qtguru:


You are the last person to advice anyone on marital issues after reading your post about seducing someone's husband besides Silent treatment is not a death sentence.

FirmTR:


The complete textbook wey you write so 9 be summary abi

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

Danjikanbauchi:
The guy is a real Alpha male, you slapped him and you are the one still scared .

Cook good food for him, go on your knees and ask him to fo give you.

He control your mumu remote

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

If the husband slapped her would you give the same advice?

ImoleNaija:


Are you claiming worse things don't happen in marriages? Na today wife go slap hubby? Forget, I've seen a marriage in which the wife overpowers & beats up the husband anytime they fight.

ImoleNaija:


E pele, ma. And you think OP is any better? Sirjames must be an angel. If this is all your mentality, una go leave r/ships tire.

Kanto47:
E be like say de tin dey work o. E get ok one woman like dat for neighborhood wia dey run im mouth wit de husband anyhow, but de day de husband slap am small all de demons run comot im body and since dat day she no dey rant again lie lie. Madam u do well, im brain don dey correct now

Devvy4:


You’re a Dumb pleb

Nigra:

So you slapped him,did the world end...I don't support violence, but if the story is true you were pushed to do it...some men are not husband material and sorry you had to marry him...abegi if you are scared,rent your own place and move out with your kids..that's why it's necessary to have money as a woman incase of incasity necessity.

DrFunmisticGlow:
sirjamesjnr is an angel, God bless him. He is not a verbally and physically abusive man. Well behaved, well brought up, smart, easy-going, funny, energetic, A leader, a model for nigerian men everywhere.

I am not perfect, but I draw the line at abusive behavior, physical and verbal

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

advanceDNA:


Please... read again and tell me what advice I gave... Nigerians.. u people never cease to amaze me..


I told her to cook his best food and apologize
And also tell him how she has been feeling unhappy in the marriage..... if Na the man slap the wife... he too will apologize naa... that’s what any sane human being will do.... so I will give the same advice .. apologize

The first part of my comment was just analyzing one of the possible reasons for his silence...
The husband is a bully and a narcissist...and when u fight your bully back when they are not expecting it, they naturally shy off withdrawing from you..

ImoleNaija:


Save all these until a year or two into your marriage. OP might have claimed her hubby was an angel during courtship, too. I pray he is all you wish though.

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

Iyaebe:
I will like to know why you are remorseful and scared

Baronnaire:


This is the best reaction and advice to ever come from a human... Nothing breaks men than seeing a woman kneel before them... Lovely advice...

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

You do not have enough evidence to reinforce the bolded claim.
What is it that leads to the verbal abuse from him? Are we sure she is not sharp tongued like him? It is funny how "verbal abuse" suddenly became a crime, something men have lived with for eons. Well, I only responded to your post after seeing the same pattern in most of the advice given to the woman. I know nobody will give the man such nice advice of he got her, everyone will tell her to run for her life.

thatigboman1:
if I were ur husband, u wount be able to post this post. My wife can never ever on this earth and in the one beyond slap. Cant even start imagining my reaction because it won't happen.
But for argument sake, due tries it, she will drop dead in minutes.

Hathor5:
Even though slapping him was wrong, the fact that you are scared of him tells me that you don't have a husband but live with your enemy.

You two need professional counseling. Your family is highly dysfunctional. He is verbally abusive and you have resorted to violence. Your kids deserve better.