| Re: Re-strategizing by StreetFight: 8:27pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
You went to bring a possessed woman into your life. Now, the evil spirits in her have wrecked you.
I have no advice. |
| Re: Re-strategizing by OKOATA(m): 10:10pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
You were told to leave this woman, you didn't listen. Hasn't she left you now, I hate it when men think they can't live their own live without a woman, alone you were in your mother's womb and alone you came to this world so I don't understand why a man will hinge all his life on a woman. Maybe she's even the one with the badluck, if you like go and be begging and be looking for her she will end you last last. 2 Likes |
| Re: Re-strategizing by OKOATA(m): 10:13pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
Eletididi:
we tend to forget that what will be will be regardless of advice..
Before I took this step, I sought elders who said go ahead So you can't do your own thinking without the elders, so has the elders advice given you any good? Until when you stop seeking validation from people and live your best life then people will continue to use you and push you around. I don't even see the big deal in all this, you want to kill yourself because you are the first and the last man on earth this same thing will happen to? Go and kill yourself because of a woman na. 2 Likes |
| Re: Re-strategizing by MarketDispatch: 10:14pm On Dec 11, 2021 |
Eletididi:
will you give me the bike to ride? I can ride
People like you can't advice without sounding like a mtcheww Bike is available. if you can ride, you must have a valid riders card and be able to provide suitable guarantors. |
| Re: Re-strategizing by efficiencie(m): 12:48am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Eletididi:
I deactivated my 2014 nairaland account cos it was full of depressing comments..
Some of us just want a united family since kids are involved and we've come to a mutual understanding...
Before we came back together, we went for deliverance is 3-4 places and on our own accord, we did fasting and prayer and we were told things are now OK..
I got an apartment, furnished it and told them to come over to my place..
She has something worthwhile doing but I promise her I could do better and get her a shop and make life comfortable for her..
About the house, it was comfortable enough and I have some cash which should enter for business, this money is 90% and I was already envisaging a better new life..
Now, I used to have a thriving business which I make good amount of money from monthly, but I sold it because I was supposed to travel but along the line, things happened and I couldn't travel anymore.. (I wasn't duped).
All of a sudden, things began to spiral out of control.. To feed my family became an herculean task.
My wife kept crying everyday cos things didn't happen the way I told her it would..
It's been almost 3months together, we sold some things to put the kids in school but what about 2nd term?
Have prayed and fasted about these happenings and was told it will get better but when?
I went to the people I sold the shop to and we came to an agreement cos they couldn't run it the way I was running it..
So I packed all my documents, school certificates, int passport, everything in my apartment worth over 1m, to borrow a loan of just 400k to start the business again but all to no avail..
I tried selling some properties, properties worth over 1m that are mostly new, they priced everything not even up to 300k..
Been to microfinance and banks but still no reasonable outcome..
It's been 3months now, she too tried to get a job but she has been unable to land any.
She woke me up about a week ago around 2am holding a knife to my neck that she felt like killing me cos I ruined her life. Prior to this time, she was cooperating and helpful, we used all her savings to feed and take care of the house..
I have always tried to percify her that since have gotten the shop back, things will again make sense but when she saw that I have exhausted all means of getting money to run the shop, she couldn't deal anymore..
Just 3days ago when I went out, she packed some clothes, dropped the kids with our neighbor and left.. Her number have been unreachable since then. How do I arrange my life with two kids of 5and 3?
Sincerely as a man, have tried all I could..
I can't even remember the last time I had a good sleep,I got depressed to the extent of fainting sometimes ago..
I have contemplated suicide times without number but who will I leave the kids for?
I am not used to hard labor but I went out for 2 days to do it and it is seriously telling on my body considering I am just recovering from fainting and depression..
Before God and man, I am fed up and tired and don't even know the next step to take...
