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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by ekwynwa: 4:15pm On Dec 07, 2021
tranxo:

Funny how the woman, despite this happened to her own child, kept quiet.

If this woman had spoken out with this energy she is using now to shout on the counselor (whom I don't necessarily blame bc how could he have spoken when he was an employee), Sly may just be alive.

This woman knew the 2 incompetent male staff yet kept quiet. Principal told her about the video of her son's bully, yet she didn't raise alarm.

See how the counselor was shut down. We may never get to hear all the secretd he would have revealed in this video.
She recently saw the video (Thursday)
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by yunqdady: 4:16pm On Dec 07, 2021
justosee:
The rich thought their problems are over after building expensive schools for themselves.
If you check very well, you will see that most of the parents of the children in this type of school are the ones destroying public institutions.
You and the people that liked your post are all bitter poverty striken witches. Jealous head. No go pray make your own better. Stupid hater
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by oilmane(m): 4:18pm On Dec 07, 2021
Wizkidfc:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzBEk2p7qHU

Parents of dowen college students on a zoom call: Mother flares up because her child was bullied. former counsellor admits to inhuman treatment amongst students.



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/12/why-are-you-speaking-now-that-a-child-has-died-nigerian-mum-attacks-ex-dowen-college-counselor-who-said-the-students-in-the-school-are-not-well-monitored-video.html

I don't get it, the principal told you she saw the video of your son being bullied but did not act cause she felt it wasn't important as it wasn't posted online? And you too didn't think it important to post it online for the world to see the school for what it is? The ex councillor as well didn't speak out even though she knows what's going on in the school. All of you are complicit in the death of Sylvester, your silence is what emboldened those young cultist to go the extra mile, they've been going scot free after every atrocity they commit thus they believe they're untouchables. The principal should be arrested ASAP.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by ekwynwa: 4:19pm On Dec 07, 2021
sgtponzihater1:


What Nigerians don't do is put their selves in others shoes. They are quick to blame people, but will do worse.

The lady is crying and shouting at the counsellor, yet when her children were bullied, she kept them in the school still. She should have led by example. Sylvesters parents said he was bullied last year also, but still kept their children in the school.

Yet all these people are blaming a counsellor, who is only an employee of the school, that left as soon as he saw another job opportunity. He never admitted seeing a child bullied, he only said the way the hostels were structured was concerning, and the lady who's child was bullied yet kept her wards there came after him.

Is there no corruption in the civil service, why are civil servants, not calling out their employers. What of the police, what of the army or other sectors.

The school management should take all the blame for not putting in a safety mechanism, and for taking bullying with kids glove, and not a mere employee, who is trying to feed himself and his family.

She may have reported to the school management when her son was bullied, but she did not know how it all went down until she recently saw the graphic video last Thursday
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by blaise26abj(m): 4:19pm On Dec 07, 2021
Mindlog:
Sighs....I remember my term paper in child and adolescent psychology class during my undergrad and it was on the irrelevance of boarding schools in the present day. I got to work with adolescents in boarding schools and I really got insights on how messed up, things are.
An you share the paper for us to read ? Thanks
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by TheOmoney(m): 4:21pm On Dec 07, 2021
NA ONLY IDIOTIC HEARTLESS AMD SENSELESS PARENTS DEY SEND CHILDREN GO BOARDING SCHOOL!
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Richy4(m): 4:21pm On Dec 07, 2021
joefelin2345:
Exactly my brother. Don't mind the woman jare. In a sane country, she equally has some case to answer. How could such happened to your own child & you kept mute until now?

The woman would not have achieved anything assuming she shouted when that happened to his son because no one died in her own case...

Did you not see how the school were lying through their teeth that the boy died of injury sustained by playing football? What do you think they would have said to a mother whose son was alive..

If not that some one died and no one was buying their cover up stories, it would have been swept under the carpet as well

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by streetsoldier1(m): 4:21pm On Dec 07, 2021
Yemlizzy:
This is very sad I cried embarassed Slyvester has died just like that. This counselor didn’t try one bit, if he spoke out when he noticed all these it won’t get to this level.

