Raalsalghul:


What the potential husband of his sister in law needs is just knowledge, if he will willingly accept it which I doubt.

Even if Emmaodet somehow discourages him from marrying her, who's to say he won't fall into the trap of another.

emmaodet:


My annoyance with the present day marriage is not because of the set-up rather the mentality of the women entering it.
Tbh, many of them are not or have not prepared themselves over time for it.
A case study is my SIL - she will be 26 few months from now, a graduate, finished serving, no job nor does she cares to look for one.
All she does is post her pictures on her Fb and WhatsApp status, saying how beautiful she is even though to me she looks 5/10 but the way she carry herself as if she is 9/10(don’t know who are deceiving these ladies), sometimes she will be dancing in her room and post it, Dre’s up and video herself cat walking and post it. Many more.
I always just wander what is really going on with most of them, always seeking internet attention and validation.
She will be marrying next year to a guy that has been hustling is ass off sinceeee. He became an orphan at a very young age, just a little age difference with my SIL yet over time, out of hustling and jostling, he has developed the necessary skills needed to survive the harsh world without any parental help. Always doing one thing or the other to survive yet his gf is virtually useless and not bringing much to the marriage table rather a big mouth with a big taste for what she can’t afford herself.
I looked at her and I compared her to my youngest brother who is also her age mate and I saw a big difference in thinking between the 2 sexes of same age.
While my brother is lonely, hustling trying to get his feet on ground because things are not yet straight for him, probably struggling to keep a decent relationship because he is a hustler and not sexually attractive to the average female, she on the other hand is busy dancing, cat walking, concerned about her beauty and all because she is not worried about life. Another human will take care of it for her - the boyfriend cum future hubby

DEMZEE:


We are in the 21st century dude

Some nations will b extremely poor and some nations will be extremely wealthy

That's life

I don't debate reality and facts

MJBOLT:

Emmaodet should not even try it,the guy will report him to the SIL,na so dem dey do.

ma373733:

Tueh !
You don't understand things at all

Let me use dressing as an example


In the 80s and early 90s women that wears skimpy or showy clothes are seen as immoral and floozy women
Fast forward to today women wear what they fvvcking like in Nigeria here especially southern parts . We all saw what happened during the president son's wedding up north her dressing code and all that . So relax

Women don't use to participate in games in the Arab world before what's happening now? They don't drive before there.what is happening now

Relax we're quickly creeping into genocentric society quickly than you think.

Aaron12:
I AGREE WITH THIS, IT IS BETTER THAN YOU HAVE A JOB AND YOUR WOMAN IS WORKING THAT A LAZY PARASITE HOUSEWIFE AS YOUR WOMAN.

Hotspotbro:
Na dem.Feminists be wailing about being objectified whereas they're the ones doing it joyfully..How can one be shouting "Men are sexist" and be a fan of Nicki M?

Raalsalghul:


To me it's not even about standard.

Marriage will always be a bad deal for a man with a poor/humble background: double struggle!

First part of his life: struggle to make something meaningful from his existence even with the impossible odds.

Second part: struggle continues catering for wife and kids. I mean when does it stop?

Someone please enlighten me, maybe I'm missing something here, but it's just the way I see it.

temi1290:


This, have you seen her birthday pics on twitter?I mean Nicki.

DEMZEE:


Kk

Black people truly have the lowest IQ wen compared to other races for real

WTF!!!

CaveAdullam:


1. Only the few men that are able to abide to the tenets of the redpill through thick and thin will be the only ones to maneuver their ways with women and remain at the top. Because to be more truthful, this game will tarry and see many more nights and days as the male population aren't aware of it. Redpill aware men are a but a speck of dust in the desert of men.

2. Mum and dad might have told you stories how our grandparents, uncles and aunts wake up early as 4am or 5am in order to get to their farmlands early which was miles away. In those days when technology was still at its neoteny, and the tempo of civilization hasn't eroded the uniformity of the family unit, women right from their juvenile stage already knew that their husbands are their crowns and the men, took care of their wives and children and in return they helped him in his farm works and multiply his business. In those days, at midday when twilight seems approaching, grandmothers and some of the children are sent home to take care of the house and prepare dinner. All these ensured that the family unit remain stable!

Everything was cool until technology and science metamorphosed speedily and of which the government took advantage of. Men were promised better jobs than their farm works and slowly they drifted away from their families. And later, both their wives and children were introduced into the work force by the government.

