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Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 10:07am On Dec 08, 2021 |
Husbands Should Provide for the Home, and never share house Chores Gradually, manliness is eroding from our culture and replaced with a lot of sissyness and assumed wokeness. How ideas that in 20 years back will never been have been thought of and is gaining traction is a call for concern. One of such disdainful thought is Men should do house chores and help their wives. In the context I have used the words, they are just the next beautiful thing to do. But the more daring position the pioneers of this ideology in our forums, offices, churches, mosques and even beer parlors, I kid you not. Beer Palors is that Men should share house chores with their wives. Sharing formula could be in the following form - Wife does the cooking, Husband washes the plate. - Husband drives wife to the grocery store, wife makes a list of things to buy, picks them and husband pushes the cart - Wife does the washing of clothes, and husband does the ironing - Wife bathes the kids, husband should dress them up, or she does both and he drops them off and picks up from school You can add any I have not excluded. Are this not noble things to do have at least a peaceful home? Some wives have even refused their husband their conjugal rights, why, because he is not helping at home. It is now a bargaining chip. Is helping out or sharing chores not the Duty of a man? The answer is no. The role of a man is to be a provider, the oversea of his home. Men should provide for the Home. Provide. And here is the deal. The role of the wife is to take care of the home. The husband being the Head of his home, puts him in a more demanding position to ensure his home is well taken care off. This is manliness, this should rather be preached. As the Man and the provider of your home, you should get an help. The chores are too much for your wife, hirer an help. Obviously, as a true provider, you expect her to come back from work and wash all those clothes? What happened to getting the laundry guy pick up every weekend Manliness is not making your wives slaves nor overworking them, it is providing and bringing ease to your home. Should you join her in the kitchen? Yes, to wash plates? No. Should you wash plates, Yes, as a shared chore, No. What if you cant afford an help, or a washing machine? Then Man up. Be a man that will be a provider for his home. Do more. All those time you are using to steering ogbono soup while your wife is in the living room watching telemundo can be rather effectively used in thinking out business ideas and more more ways to bring money to the home. Your Duty is to Provide for your Home, not to wash plates!.. Men should never share chores with their wives, but be a provider to their home! Before you bash this position, make sure you've read my summation and you do not lack basic comprehension. 2 Likes
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Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Jeon(f): 1:42pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Lol
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Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 1:52pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
![]() Don't just laugh Jeon. Wouldn't you rather a real man take care of you than the 21st century sissy that washes plates? |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Nobody: 10:04pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Nice thread |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Richy4(m): 4:46am On Dec 09, 2021 |
OP... I just want you to be honest ie if you can.... are you married? if yes, for how long? 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by greenie77: 5:03am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Laughing...... |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Hathor5(f): 5:07am On Dec 09, 2021 |
You can run your home as you and your wife want it to be run. Your opinion of how other husbands and wives should run theirs does not count. And for you to think that your dïck will shrink from doing the dishes is a sign that you are very insecure in your 'manliness'. Maybe you have some growing up to do first? 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 6:08am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Hathor5: Men should sustain their role as providers. If you had read the write up without bias, it encourages men/husband to take care of the home and be more responsible. It is also largely against the new concept of sharing chores, which transcends from just being a choice, to a duty. It is not the duty of men to do chores. Will their dicks shrink, of course not. Should men know how to cook or do dishes? True manliness requires that! The point is, men should focus more on their duties of being providers. If your wife complains of too much chores, the next action shouldnt be, let's divide chores, but rather, how do I make this easy for her. Should I get an help, or whatever will bring less pressure on her. My opinion as to how husband should run their home, is necessary and counts. This conversation is important to bring a more balanced view. For men that will run with this , it reduces the number of sissies in our communities ! Now, if after this summary, you still don't get it, then forget about it. 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 6:09am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Richy4: ![]() Make your point |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 6:13am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by LilMissFavvy(f): 6:22am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Majority of men including you did chores when they were not yet married right? So what makes it bad if they continue with chores after marriage? How does a man doing chores make him less of a man? Yes men should be providers, but the reality/truth is that majority of wife's are contributing financially in homes, while some are the bread winners, therefore if a man can help with chores fine, if he can't, let him get a domestic help. 8 Likes |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Richy4(m): 6:28am On Dec 09, 2021 |
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Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 6:38am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Nobody: 6:48am On Dec 09, 2021 |