SADDDD Dude that fasting and prayer you did did not scratch anything ohh...your case na emergency. Your life is indeed spiraling out of control and it seems you are at your wits end. Your battle is beyond you and you need the assistance of those that are beyond you. You do not need to go a physical location. You have a phone and you have an internet connection. There are men of GOD that you can pray with online that can join hands with you to confront whatever challenge you are facing and I can recommend these two: Pastor Jerry Eze (pray along with this Pastor every 7am) Senior Prophet Jeremiah OmotoFufeyin (attend services and pray along with him) There are others but I can testify to the work of the LORD in my life courtesy of these two men of GOD. Find these men on Facebook or Youtube and pray along with them. By GOD's grace you will rise above your challenges, your wife will return to you and you will have a happy family again. |
| Re: Re-strategizing by Nobody: 2:51am On Dec 12, 2021 |
efficiencie:
Dude that fasting and prayer you did did not scratch anything ohh...your case na emergency. Your life is indeed spiraling out of control and it seems you are at your wits end. Your battle is beyond you and you need the assistance of those that are beyond you. You do not need to go a physical location. You have a phone and you have an internet connection. There are men of GOD that you can pray with online that can join hands with you to confront whatever challenge you are facing and I can recommend these two:
Pastor Jerry Eze (pray along with this Pastor every 7am)
Senior Prophet Jeremiah OmotoFufeyin (attend services and pray along with him)
There are others but I can testify to the work of the LORD in my life courtesy of these two men of GOD. Find these men on Facebook or Youtube and pray along with them. By GOD's grace you will rise above your challenges, your wife will return to you and you will have a happy family again. My friend shut up... No offense 1 Like |
| Re: Re-strategizing by TheRealOwner(m): 3:12am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Eletididi:
I Don't you have family and friends you can borrow money from? |
| Re: Re-strategizing by TheRealOwner(m): 3:15am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Op is probably a troll  . Username means disobedient person |
| Re: Re-strategizing by efficiencie(m): 4:21am On Dec 12, 2021 |
HenryDion:
My friend shut up... No offense You will shut up until you have sense! 1 Like |
| Re: Re-strategizing by Eletididi: 6:09am On Dec 12, 2021 |
TheRealOwner:
Don't you have family and friends you can borrow money from? you won't understand 1 Like |
| Re: Re-strategizing by Eletididi: 6:11am On Dec 12, 2021 |
 22o62021:
I know you
Southnikaye abi wetin be that your old moniker
See anybody wey dey advice you here no just get work.
Your sense remain -5%.
Go thief nah
Rubbish |
| Re: Re-strategizing by Eletididi: 6:13am On Dec 12, 2021 |
TheRealOwner:
Op is probably a troll . Username means disobedient person used that cos I was advised several times but didn't listen |
| Re: Re-strategizing by femi4: 6:34am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Eletididi:
will you give me the bike to ride? I can ride
People like you can't advice without sounding like a mtcheww You're "eletididi" indeed. You ve not seen anything yet |
| Re: Re-strategizing by Eletididi: 7:07am On Dec 12, 2021 |
efficiencie:
Dude that fasting and prayer you did did not scratch anything ohh...your case na emergency. Your life is indeed spiraling out of control and it seems you are at your wits end. Your battle is beyond you and you need the assistance of those that are beyond you. You do not need to go a physical location. You have a phone and you have an internet connection. There are men of GOD that you can pray with online that can join hands with you to confront whatever challenge you are facing and I can recommend these two:
Pastor Jerry Eze (pray along with this Pastor every 7am)
Senior Prophet Jeremiah OmotoFufeyin (attend services and pray along with him)
There are others but I can testify to the work of the LORD in my life courtesy of these two men of GOD. Find these men on Facebook or Youtube and pray along with them. By GOD's grace you will rise above your challenges, your wife will return to you and you will have a happy family again. pls help me to modify the post you quoted, I am going with your advice but I need you to help me delete it cos you've modified it, I already deleted it |
| Re: Re-strategizing by Ishilove: 7:16am On Dec 12, 2021 |
A man's life is short and full of sorrows.
I hope you have finally learned your lesson and will now take wise counsel. 1 Like |
| Re: Re-strategizing by debbydams(f): 9:11pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
efficiencie:
Dude that fasting and prayer you did did not scratch anything ohh...your case na emergency. Your life is indeed spiraling out of control and it seems you are at your wits end. Your battle is beyond you and you need the assistance of those that are beyond you. You do not need to go a physical location. You have a phone and you have an internet connection. There are men of GOD that you can pray with online that can join hands with you to confront whatever challenge you are facing and I can recommend these two:
Pastor Jerry Eze (pray along with this Pastor every 7am)
Senior Prophet Jeremiah OmotoFufeyin (attend services and pray along with him)
There are others but I can testify to the work of the LORD in my life courtesy of these two men of GOD. Find these men on Facebook or Youtube and pray along with them. By GOD's grace you will rise above your challenges, your wife will return to you and you will have a happy family again. hummm... |