The culprits shouldn’t be allowed to go freely. Slyvester should get the justice he deserves. His death is just a terrible one.

If he'd spoken out then, by now he will be in jail or no one woulda believed him then, the school board have a way of dealing with staff who refuse to kowtow in their poho
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by seguno2: 4:21pm On Dec 07, 2021
Drambo:
Funny how the counselor new all these was going on & he just kept mute

He is a gentleman who has table manners of keeping quiet when you are chopping. No be so
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by cocolacec(m): 4:21pm On Dec 07, 2021
addictedwriter:
Not surprised about this dowen school matter. I work in a high class school as a teacher and I can tell you, these kids are rotten. No decorum, respect or courtesy. Imagine a kid of 10 years having millions in his account due to early exposure to wealth by his/her parent; how can such a child value human life? As a teacher I have so much to deal with in terms of morality instilling in these rich kids. I pray Sylvester find justice...I deeply hope
The issue with wealthy kids is not exposure to wealth but cycle of violence in the Nigeria society.Their parents will oppress housemaids,gatemen,drivers etc.chidren watch and try to replicate what they see.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by seguno2: 4:23pm On Dec 07, 2021
Omahlayy:
The name of this school don spoil

Insignificant, compared to the death of Sylvester, and other children whose lives were destroyed.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by CryptoPornster(m): 4:23pm On Dec 07, 2021
SonOfEl:


You are simply ignorant of the fact that he spoke up and then resigned. Didn't you hear him?

Ear dey pain you be that.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by jibbish(m): 4:24pm On Dec 07, 2021
OmoOshodi:
best comment so far.....the woman is a hypocrite, her cry could have saved Sly if she had done it earlier.....telling lies... she never chop, drink nor sleep.......Lai Muhammed sister
Blaming a teacher who left 9 years ago when her son was prolly 2 years is the weakest thing I heard in her analysis.

She was just an attention seeker who allowed her emotions to overcome her.

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by seguno2: 4:24pm On Dec 07, 2021
Ooye12:
This man should be arrested as well his saying rubbi*h , almost 3 million as school fees and all this tra*h is going on there , what a fu**k embarassed

How did the parents get the millions

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by blaise26abj(m): 4:24pm On Dec 07, 2021
sgtponzihater1:


What Nigerians don't do is put their selves in others shoes. They are quick to blame people, but will do worse.

The lady is crying and shouting at the counsellor, yet when her children were bullied, she kept them in the school still. She should have led by example. Sylvesters parents said he was bullied last year also, but still kept their children in the school.

Yet all these people are blaming a counsellor, who is only an employee of the school, that left as soon as he saw another job opportunity. He never admitted seeing a child bullied, he only said the way the hostels were structured was concerning, and the lady who's child was bullied yet kept her wards there came after him.

Is there no corruption in the civil service, why are civil servants, not calling out their employers. What of the police, what of the army or other sectors.

The school management should take all the blame for not putting in a safety mechanism, and for taking bullying with kids glove, and not a mere employee, who is trying to feed himself and his family.

Exactly my thought . The lady is as guilty as the counsellor . Your kid was bullied and she kept quiet ? Paid 3 million and still kept quiet ? Actually the man less blame sef than her . If you can’t change a system , you leave ! Maybe he tried for 9 years and just couldn’t handle it again . Remember he said it became a serious issue after they left the rented dorms to the permanent ones
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by streetsoldier1(m): 4:26pm On Dec 07, 2021
Buffalo2:
That idiot should be prosecuted as well. And by the way how did he get to the meeting after resigning as the School's counsellor?

did you watch till the end. Go back and watch then apologize for this statement u made
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by ekwynwa: 4:28pm On Dec 07, 2021
OmoOshodi:
best comment so far.....the woman is a hypocrite, her cry could have saved Sly if she had done it earlier.....telling lies... she never chop, drink nor sleep.......Lai Muhammed sister

She recently saw an image of how it all happened, this may explain her recent shock and outburst at the zoom meeting.
She may have spoken up about the incident to the school management but am sure that she lost it when she saw the video and also the fact that the school management is aware of the ongoing evil

