Ishilove:

Please tell me this is a joke??

theamazonguru:


That locust beans with egg go make sense oh.
The idea is this:
Some people add maggi to their egg before frying it.
Locust beans is an alternative to maggi for some people.
Hence this person in question is simply using locust beans as an alternative to maggi.

I will try that combo one day sha.
I so love my soup with locus beans.

theForth:
Hey guys, what's up?

I was at my uncle's place today with my mum, I noticed his wife complained about something bitterly because they had a private chat and it was so unlike her.

After the whole visiting, I asked my mother what was wrong and she told me that my uncle cooks his own food all the time and even does his laundry alone and his wife doesn't like it, and although she's been complaining for over 5 years but he doesn't seem to change. I asked for my mum's opinion and she said she'd be totally uncomfortable if her husband doesn't eat her food year to year, same with my babe.

Is it wrong for a married man to cook his own food?

JovialJune:



You are weird, you and her would have been a perfect fit

JovialJune:



Lol locust beans in concussion rice is not that bad, it's mostly called local jollof rice where you use palm oil, veg leaf, locust beans and other local ingredients to make it.

JovialJune:
Her food is tasteless and terrible that's why he cooks his own food, tell your mum to advice her on improving her cooking skills like catering schools etc. I know someone like her lol, she uses locust beans to fry egg

theForth:
Hey guys, what's up?

I was at my uncle's place today with my mum, I noticed his wife complained about something bitterly because they had a private chat and it was so unlike her.

After the whole visiting, I asked my mother what was wrong and she told me that my uncle cooks his own food all the time and even does his laundry alone and his wife doesn't like it, and although she's been complaining for over 5 years but he doesn't seem to change. I asked for my mum's opinion and she said she'd be totally uncomfortable if her husband doesn't eat her food year to year, same with my babe.

Is it wrong for a married man to cook his own food?

thesicilian:
I seriously doubt if your uncle's wife knows how to cook

Mercychen:
It's all shades of wrong. He's bringing discord in the marriage by cooking his meals separately.

What your uncle is doing can only mean two things. it's either he feels the wife cannot cook very well or he doesn't trust her; like she's going to poison him and that is a very bad impression he's giving about her.

Why marry and not eat your wife's food for five years?
Are they having any misunderstanding?
There must be an unresolved issue somewhere none of them is telling you and your Mom.

That your uncle is wicked. He's just punishing the woman.
If I'll advise her, let her Stop bothering about him. He's not worth it.

kiddkash:

I get your point. maybe with all the pressure women feel at home, he is trying to lessen the burden on her

Mercychen:


That's not the point. The point is, he doesn't eat her food and he only makes for himself, not the whole family. So how does that relieve her of any stress if she's still going to cook for the rest of the family members?

Some men are just stone-hearted.

Mercychen:


That's not the point. The point is, he doesn't eat her food and he only makes for himself, not the whole family. So how does that relieve her of any stress if she's still going to cook for the rest of the family members?

Some men are just stone-hearted.

kiddkash:

there is also something else. when I was growing up, my mum told me to learn how to cook, so that no woman will ever do shakara for me with their food. the man has the kind of mentality like I do and my father did. when you have been alone for a long time, you get used to being lonely and doing things yourself. you'd feel some kind of unease if some else is in my apartment or cooking.

its is just when you have been lonely for so long, you only trust and depend on yourself, because people may fail you and if you speak about it, the other person may say they never knew you had a bad side. but if you do it yourself, and you mess up, you'll only blame yourself

o Really

Hmmmm..... this is serious oooo,abi he thinks his wife will jazz him.

It is either he's cooking for the whole family or he's not cooking any shit... Infact umuada must hear this

Mercychen:


Was there anywhere it said the wife was doing "shakara*?

Mind you, that saying can only come to play when the woman is acting up in that regard, which is not the case here.