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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by apostle96: 7:12am On Dec 11, 2021
Well to me..it's very simple
Love is to a relationship what fuel is to a vehicular journey
A guy and a lady need love for relationship together...as well, a driver and a motor need fuel for journey together
So my analysis...when the fuel/love finishes..the journey/relationship stops
Nobody need to beg
Cos the more you think someone is irreplaceable and you have to beg them to stay...the more you're shooting yourself in the head.
No matter what you have shared in the past.. Once one party says he/she's done
Let go. Don't hope it would work when it'd eventually not.
Just let go...for you to find peace for your heart, mind and soul

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by larryking540: 7:13am On Dec 11, 2021
bjprodint1:
If dats what it means to u,dats not what it means to me.as a man thinket,so he his

let me tell u what a man thinkth ,when u break up in a relationship and later try to iron it back ,it gives us the ideology of who ever promised you milk and honey didn't work out so u choose to come back to us again,,and most of us wouldn't take u serious again

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by nnol(m): 7:15am On Dec 11, 2021
i find it difficult to beg people, so why should I beg a lady for a relationship when they are so many out there.
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by bjprodint1: 7:17am On Dec 11, 2021
larryking540:


let me tell u what a man thinkth ,when u break up in a relationship and later try to iron it back ,it gives us the ideology of who ever promised you milk and honey didn't work out so u choose to come back to us again,,and most of us wouldn't take u serious again
Why do u think"another man"is d reason a lady breaks up with her lover?thats called low self esteem

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by InoGetJoy: 7:18am On Dec 11, 2021
bjprodint1:
[s]It depends on d character of d other partner.some of us love calling it a quit 2 test if d other partner really loves us(we seek 4 attention).sometimes we call it a quit when we are angry(we dont really mean it),but when ur partner uses sweet words like(my queen,babymalt,sarauniya,temi,my diamond),it resets our brain and we realise dat we cant really live without our joygiver...So begging is not simping,it makes a woman feel special.[/s]
Rubbish talk

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by FaithBrain1994(m): 7:19am On Dec 11, 2021
Op i agree with you with my full gbola.. Once i hear you say "i am tired of this relationship", i ghost you even before you realize. A really big red flag for me.

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Ejirite(m): 7:19am On Dec 11, 2021
Most time break up is not the solution to marriage, their must be someone need to put away ego and allow peace to rain.
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:20am On Dec 11, 2021
calculator1:

Thus says a simp cry
Slide off..
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by techWriter3: 7:20am On Dec 11, 2021
I once knew, and at the beginning we still came our separate things
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Candidlady: 7:22am On Dec 11, 2021
eneh49:

Alaye go and hustle hard! No prestige in begging
if you cant help why nat read and muv the fvck on...

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by femi4: 7:22am On Dec 11, 2021
BadRadio:
Well this doesn't really make any sense to me. If a partner wants a breakup, don't try to talk them out of it...pls don't beg him or her to stay, you will be causing yourself more harm than good begging them to stay no matter how much u think you love him or her, you just have to let it happen and move on.

This one mistake most persons make while in a relationship, If a partner wants out then he or she must have carefully thought it out well and examined possible options and alternatives before deciding to end the relationship, let that partner have their way with it so you can move on please. Stop simping and appearing too desperate, weak and needy. Preserve what's left of your worth abeg.grin
See baby, if you want to leave...Biko leave

No do shakara, no dey carry your shoulder up
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 7:23am On Dec 11, 2021
BadRadio:
Well this doesn't really make any sense to me. If a partner wants a breakup, don't try to talk them out of it...pls don't beg him or her to stay, you will be causing yourself more harm than good begging them to stay no matter how much u think you love him or her, you just have to let it happen and move on.

This one mistake most persons make while in a relationship, If a partner wants out then he or she must have carefully thought it out well and examined possible options and alternatives before deciding to end the relationship, let that partner have their way with it so you can move on please. Stop simping and appearing too desperate, weak and needy. Preserve what's left of your worth abeg.grin
Truth. Begging the partner would further degrade you before him or her and make them treat you as desperate and pathetic.

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Ronnnie: 7:24am On Dec 11, 2021
BadRadio:
Well this doesn't really make any sense to me. If a partner wants a breakup, don't try to talk them out of it...pls don't beg him or her to stay, you will be causing yourself more harm than good begging them to stay no matter how much u think you love him or her, you just have to let it happen and move on.

This one mistake most persons make while in a relationship, If a partner wants out then he or she must have carefully thought it out well and examined possible options and alternatives before deciding to end the relationship, let that partner have their way with it so you can move on please. Stop simping and appearing too desperate, weak and needy. Preserve what's left of your worth abeg.grin
Begging only delays the inevitable.....when your partners mind is made up,it's best to just respect yourself and leave that relationship or friendship..
If they wanna leave,let them

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Chigorkizz(m): 7:27am On Dec 11, 2021
zolajpower:

Until I go further down , but now you re tye only one up there that has made sense to me on this post . It's not easy . Presently I have a partner that I really do not think can be replaceable even though we felt sake way for each other . But I will her the most because no one has made me feel the way I'm feeling today . Care , love support and very protective of me
Last,last weytin happen? She left u... What's the need of begging when she had made up her mind to leave.


