ubunja:
life is tough, and dangerous,, and men are perfectly designed to strive in it because they're stronger, faster and their bodies are durable. Plus they've the mental and psychological make up to withstand its challenges. When a woman has a man, she benefits by him shielding her from life's challenges and thus, like a protected flower, she has the luxury to be delicate and soft. This is her femininity. But a woman without a man doesn't have that shield and life's challenges hit her directly with no man in between to soften the blow. The challenges don't destroy her. But what happens is that her attitude, body and mind HARDEN and TOUGHEN to withstand the elements. Thus she becomes combative, pessimistic, loud, rude, nonchalant etc. all these characteristics are masculine. And she adapts them for survival. Hence single mothers and their daughters have them. Because they need them to survive. Since there's no husband and father in the picture to do the job.

I went in depth about this in this miseducation: https://www.nairaland.com/6227090/ubunjas-miseducation-2020-adventures-pickmeisha

Also read this Miseducation also: https://www.nairaland.com/6242360/ubunjas-miseducation-2020-femininity

ubunja:
life is tough, and dangerous,, and men are perfectly designed to strive in it because they're stronger, faster and their bodies are durable. Plus they've the mental and psychological make up to withstand its challenges. When a woman has a man, she benefits by him shielding her from life's challenges and thus, like a protected flower, she has the luxury to be delicate and soft. This is her femininity. But a woman without a man doesn't have that shield and life's challenges hit her directly with no man in between to soften the blow. The challenges don't destroy her. But what happens is that her attitude, body and mind HARDEN and TOUGHEN to withstand the elements. Thus she becomes combative, pessimistic, loud, rude, nonchalant etc. all these characteristics are masculine. And she adapts them for survival. Hence single mothers and their daughters have them. Because they need them to survive. Since there's no husband and father in the picture to do the job.

I went in depth about this in this miseducation: https://www.nairaland.com/6227090/ubunjas-miseducation-2020-adventures-pickmeisha

Also read this Miseducation also: https://www.nairaland.com/6242360/ubunjas-miseducation-2020-femininity

Donnie835:
Hi Guys
I really appreciate everyone here for your immense work so far.
Ubunja, caveadullam, Martinez, heart of city and many others.

I'm a young man in my late twenties, a university graduate but still trying to gain ground financially, I earn 40k monthly.
I met this young lady 23 years around February this year and we became friends. In the course of our friendship, she was down to earth, the attraction was there for each other, submissive and she depicted good characters too. So, we became friends for two months, then I asked her out in May, she said YES after a week.
The redflags and issues started 3 weeks into the relationship, she started saying she wants "a man that can take care of all her needs" I never took those words to heart then. Reality sets in when started demanding and desiring many outings. I tried my best with the little I earn to take her out and she had fun, on different occasions.
On my birthday in September, I received the first gift from her which is a cap, I smiled and I appreciate her for that. On her birthday too, in the same month, I did my very best to put a smile on her face and she was glad about it.

When I started noticing that this babe is all after what a man can offer her, materialistic, I started withholding my resources, then last month, She labeled me that "I am not giver" despite what I have done for her in the past few months

Cave, Martinez, bloodysperm and others,your comment please

Ronnnie:

she didn't love you,she just loves what you could offer her...All girls are like that at the beginning,the will be nice,submissive and all demanding,all this just to get you into the trap(relationship or Marriage),then when you are in the trap,she becomes a leech or worse.
She didn't change towards you,she was just hyding her nature till you were secured....
First thing you should know is if you want to give a woman a gift or take her out,it should be out of your free Will and it should be occasionally (at least once in a 6 months) and not when she asks or wants..learn to reject or tell her No when she requests you take her out...
Second thing is you are not financially bouyant enough to stand on your own yet not to talk of having a girlfriend...Girls nowadays have that mentality that a relationship is to meet her needs...
My advice for you to Drop that girl and move on,she won't get better only worse as time passes...she believes she is the prize here therefore the excessive demands...Her beauty her gotten into her head and prolly other simps have been showering her money orgifts which has inflated her ego..
Keep your resources and spend on yourself only(na you work for am)....Your girlfriend is a liability to you and she is probably cheating or planning to that's why she is this way....Break up with her and move on,there are more beautiful girls than her.
Also stay out of a relationship for now bro till you are balanced financially,you can still have fun(or sex) with girls without even dating them...safeguard your heart now before she breaks it

Hotspotbro:
She knows I'm not a broke guy, na hunger and anger and frustration dey do am...I fit do giveaway but I chose not to..

CaveAdullam:
True talk bro!

These women sometimes whether consciously or unconsciously do move away from the mark to shit test you. The lady in question might be a jovial and playful type, but maybe that day, she one way or the other decided to cross paths. It is not a new thing. Immediately you detect it and serve them back their own medicine they do come to their senses and return to their former state. Even male friends do it too. Definitely, the arrogant and abusive ones who wastes no time in dishing out their vitriolic are easily noticed and must not even from the first time considered as friends or allies except otherwise.

My number one philosophy in life is that nobody is useless regardless of how stupid that person may behave. I find where to put each one and see whatever lesson or profit I can get from them. There's a place for tolerance and also a place of chastisement and discipline.

Thanks.

Martinez39s:
Still, don't mind her and her nonsense talk.

Hotspotbro:
OK then

Negroid001:
Make i unfollow this bitter thread.
Omo, women don do some people strong thing oooo.
The energy around here no go with me abeg.

solidmyk:

It's very usual to find people have different reaction after realizing they've been fed with false teachings over the years, esp after realizing they've been conditioned to fall prey into people's manipulations all these years.
The result to that will always be negative they'll be bittered and unhappy and again you should always understand that these knowledge also comes in phases, so you've got to be understanding bruh.
That's why you shouldn't be surprised when people sounds somehow here online, if you're intelligent enough you'll understand where they're coming from.
In as much as this is a manosphere, expect to come across different opinions and ideas, pick those ones you find useful and you're good to go.

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

DieRich5:
I still don't believe dis shit, Asin alot of married men don't have sex with da house wife

The first day she said no sex, meh I'll be out of the house 2 weeks she no go see me....as a married man young girls will be hitting on me ND I'll be giving Dem the most powerful thing I gat

Na if man no get options na wife will be misbehaving ND na Dem go first go church Dy pray against another woman giving dere husband wat she would be giving him

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

Martinez39s:
The thing is, nobody here hates women or is bitter towards women. I stand to be corrected, but so far so good, I haven't seen anyone here who hates women or is bitter towards them. I really don't know what more some people expect from us when they accuse us of hating women or being bitter towards them. If they misconstrue continous discourse about the ways of the modern women as misogyny or bitterness towards women, there is nothing you should do for them.

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

manny99:



I don't really know what to say but I think you have done so much. This are the kind of guys that we want on this platform but the one's chasing women all over the city claiming Redpill. This singular act really touched my heart. Continue in this great work in your corner, I will also continue doing my in my own corner. In that way, this ideology will move forward

Trex4:
Dude respect yourself. Don't call anyone here broke or jobless. Respectfully articulate your ideas without shaming people like feminine entities.

Trust me when I say the money you think you have, a lot of people have it here X10.

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)

The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand. Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

ProphetJeroboam:
That guy just suddenly started ranting with no provocation, I thought it was funny tbh. Nobody gives two fvcks if your girlfriend feeds you with breäst milk. It’s just sad when they broke shame.