MufasaLion:

A single man is a happy and healthy man.

StarGra:
you deserve SAN of Singles affairs..

CorGier:
- If she isn't susceptible to emotional blackmail/manipulation, then that's the biggest, wrapper-sized red flag.

- If she ever says "my pastor/God said . . .so i can not. . .". Run from these ones. They're damaged goods.
- If she doesn't give BJs. Her ego or sense of self is clearly inflated. Jump and pass.

I'd drop more, but they might come for me.

iamyemiakins:
If you're too friendly, that's a red flag!
You're prone to be a gossiper

ghostboy:
So guys what are the things or signs that can make you quit a relationship without looking back?

There are some signs we see in our partners that are easily ignored or overlooked, maybe because these signs don't affect your relationship with your partner or maybe you think with time your partner will change.
But then there are the signs that can't be ignored or overlooked, so I'd like for you guys to share so people who exhibit some certain habit that's considered a redflag can readjust and learn to change some undesirable things about themselves.

Ebubechuwku:


Me I no get that time... na her problem be that..

I did everything just to suit her and still she still feel insecure.


She later told me, that I will find someone better than her...
Shey na talk be that?..

I didn't cheat on you, I didn't lie, I do everything to please and still you are telling me that, that's still not the real me and that she doesn't deserve me and I should find someone better... and as for me , I no get time, I don man up quickly, I get bills to pay than thinking on one failed relationship....

Nosa111:
There is no evidence that sex makes the p**sy wide oga! They can be a little change, but not with an exaggeration. Unless you want to say the same thing that sex also make a smaller D bigger after it stretch.

Nicepoker:
I bet is that your hotel ex. Mercy abeg leave that guy alone he is married

Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.

bigpicture001:


Y didn't u say ur most important red flag..... "Your guy not having plenty money.. "

Awesometouch1:
I like your reasons.
I hope you were actually the faithful type, anyway.

Lordedifice1:
This is an avenue for some people to talk nonsense
You hate liars but you lie a lot
I hate lazy guys or ladies but you are the same
I hate him he gets angry too much but your own anger Is like a volcano eruption
He is not romantic but you don't even know anything romantic.
Work on yourself

Olivyabrown:


Lol. Guy na format she give you.

MufasaLion:


A single man is a happy and healthy man.

Dextre:



Lmao, very very healthy

Hassanmaye:
Haha what of Toto smell

Mercychen:


How is that a red flag?
Yes he didn't have money or job then but I stayed with him and didn't see that as a red flag. In fact, it was after he got a job at Chevron I called off the relationship.

All these small children sef. So girls have been dumping you because you don't have money?
Pathetic!

Sheriman:

Abeg!!! commot here joor with this your imaginary Pi Network

SirbobbyDgreat:
Is her mother living with her father?

stanleyi1:
Bros..Share more light on this..cos i'm about getting married to a girl that the mum is not with her dad..the man remarried tho.

BigSarah:
Smoking ( a dumb activity)

Alcohol

Unequal input & output

lavamaestro:
Physical, verbal, emotional abuse
Disrespect ( cheating, downgrading me, cussing me out or raising voice at me in public, talking shit about me to friends and family ..)
Unforgiving spirit
Unambitious, narcissistic and manipulative. (Dated someone like this, his only aim was to live in his parent's house, turn me to a traditional woman, control me till I had no say and wanted me to worship his broke, unattractive ass (30+ )). This is the reason I refuse to date down. If you no fine, no come get bar, I no dey do. I once allowed intelligence and charm speak for me. It's better to be heartbroken by a fine, young and rich man than an ugly, short, skinny, unambitious, cocky 30+ man.

Mercychen:
Womanizing
Smoking
Lying
Laziness
Verbal and physical abuse

Searching through my things when I'm not around. My ex did this a lot.

I remember the day I was coming from my elder sister's place (after Christmas) because he kept disturbing me to come back to area ( we stay in the same area) on the 31 so we can go for watchnight service together.

I went straight to his place with my travel bag. It was already night. So I went to shower to get ready for the watchnight service. I checked to see if I had locked the door before taking off my clothes, LO and behold the door was already locked from outside while the inside remained unlocked. I tot about it, shrugged and went ahead to boat it.

After bathing, I had to bang on the door before he opened it from outside. When I came out, he was smiling like a cat so I didn't think it to be anything because he plays a lot.

It was when I got to the sitting room and opened my bad that I discovered he was searching my bag while I was in the bathroom. That was why he locked me inside. Though he didn't touch my money but I later discovered he was searching for a condom. He wanted to know if I stopped by at a man's place before coming. Hmm...

Another one was after we broke up. He begged to come and see me. after much refusal, I told him to come.

when he came, I left my phone and went to get him a drink.
After he left, I discovered he tried turning on my phone but the casing of the phone had a protective plastic strip at the side. so all you need do is press on it and the light will come on but he didn't know so he now pulled on the strip and bent it badly so he could access my "on" button.
That was how he distroyed that phone case for me.

I don't know what he wanted to check in my phone after breaking up with him.

That's another red flag I can't overlook.