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Ziniora: 4:32pm On Dec 07, 2021
dalass:


The mother that's talking now, why didn't she shout when it happened to her son

Like she said, it could have been her son that's dead now! She's crying now. She should have cried out earlier about the cult activities against her son then. She even said it's on the net

With such evidence, awareness could have been created and the outrage would have stopped the nonsense....it could hàve saved Sly his life.. There she was, calling out a paid employee who was under an unconcerned management, while she a concerned parent would have been in the best position to shout it out

Thank you so much my thoughts exactly, she had all the proof all the details needed to ensure the environment was safe for all kids, she kept quiet and couldn’t face the school authorities but she is shouting and crying more than the mother of the kid at an ex employee. Eye service with no part two, how many people did she arrest, why didn’t she sue, why didn’t she cry out on social media abegi rubbish looking for relevance

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Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Digmygold: 4:32pm On Dec 07, 2021
Deedonn:
Funny how he was trying to shut the woman up

But she also had some information and kept quiet meaning she did exactly what she was complaining about and even left her child to continue schooling in that same school.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by CryptoPornster(m): 4:33pm On Dec 07, 2021
SonOfEl:


You are simply ignorant of the fact that he spoke up and then resigned. Didn't you hear him?

In that video that has been posted here so
You hear the man use him mouth talk sey him speak out?

Oga goan sidon.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Ooye12: 4:33pm On Dec 07, 2021
seguno2:


How did the parents get the millions
I have no answer to that Question boss
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Digmygold: 4:35pm On Dec 07, 2021
ekwynwa:


She recently saw an image of how it all happened, this may explain her recent shock and outburst at the zoom meeting.
She may have spoken up about the incident to the school management but am sure that she lost it when she saw the video and also the fact that the school management is aware of the ongoing evil

How do you know she "recently" just saw "an image"? She never said that so stop speaking on her behalf on what you cannot back with evidence nor fact.

She is a bloody hypocrite, far worse than the Counsellor she was yelling at for clout.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Blackdisciple(m): 4:35pm On Dec 07, 2021
Someone said ,
Your 1m means nothing to them.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by ekineme: 4:38pm On Dec 07, 2021
izzy4shizzy:


FGC Vandeikyaa


Which year was that?
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by ekineme: 4:43pm On Dec 07, 2021
ndidibabe:
Pls what's the name of this school?

You passed through the umbrella of Pro unitate too?
FGC...
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by toujurs: 4:44pm On Dec 07, 2021
I never knew big men children also face bullies ontop the expensive school fees, i though it was only in unity schools were school fees were subsidized by the government. Its in unity schools, bullying originated from, how i suffered from school, honestly am still amazed, What doesn't kill you, makes you stronger
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by izzy4shizzy(m): 4:45pm On Dec 07, 2021
ekineme:



Which year was that?

JSS 1 was 2004/2005 session
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Rree: 4:51pm On Dec 07, 2021
Oh
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by RosyIsBlessed: 5:12pm On Dec 07, 2021
dalass:


So what was the resolution there?

The truth is the meeting was organised to see headways to curb the menace in schools. It wasn't supposed to be a general public knowledge meeting. Whoever cut that part of the meeting in this video probably did it to show the laxity in Dowen College, and hungry bloggers pounced on the video.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 5:27pm On Dec 07, 2021
seunolu7:
Chai. Hope the children are also not taking drugs supplied by flat heads kaa?
no, they're taking drugs supplied by afonjas. Didn't you see a certain Kashamu who's late father was well known in America as a drug lord ? Useless tribal bigot cool
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by Mindlog: 5:30pm On Dec 07, 2021
blaise26abj:

An you share the paper for us to read ? Thanks

Not for now, as I intend to work further on it for my Doctoral dissertation.
Re: Parents Of Dowen Students On A Zoom Call: Mother Flares up, Ex-Counselor Admits by foreverproduct: 5:49pm On Dec 07, 2021
So sad! Personally, I've never subscribed to children going to boarding school in secondary schools. I think they are just too young to stay away from parents/wards at that age. I personally forbid it o. Such shd be reserved for university.

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