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Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Richy4(m): 6:50am On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts: ![]() You know what judges/ lawyers thinks when a witness or witnesses refused to answer simple questions right? 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 6:56am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Richy4: Objection, the marital status of the op has no bearing to the conversation. |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Richy4(m): 7:15am On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts: My lord OP's marital status is needed in this case for honorable Nairalanders in this court to know where he got his experiences from.. is he married? How long has he been married.. and how long has he been practicing what he was dishing out to the public? My lord we are not asking if he was happily married.. I mean how many people can actually say they were.. ![]() If he is not married My lord, we need to know if he is a relationship coach. How long has he been practicing and his location or address my lord.. My lord we do not need people misleading the general public, ending people's relationship with cut and join relationship advice..That is why his marital status is needed to be declared in this honorable court.. ![]() ![]() Section 17 subsection 76b of the evidence Act my lord... If he is not qualified, he should put a disclaimer... ( In case u don't find the sections, just smile in your heart ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 7:27am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Richy4: Off your mic ![]() |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Richy4(m): 7:30am On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts: ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 7:40am On Dec 09, 2021 |
LilMissFavvy: The bolded lies the problem. Women should be provided for, no real man should shelve his responsibilities of provision to his wife. Is it wrong to have a wife that contributes financially to the home. Absolutely not. The trap of letting women take the sole responsibility of you being a man should be discouraged. And it start with the mindset. I am the provider for this home. It enables him to make better plans and decisions for his home. Should men do chores, Yes. Real men know how to cook, wash, keep his environment clean. That's manliness. Now, should it be his responsibility to do chores, where it is defined, baba Nura, you are doing dishes next week! No The context is in the duty. It is not manly to subscribe to such sissyness 1 Like |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 7:45am On Dec 09, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Go check out men that abuse women. They are the once that do not know what being a man really is. It is demeaning to be violent to the one you are supposed to nurture and take care off. Real men are composed and have a grip on their emotions. The class of men who hit their wives, started with washing plates, and not providing for their homes. Living his responsibility to a woman, then to prove the masculinity he never had, he resolves to domestic violence. Why, cos he has lost control of his home. Now, chill, go back and read again. This time, slowly and get the point! |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 7:48am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Richy4: Still off the mic. I know you get the point, but you just want to put sand sand in the conversation. And that's fine ![]() |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Nobody: 9:58am On Dec 09, 2021 |
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Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 10:15am On Dec 09, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: ![]() |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by greenie77: 10:23am On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts: Why tie the validity of a.man to only his ability to provide for a woman? With the economic realities of Nigeria and the gap between the life expectancy of Nigerian men and women, you want to risk a family depending on a single income? 3 Likes |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by olabrinks(f): 10:28am On Dec 09, 2021 |
Blah blah we know the ones that are married and those that yap on Nl to waste time. Some of you are so bored, come up with all manners of nonsense to write as a thread. Lool. 6 Likes |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 10:30am On Dec 09, 2021 |
greenie77: There is no where in my writeup i mentioned depending on a single income, nor that women should not work or contribute financially to the home. It is directed at a change of mindset for men, and own up and to be Men. |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by 9japarts: 10:33am On Dec 09, 2021 |
olabrinks: Would you rather a man that takes care of you, or one that wants to do roaster for house chores? I know. I know ![]() |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by olabrinks(f): 10:53am On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts:majority of men do not have the capability to take care of a woman and all her needs especially when children come into the picture. So that is the real issue here, not household chores. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by Hathor5(f): 11:18am On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts: It's only in a poverty stricken country like Nigeria that you unmarried boys will act like men are able to provide for their families alone or more than their wives. And just because a man assumes a different role in his family than you would does not make him a sissy. See, what you kids don't know is that the realities of life are such that roles are not set in stone but fluid and change over time so that families react as they go by being pragmatic and not out of their insecurity over their 'manliness'. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by cococandy(f): 12:05pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts:So how much wealth do you have? Let’s start from there. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men Should Never Share House Chores! Your Duty Is To Provide For Your Home! by cococandy(f): 12:07pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
9japarts:if women should work and contribute to the home, (which they almost always have to do anyway), then your thread makes no sense. You’re just advocating for over-laboring the woman. Realistically, majority of families can’t afford to have sole providers. so what is it exactly you mean? 6 Likes 1 Share |
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