3. The truth is that as a man, as far as a woman is beneath your roof, you will face different dilemmas. Which ever method you decide to use, you'll be on the losing side except you decide to cheer and comfort yourself constantly. If you're very pragmatic, you will see no need for romance and women and you won't enjoy both. By nature, men are the expendable sex! Like I will always say, your gain is the furtherance of your genetic line via your offsprings. Other things you think you're gaining are paltry.

4. 50/50 never works any where. Workers might be paid same amount of salary doing same work but if you go under the table you will find out that some of the workers do better than others.
In marriage, even if the woman is the most logical of all, a unicorn, it is already inscribed in her instincts that you're a man, a leader and must take the lead. Even if she agrees 50/50 and adhere to it, one way or the other hypergamy will always fight her within.

Enter the workplace or corporate organisations and see firsthand that both single and married men flirt with married women. The attention she ought to give you and her kids is spread towards her boss, colleagues and clients, what you get at the end of the day is poor attention, boring sex and complaints.
Women are attracted to men that supply them feel good emotions, and trust me, in the workplace with male colleagues they do get it! Women also get excited in places where their emotions can be heightened, hence, you find them as the highest population in religious and social gatherings.

On the flip side, a lazy woman is a doom to her home. Not able to carryout specific functions that can help sustain her family is catastrophic! Because her male children wouldn't know how an industrious woman looks like and her daughters what to do in order to become industrious and profitable to her husband and community. This again is another dilemma if you allow her be a stay at home mum. But at least she will have time for you and her kids.

5. Modern day woman requires a whole lot of energy from her man in order for her to stay put. Ensuring that round and square pegs are deposited in their respective holes, he can at least enjoy the relationship while it lasts. Many relationships fail today and continually because both sexes don't understand themselves and nature. Intersexual dynamics is an exchange platform where each or one must compromise for the success of the relationship. Both sexes might evolved to be complementary which of course is true, but deep down, they are not cooperative! (Women ought to compromise because men are already on the losing side).

50/50 relationship is void of respect and a lazy woman is a liability. The corporate world is not meant for your woman. So, what then?
Some men I have worked for have their own big business, what they do is find a place to attach their wives. This is also similar to what our grandparents practiced in the past, there's a division of labour there and the woman's boss is her husband. Other men I have also come across set up businesses (under their names) for their wives so that they can be their own boss, and some of these businesses are within or not too far from their place of residence.
This method is not ideal as women can still go haywire, but at least, it tends to minimize their craziness.

If you are interested in marriage as a man, Know your mission and what it entails, see if there is any space you will need a woman and if there be, marry a woman that her own mission blends with that space. Therefore, as the woman is fulfilling her purpose, she is also fulfilling yours.

Thanks.

darkelf:


Bros you may well hate me for what I am about to tell you. You may even call the mods to ban me

But please HELP YOUR FELLOW MAN!!!

Don't let that poor struggling boy marry your SIL. Tell him the truth about the kind of woman she is and let him decide

Take him as your own younger brother. If you were privileged to discover that your own younger bro wants to marry such a person, would you allow him to go ahead.

Try and find out his number if you don't have it. Call him and warn him about the demonic trap he is about to enter. I fear for the guy already and I don't even know him

Your SIL doesn't deserve such a gem. She would never value hardwork if a good man just drops on her laps like that.

Bro, you will be savng that man's lide by warning him

I am a Christian and it's often said that the worst thing that can happen to a christian apart from hell fire is bad marriage

Warn the guy please. Put yourself in his shoes. Your SIL doesn't deserve him

CaveAdullam:


1. Only the few men that are able to abide to the tenets of the redpill through thick and thin will be the only ones to maneuver their ways with women and remain at the top. Because to be more truthful, this game will tarry and see many more nights and days as the male population aren't aware of it. Redpill aware men are a but a speck of dust in the desert of men.

2. Mum and dad might have told you stories how our grandparents, uncles and aunts wake up early as 4am or 5am in order to get to their farmlands early which was miles away. In those days when technology was still at its neoteny, and the tempo of civilization hasn't eroded the uniformity of the family unit, women right from their juvenile stage already knew that their husbands are their crowns and the men, took care of their wives and children and in return they helped him in his farm works and multiply his business. In those days, at midday when twilight seems approaching, grandmothers and some of the children are sent home to take care of the house and prepare dinner. All these ensured that the family unit remain stable!