Bros!!!; U should not have begged


Is better you didn't beg and miss her than begging but still miss her.Abeg
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Truvelisback(m): 7:30am On Dec 11, 2021
I haven't. I have never done such.
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by shigishege: 7:35am On Dec 11, 2021
Mynd44:
My policy has always been

"If you say we have problems then you see hope and a chance that we can fix those problems; if you say you want to leave, it meams you have assessed the problems and find them unsolvable"

If you tell me you are leaving, no matter how hard it is for me, its goodbye and goodnight
if you talking bout problems and expecting a good way where your partner can help you through, the problem can only be solved if you also are ready to change your bad ways.
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by ibawon(m): 7:35am On Dec 11, 2021
Yep, thank God for both our sakes she didn't stay. If not I won't have met my life partner.
If you love someone/something so much let them go, if they come back then it was really yours.

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Tatashi: 7:45am On Dec 11, 2021
Yes! I begged a man to remain in the marriage and he was feeling himself. Unfortunately as he was still doing shakara, another man was begging his way in. Abeg, life is too short

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Champneys: 7:53am On Dec 11, 2021
BadRadio:
Well this doesn't really make any sense to me. If a partner wants a breakup, don't try to talk them out of it...pls don't beg him or her to stay, you will be causing yourself more harm than good begging them to stay no matter how much u think you love him or her, you just have to let it happen and move on.

This one mistake most persons make while in a relationship, If a partner wants out then he or she must have carefully thought it out well and examined possible options and alternatives before deciding to end the relationship, let that partner have their way with it so you can move on please. Stop simping and appearing too desperate, weak and needy. Preserve what's left of your worth abeg.grin


Gbam!!!!!
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by razzydoo(m): 8:00am On Dec 11, 2021
See, I fit fight for your love but I no fit beg for yo love. No o... cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by ikorodureporta: 8:01am On Dec 11, 2021
Nobody fit force woman keep for house wey she don tire for

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by luizpippo(m): 8:02am On Dec 11, 2021
I begged her, even cried, not knowing she was already pregnant for a guy around their area, they did some traditional marriage, 6 months after child birth, she was coming to beg me for forgiveness with the assumption that " my head dey catch her".

Guy was dealing with her, told her to drop out of school, screwing any bitvh e sees� undecided

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by teacherbim(f): 8:03am On Dec 11, 2021
HenryDion:


Hunger go kill you there, if you don't go and find something doing ... Useless beggar tongue

This guy has been here since 2011,I checked all his topics and post and I noticed, he never begged ,don't forget that shit happens atimes, if you have nothing to offer him, stop calling him useless.

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by uptownemmygee(m): 8:04am On Dec 11, 2021
She broke up with me, I went back to beg her and we continue, the third week I broke up with her on her birthday infront of her friends omoh come see crying and begging, my homies gave me the post of chief redpiller bcoz of my doings that day

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:09am On Dec 11, 2021
teacherbim:


This guy has been here since 2017,I checked all his topics and post and I noticed, he never begged ,don't forget that shit happens atimes, if you have nothing to offer him, stop calling him useless.

Stop defending what you don't know.

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by zolajpower: 8:12am On Dec 11, 2021
Chigorkizz:

Last,last weytin happen? She left u... What's the need of begging when she had made up her mind to leave.


Bros!!!; U should not have begged


Is better you didn't beg and miss her than begging but still miss her.Abeg
Senior man na blue passport holder be this person oo grin so no be green passport holder citizen grin
We met in Benin two years ago and has visited me twice this year alone. How many of the green passport holder and urgent 2k in this country can do this ? grin
Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Pally619(m): 8:12am On Dec 11, 2021
Relationship is not mathematics. there's no formula bro.

I am on the opinion that, it it's worth begging for, beg for it without shame. if it doesn't worth it, let it go without regrets.

Las las, you go still dey alrighty.

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by Godfrey858(m): 8:12am On Dec 11, 2021
I did once
Begged and begged but she refused
Then she saw how desperate and miserable I was
Then she started exploiting me in every possible way
I realize she won’t get back to me . I decided to let go.
Still now ehh I never believe say that girl don go
Wetin Love dey do

Because I was at fault (I stupidly confessed to her I cheated on her with her friends)
In my next life ehh
I will never be completely honest with any woman

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by teacherbim(f): 8:13am On Dec 11, 2021
Mozino007:
Go to harmony estate ask of K goodies bakery......

Thanks for helping him❤

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Re: Have You Ever Begged A Partner To Stay In A Relationship? by AsampeteNwaanyi(f): 8:15am On Dec 11, 2021
Mynd44:
My policy has always been

"If you say we have problems then you see hope and a chance that we can fix those problems; if you say you want to leave, it meams you have assessed the problems and find them unsolvable"

If you tell me you are leaving, no matter how hard it is for me, its goodbye and goodnight
ahhh mynd44 so you dey do relationship shocked
I no know ooo
I think say na only mod you dey do
eweeee shocked

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