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Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 7:37am On Dec 12, 2021 |
So, the boat was overturned in middle of the sea and right now, the authorities are recovering the bodies of most of the passengers that were onboard. As it is the body count is very large and it seems not a single soul survived…. Hey there, sorry to take you in that cruise. We are not talking about dead bodies or any corpse here. Though, this can still be some kind of casualty and death if we really want to look at it. The number of men or women that a person has had sexual contact, I mean sex, with is what my concern is here. This is the body count that i want us to assess if it does really count. It is a free world. Once most of us attained adulthood and the accompanying freedom that comes with it, we flew off to the ends of the earth, exploring, expediting and having fun. I mean all kinds of fun, sexual one most especially. So, as natural as it may seem, does it really matter if we decide to have a long list of sexual partners? Is there anything inherently wrong with being liberal with our bodies and doing something very “natural”? Sorry, if you expected a direct response from me cause on this one, I would remain on the sidelines. However, I know of a significant number of persons in the school of thought that what ever we do with our bodies remain a simple exercise. It cannot really touch us. It is a harmless expression and outflow of hormones and emotions which just goes with the moment. So, there is really nothing much attached and it is no big deal. Another group attach prestige to it. They give some form of grading. “More is always better”, the economists say. So, the higher your body count, the more prestige, the more bragging rights, the more measure of fun, the more experienced, the more fully one has lived… So, so and so. Still, for a particular class, chastity, integrity, ethics, excellence and the likes, has huge meaning for them. The high numbers seem like looseness, lack of control, lack of worth and a serious depreciation in value. The retribution and hard, negative feelings that are mostimes associated with sexual entanglements, is a big scare for this group. Accordingly, body count is a big thing for these as they try earnestly to avoid the numbers. There are truly some concepts that fall under the umbrella of subjectivity, as such, some definite conclusions may be difficult to draw on these. Almost everyone have diverse opinion which they are totally entitled to. However, figures and evidences do no lie. Taking these as measuring tools, we can all agree that the higher the number the higher the risks involved. Granted, there are some obvious attractions in this. There are those enticing stuffs that draw so many in. Still, there are abounding instances where great pains, sorrows and suffering have been self-inflicted because of body count. Thus, whether there is any form of achievement or prestige attached to getting down with a lot of people, I am really ignorant about such. From experience, the high numbers have not really turn out well for many. Maybe in the near future, a section of our resume’ will be adjusted to accommodate such, but at the moment, in all societies, in all human communities, high body count has been more in the negative than otherwise. I will leave it here for our sense of rationality to guide us in hitting high numbers or keeping it as low as possible. See you on my next Article on this, for now, Stay safe mate! Source: https://flipmemes.com/2021/11/15/does-body-count-actually-count/ 9 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by mariovito(m): 7:39am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Yes it does. it has a psychological effect when it comes to pair bonding. people (irrespective of gender) who have been around have a hard time pairing with a significant other when the time comes. It's usually harder for the female as she will have hacked and found ways to play down the hormone oxytocin. males are not excused either. 142 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Afrobasic(m): 8:07am On Dec 12, 2021 |
This topic again? ![]() Someone with a high body count is someone who cannot control his/her urges. You cannot be such a person's final destination as they'll find it hard to bond (there's nothing new you can do that'll make them excited as they've seen it all). Any person that believes body count doesn't matter and subsequently dives into a relationship with a bedsheet/community D, deserves the emotional trauma coming their way. My 2 cents. 212 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 8:18am On Dec 12, 2021 |
From my own pov the higher the numbers the less value attached 153 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by mosdii(m): 10:04am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 286 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by larryking540: 10:15am On Dec 12, 2021 |
if a woman judge a man how his future is going to be .. then a woman will have to be judged by her past life ,that's nature ,it's not something made up ...the future of a woman doesn't really matter much to a man ,only her past Life 110 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Hayee(f): 11:08am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hahahaha Nigerian girl know this and know it well Nigerian men don't like the truth ![]() ![]() ![]() So if he asks for your body count and it is 100, just divide it by 50 ![]() ![]() ![]() Or even 100 sef ![]() ![]() ![]() Nigerian men don't like good women Nigerian men are addicted to heartless gold diggers ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 12:18pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hayee: You can lie about your body count, but your body and attitude will never lie ![]() 149 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Honestly to me o... Body count counts o... I can't imagine being with an individual that has had so many sexual partners in times past, nahhhhhhh... I know they're other people out there who don't mind and I respect their decision, buh for me, it's something I take into serious consideration before choosing a spouse... 85 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Hayee(f): 1:07pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
HenryDion:toor na you create me ni ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Demigod22: 1:13pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Most ladies lie about their body count. A lady told me she was a virgin and when we had sex, she was nothing near virginity, she was even asking for more and she is not tight. When I visited her last time, she was telling me that her neighbors still believe that she is a virgin. I was just looking at her like Okorocha looking at Uzodinma. It is a free world, that I know, but having multiple sex partners and having countless sex is a pure at of wickedness. How can one innocent man huge money for pride price when these boys have eaten the cookies for free? 133 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Hayee(f): 1:50pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Hayee(f): 1:54pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Freelane33(m): 2:08pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
It counts more than money counting machines in the bank . Don’t lose guard ![]() 33 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
HenryDion:Preach to her bro. Preach ![]() 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by BigDawsNet: 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
On a dating level it doesn't matter... On a marriage level...it does matter... You don't have to be virgin but heavy body count is not acceptable 51 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by visijo(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Every Saint has a past,,,and every sinner has a future... 18 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Olam09(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Sonnobax15(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
![]() Personally,to me,it matters alot....... Unless She dey hustle for ashawo quarter,I go understand...But if you dey claim holy holy,I cor later find out say your pot of beans wide like community bore hole,sorry my sister,the way I go rush dump you go be like who by mistake rush bag of shiit from person ![]() 45 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by slawormiir: 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Damnnn niggar Who cares The number of baby girls me don smash....I nor go fit count again 24 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by femi4: 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
It's irrelevant....The body repairs itself quickly at youth age 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Emuforlife1: 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
slawormiir:Damn niggarrr what.... 67 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by BarrElChapo(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
No, nothing counts but having Jesus in your life as Lord & Master cos dust we are and unto dust we will return.... A righteousness production ![]() ![]() 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by ecolime(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
HenryDion:Dem no dey write am for face. Ashawo wey change location automatically becomes a virgin or decent chik for the new area. She can claim to have a body count of one. Same with guys. 13 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by jericco1(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
It sure does, most especially to a lady, unless she is a road side mechanic. So an ex that I left because I caught her cheating was actually telling me that apart from me and the guy I caught her with, that she's had sexual relationship with only two other guys. I was like wow ![]() So silently, ladies take this thing seriously. Try telling a guy that you've banged 10 guys, that's the end of anything meaningful to him. He'd only bang you to make it 11 and move on. Thank you 27 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by ekanx27(m): 5:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
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Re: Does Body Count Actually Count? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
binarymachine:It does. Its spiritual. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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