Everything was cool until technology and science metamorphosed speedily and of which the government took advantage of. Men were promised better jobs than their farm works and slowly they drifted away from their families. And later, both their wives and children were introduced into the work force by the government.

3. The truth is that as a man, as far as a woman is beneath your roof, you will face different dilemmas. Which ever method you decide to use, you'll be on the losing side except you decide to cheer and comfort yourself constantly. If you're very pragmatic, you will see no need for romance and women and you won't enjoy both. By nature, men are the expendable sex! Like I will always say, your gain is the furtherance of your genetic line via your offsprings. Other things you think you're gaining are paltry.

4. 50/50 never works any where. Workers might be paid same amount of salary doing same work but if you go under the table you will find out that some of the workers do better than others.
In marriage, even if the woman is the most logical of all, a unicorn, it is already inscribed in her instincts that you're a man, a leader and must take the lead. Even if she agrees 50/50 and adhere to it, one way or the other hypergamy will always fight her within.

Enter the workplace or corporate organisations and see firsthand that both single and married men flirt with married women. The attention she ought to give you and her kids is spread towards her boss, colleagues and clients, what you get at the end of the day is poor attention, boring sex and complaints.
Women are attracted to men that supply them feel good emotions, and trust me, in the workplace with male colleagues they do get it! Women also get excited in places where their emotions can be heightened, hence, you find them as the highest population in religious and social gatherings.

On the flip side, a lazy woman is a doom to her home. Not able to carryout specific functions that can help sustain her family is catastrophic! Because her male children wouldn't know how an industrious woman looks like and her daughters what to do in order to become industrious and profitable to her husband and community. This again is another dilemma if you allow her be a stay at home mum. But at least she will have time for you and her kids.

5. Modern day woman requires a whole lot of energy from her man in order for her to stay put. Ensuring that round and square pegs are deposited in their respective holes, he can at least enjoy the relationship while it lasts. Many relationships fail today and continually because both sexes don't understand themselves and nature. Intersexual dynamics is an exchange platform where each or one must compromise for the success of the relationship. Both sexes might evolved to be complementary which of course is true, but deep down, they are not cooperative! (Women ought to compromise because men are already on the losing side).

50/50 relationship is void of respect and a lazy woman is a liability. The corporate world is not meant for your woman. So, what then?
Some men I have worked for have their own big business, what they do is find a place to attach their wives. This is also similar to what our grandparents practiced in the past, there's a division of labour there and the woman's boss is her husband. Other men I have also come across set up businesses (under their names) for their wives so that they can be their own boss, and some of these businesses are within or not too far from their place of residence.
This method is not ideal as women can still go haywire, but at least, it tends to minimize their craziness.

If you are interested in marriage as a man, Know your mission and what it entails, see if there is any space you will need a woman and if there be, marry a woman that her own mission blends with that space. Therefore, as the woman is fulfilling her purpose, she is also fulfilling yours.

Thanks.

BigBashiru:


finances must be 50-50 for a relationship to be just and this has nothing to do with hypergamy. a woman presents herself at 27 for marriage after being used up by various bfs.... in such a case if I foot 100% or 80% finances that means I'm a fool. she's been bleeped by men she finds attractive and now wants me to spending my lifetime working to feed her under some nonsense marriage.

for this reason alone finances must be 50-50.

CaveAdullam:


So, you expect a woman who was never industrious but a wh0re before she hit the wall to eventually become industrious and take charge of 50% of the house bills. Wonderful! Please, invite me to that utopia because I'm still in the real world. In fact, it is even an opportunity for her to continue her wh0ring stealthily as she tries to meet up with the 50%. What a great opportunity for her.

By the way, are redpill members told not to get engaged to damaged women?
Lol!

BigBashiru:


If she cannot be industrious then marriage go end na. Why I should I foot the bills of a post-wall woman under some nonsense marriage?

BigBashiru:


finances must be 50-50 for a relationship to be just and this has nothing to do with hypergamy. a woman presents herself at 27 for marriage after being used up by various bfs.... in such a case if I foot 100% or 80% finances that means I'm a fool. she's been bleeped by men she finds attractive and now wants me to spending my lifetime working to feed her under some nonsense marriage.

for this reason alone finances must be 50-50.

