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Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by sisisioge: 4:39pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Guy man don realise say you no be ordinary woman. He now realises that you could stand up for yourself if pushed to the walls. He now realises that he misjudged your capabilities. He has created a violent confrontational being. So he is strategizing on his next move. What a toxic relationship you have. By the way,for your sanity,you better start thinking too. Now that he's pushed you to the point of raising your hands against him, God forbid you mistakenly stab him. Whew.....say no to toxic relationships....they bring out the worst in you! May God help us all fa. 11 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by efficiencie(m): 4:45pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
sthar: You are likely right. If he has stopped having sex with you then he is most likely already in the process of planning to hurt you badly. First, if all you said about him is true then I wonder where you kept your brain when he was proposing to wed you. Second, if you can slap your husband then I can guess that you are the person provoking your husbands attitude towards you. You are not submissive to your husband. By your own admission, your husband cares for the kids, does his obligations to you financially and before now performs his duties as a lover. Your husband is likely in the top 10% of men globally who don't fool around but your insubordination has provoked his domineering stance towards you. If this is the case you need to swallow your mumu pride and beg him for forgiveness. Beg him to forgive your insubordination and if his behavior does not change within a week, confess all that happened to your parents/pastor/counsellor and ask them to plead on your behalf. Lastly, you will gain nothing from contending with your husband. If you wanted a sparing partner you should have remained single. A real man that believes in protecting, providing, sacrificing and leading his home is the last person you want to fight because it takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead. You don't want to confront that part of him. Instead of contending with your husband be the woman and conquer on your knees. From my observation of good men, they are easily confused by a submissive wife. Submission makes a real man weak and vulnerable and that is why wise men are wary of those who seek to please them! 49 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by wunmi590(m): 4:51pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
![]() I'm not supporting you for slapping your husband, but your husband doesn't love you, how did you get to meet, did you court at all? Did you consider him as your best friend before settling down with him? If you go through all this, he won't be calling such unprinted names..... Very bad of him 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Nobody: 5:33pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
I will like to know why you are remorseful and scared 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Richy4(m): 5:53pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Karleb:I tell u, That Thunder that was warming up to strike is coming from Adamawa state ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by LofP(m): 6:24pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
I will be truthful to you. HE will revenge but not in the way you think. Once a man stops seeing you as an object of fantasy then you are at war, a cold war. All the guys saying "slap don reset him brain" I hope you are speaking the truth or else the woman has just opened the pandora box of resentment in the man. If the man wasn't vindictive in the past, expect him to serve you a cold revenge. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Tallesty1(m): 6:35pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
This story no add up. It's either the woman is lying or she's not a good story teller. She started by telling us what a horrible man the husband is. I was already having doubts, wondering if she was actually telling the truth or if she was trying to make herself the victim. Seems the later was the case because she kinda shot herself on the leg when she said that her husband always reports to her parents. He tells them everything she do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. What are these things she do wrong? She didn't say. I could be wrong though but I think the OP has been abusing this man emotionally for a while now. She got physical finally and slapped him which to her was too far. She realized it later I guess. She was hoping he would call a meeting as usual and she would be blamed as usual and everybody will go back to their house but he didn't and that scares her. She's scared because there's something ominous behind the silence. 68 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by floss(m): 6:45pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Here's your solution @OP Give him some time, don't talk about it for now, pretend like nothing happened and try putting up a new leaf. Reason is he won't listen to you now and it will be disrespectful involving a third party...so give him space on that regard for now...I believe he hasn't told anyone about it. Give it like a month at most, then set him up with what he likes.... don't make it obvious just surprise him alongside the kids. This way you're trying to build back your communication as husband and wife.... once you are able to bridge the gap in communication, you will be able to know the best time to talk about this incidence... when talking be on the receiving end, let him know you're wrong hitting him...if the talk goes smoothly he will listen to what ever suggestion you have concerning how he abuses you verbally and both of you will reconcile your differences.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by advanceDNA: 7:01pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Tallesty1: Have u ever seen women not blame men for their actions... They cheat u..they will say u caused it.. They leave u...they will say u caused it.. They kill u seff....they will still blame u.. Na their way....there’s no way she will explain the issue without painting a picture the man is the cause.... 