices in this life which is bad...

Always read the end from the beginning, now they have left u behind, u are lamenting
Great you. Everything said here is sound.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 07, 2021
Tboymessiah:


Correct, if I may ask, that playing Along
Expand it for me, let me learn.
if you present yourself to a woman a certain way she will eventually understand the idea you have about her in your head and therefore continue to play the role you perceive her to be for instance if you think she’s a good girl and she can do no wrong in your sights she will continue to play the good girl role for you as long as she can because she knows that’s what you see her as. Women act differently to different people the side of her that you appreciate the most that’s the side she will continue to show you until you discover the other side . Why do you think many men say their wives changed after marrying them ? Because she was playing a part in order to secure a certain commitment. If she sees you have money and you are constantly putting it in her face that you have money she will adjust her behavior to please you so you can spend some on her, if she’s rude to others she may not be so rude to you because her eyes are on the prize. If she tells you she doesn’t do certain things and you believe her she will keep up the act while being able to do same things with another person so in your mind you have a fixed view of her which is not who she really is.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by benqo01(m): 12:10pm On Dec 07, 2021
The man is a plain fool
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Babaken(m): 12:14pm On Dec 07, 2021
Training another girl when no be your sister or daughter for school in the name of marriage when you no too get. No be mumu be that.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Berezuski: 12:20pm On Dec 07, 2021
Very bad investment
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Femline: 12:21pm On Dec 07, 2021
Bigredmachine:


Sex that both parties enjoyed... Rather that the lady even enjoyed more

Nope, cut this crap!! If sex is so important to ladies why is it that we say no sex before and you men want to die or cry foul?

See, men are the beneficiaries of sex because hence why they behave as if their lives depend on it.

So better stop with this "both enjoy the sex" as if you guys know how to make women enjoy sex.

Most married women are still having sex with their husbands b/c of obligation not that they really want to.

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Femline: 12:24pm On Dec 07, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Heal!! You and those who likes your comment need healing.

A person is considered wise until he opens his mouth.

What sorts of childishness and ignorance is this?

What sort of hasty generalization is this?

And people liked the comment?

It's like saying "all Nigeria men are useless because one of them or some of them beat their wives"

You need to grow up!!
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Jidemoo: 12:39pm On Dec 07, 2021
Bigredmachine:


Sex that both parties enjoyed... Rather that the lady even enjoyed more
that's what most men are ignorant of.

I can never tell a lady Thank You for enjoying sex with me....am the one losing somehow...if not that konji na bastard...I for no dey have sex.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Bobloco: 12:43pm On Dec 07, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

The one and only Mosdii

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Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Amalekki: 12:51pm On Dec 07, 2021
You can train anybody out of the goodness of your heart as you may be liberating a generation but never expect anything in return.

If it's someone you intend to marry then proceed to the registry for a court marriage immediately, you don't need crowd. Just two witnesses that will sign the marriage document. Marriage does not stop school or any professional education.
Re: Training A Lady That Isn't Your Wife In School. by Blackdisciple(m): 12:53pm On Dec 07, 2021
I only train a child but not a grown up girl hoping we will be together in future, I no dey craze oo

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