BLOODYSPERM:
The younger she is, the more you think you stand a chance to escape the friendszone because you think she's more moldable and coachable,you approach her but deep down you want sex but she gives you a positive vibes albeit you are not yet overt about your intentions, you're are subtle at first because you think she's gullible and an easy prey but next thing you start seeing innocency in her,lust turns into love and you tell yourself I don't want to be a badboy dark triad who is going to alpha widow this sweet gal and send her into the streets, she's very pleasant and friendly to hang around with, extremely sweet to talk with, you tell yourself that she's naive, she doesn't know anything,you begin to loose frame, infact you rationalize she must be a pure virgin,you tell yourself she's too inexperienced to understand her feminine nature and what manipulation entails, she's plain and focused on her works or academics, her mind is not yet tainted with sexual impurities,can she be the one, can she be my NAWALT,you are starting to simp consciously because you assume she's special due to her pleasant nature, you begin to want her badly, you want to cover her youthfulness all to yourself, what's happening to you? Can these really be love, giving yourself funny justifications why you gotten your one, and you haven't even ask her out probably yet to assess where she stands with you,you become needy from a distance, you become confused how can this small gal be toiling with the emotions of a full grown man, something must be wrong,better slap yourself with doses of the redpill and come back to an accurate description of reality, her youth means nothing if she doesn't see you as something ( alpha bleeps and beta bucks is every female mating strategy), stay rational and leave delusions for weak men, Simps and children, she's not into you and even if she's remember briffaults law and Hypergamy, now act accordingly

CaveAdullam:
So, you expect a woman who was never industrious but a wh0re before she hit the wall to eventually become industrious and take charge of 50% of the house bills. Wonderful! Please, invite me to that utopia because I'm still in the real world. In fact, it is even an opportunity for her to continue her wh0ring stealthily as she tries to meet up with the 50%. What a great opportunity for her.
By the way, are redpill members told not to get engaged to damaged women?
Lol!

orchin:


Can you give an idea of how the 50-50 would be? Like there would be a budget every month, and she brings half of it?

Regex:


I used to be perplexed when I see girls on tiktok videos or WhatsApp statuses moving their body in a weird way whilst licking their lips, I never understood what that was. Until this moment that it hit me, they were just recreating the town centres and village squares but mobile. They have gone lazy about it by confering on us the power to choose.

crackhaus:


It is that guy who after hustling for most of his life but still chose to make a wife out of a girl like your SIL, he is the one who ought to have his head checked thoroughly.

We cannot stop a lot of these women from being women – just basic, entitled, and cursed eternally with their princess complex, BUT as men we can be sensible and ensure we don't pick such women as partners for lifelong commitments.

darkelf:


Bros you may well hate me for what I am about to tell you. You may even call the mods to ban me

But please HELP YOUR FELLOW MAN!!!

Don't let that poor struggling boy marry your SIL. Tell him the truth about the kind of woman she is and let him decide

Take him as your own younger brother. If you were privileged to discover that your own younger bro wants to marry such a person, would you allow him to go ahead.

Try and find out his number if you don't have it. Call him and warn him about the demonic trap he is about to enter. I fear for the guy already and I don't even know him

Your SIL doesn't deserve such a gem. She would never value hardwork if a good man just drops on her laps like that.

Bro, you will be savng that man's lide by warning him

I am a Christian and it's often said that the worst thing that can happen to a christian apart from hell fire is bad marriage

Warn the guy please. Put yourself in his shoes. Your SIL doesn't deserve him

crackhaus:


It is that guy who after hustling for most of his life but still chose to make a wife out of a girl like your SIL, he is the one who ought to have his head checked thoroughly.

We cannot stop a lot of these women from being women – just basic, entitled, and cursed eternally with their princess complex, BUT as men we can be sensible and ensure we don't pick such women as partners for lifelong commitments.

BigBashiru:


as a woman ages, she loses her bargaining power with men... why on earth should/would I be footing the bill of a mature 30 yr old woman as "wife"?

there are 2 models:

1. I pay house rent and provide food.... anything else is shares 50 50

2. she uses the money she makes to take care of herself while I use the money I make to take care of myself

CAPSLOCKED:


YEAH. THE POWER TO CHOOSE EMPTY-BRAINED IDIOTS.