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Nobody: 7:28pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Was he sitting when you slapped him? Or you jumped up to ? Or you simply stretched your hand and gbam it landed on his face? ![]() ![]() Don't mind me asking,I just want to know how "unintentional" the slap was. ![]() ![]() His reaction made it funnier Sha, I would have said "Baba je ifoti , o melooo " ![]() ![]() Aunty prepare for a divorce...it may be legal,it may not be. But I believe you are close if not erased off that man's heart. I would advise you summon courage and involve an elderly persons. Open up to them like you have here... This may not only save your marriage but it would go a long way in ensuring your safety. Keep your hands to yourself una no go answer...see wahala you don put yourself into now. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by frozen70(f): 7:49pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
sthar: I think he wants you to feel the guilt of hitting him If he says anything, you can turn it to another thing so for him keeping silent, will really make you uncomfortable I will suggest you wake him up one night and kneel down to ask for his forgiveness At that hour, he will be too weak to say no, but if he forgives you, you must humble yourself whether you like it or not Your kneeling down means submitting to him 10 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by FirmTR(m): 7:52pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
socialmediaman: The complete textbook wey you write so 9 be summary abi ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Jidemoo: 9:07pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Smh |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Terrier99: 9:07pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
All these cock and bull stories pushed to the front page at night. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by dvkot(m): 9:07pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
You get mind to slap a grown man with hair on his chest and 2 blocos. I for give you x5 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by QuickStandard: 9:08pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
![]() How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? You already did. However, you husband is the real definition of a real man. I can take anything from my wife, but she should not allow her village people raise her hand to slap me. That day she goes to her parents finally..... 20 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Terrier99: 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
floss: That guy is planning to bleep her up big time. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Baba is calm, cool and collected. Man might be waiting for the right time... 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by HolyHero: 9:09pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
sthar:Run o 3 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Eastcoastboy(m): 9:10pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
You're finished! Like you're gone. That's the highest form of disrespect, See just pack, Omoh! You better find the exit yourself. Arh! Chai! Words can't explain what's coming to you. Premium tears awaits you! When a man is silent for long ow! I'm sorry for you. 10 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Nobody: 9:10pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
sthar: You never mentioned what you do that make him say those things tho I don't support it. Why not be at peace with him na to be happier. Apologize for slapping him and learn to pray with your husband, this helps to build a Christian and happy home. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Berezuski: 9:11pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Something doesn't seems right here. He calls you names(which i do not condone) Bu has he hit or slapped you before? If no, then you're wrong! Your husband maybe FURIOUS right now Just let him be for now 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by dvkot(m): 9:11pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Hathor5:you didn't even say she needs to apologize nawao for your way if reasons. If its the man heaven would have fall 6 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Edun00700: 9:11pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
E go beta make you beg him because his not happy with you sthar: |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by qtguru(m): 9:12pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
NovesaTillie: You are the last person to advice anyone on marital issues after reading your post about seducing someone's husband besides Silent treatment is not a death sentence. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by sammirano: 9:12pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Hathor5: Relationship guru. Dem don see u 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Akalia(m): 9:12pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Madam that slap was premeditated and not a reflex act. You better go begging him in humility and sincerity. Find a way to his heart first. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by jrusky(m): 9:13pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Woman quit that house ASAP I swear you are likely a moving corpse. Remember I warned you if you still get the chance to do so. 4 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Akerele44(m): 9:13pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Na d juju b dat.. always look for a way to slap him twice in a day..e will always keep mute until u later find out that e already had 4 children outside 5 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by sucess001(m): 9:13pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Ask him if he doesn't mind doing a party with you and your friend... Next time...he go dey beg make you slap am again ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Bennysam: 9:13pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
NovesaTillie:This your comment funny |
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