Boss13:
Men's relationship standards has shown a tremendous decline. According to history, piety and virginity were huge requirements for marriage. A marriage proposal was hinged on these two pre-conditions before the proposal is issued. However, it appears young men are more willingly to marry anything that identifies as a woman and the standards are now basically having defining physical features to confirm being a woman. Some men even go below the standard scale to elope with women who already have kids.

In the Dating/Marriage market, the consumers are Men and the products, Women. Logically, if consumer preference and taste declines, it will impact on the product. This same logical is also applicable to higher consumer preference and taste. Hence, it is not surprising to see the decay and rottenness acceptable by men today. What is ironic is men criticising and condemning young women for the complete rejection of valuable standards. In my opinion, the men encourages the indecencies and debauchery. In fact, men promotes these behaviours in women.

If men want better women, then they must have and demand better standards and hold these standards without compromise. After all, the consumer determines the actual product quality and if this is not possible, it is expected for the consumer to move to another market. Rather than criticise women for behaviours they, themselves encourage, men should promote and uphold better standards for women to adapt into.

Iamzealousman:
So I have been following this thread.
My experience with ladies hasn't been all nice. Though I hadn't been a SIMP.
Latest experience is a girl I met DEC 2019. We were good friends. One of the mistake I made was that I didn't shoot my shot early.
We continued to be friend. I noticed she's very nice girl. She given me a lot bought nice cloth for me on my bday. And all.
So about 6month after I met her. That was last I asked that we should be in a relationship. She said no.
And later on started moving even more closer to me.
I lost my job August last year.
I felt we began to be distant. So I left it that way. Till fdbuary March this year. When she called and questioned why I have not been chatting, calling etc.
Ever since, she calls me etc, and even assist me in terms of job search. she had even giving money when I was seriously down financially even with asking.
She tells me misses me and all sort.
I was non committal because I really do not know what she wants friendship or relationship.

So the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.
Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?

Tonnyray:
Man2Man talk

As it pertains to this issue of the Gender equality bill thing, instead of just having puerile fights on here with the "woe is me/heaven is falling on our head" camp versus the "never ever ever/taliban4life" camp, can someone please dig up the bill draft let's analyze it here.
We will then see the vicious clauses they are subtly trying to use to shackle us and the next generation of men and communicate to the right quarters in the legislative chambers to reject these outrightly. It makes more sense we bombarding the relevant social media platforms of these lawmakers and the official pages of the 2 chambers over this than concentrating on social media posts of online ratchet hoes and their retard3d tweets.

Isaacmacdon:
And you're cool with the fact that your "stupid female friend" touches your ass or sexualizes you whenever she likes, but if you do same to her almost immediately, she gets annoyed almost immediately.

A SHORT TIME AGO A FORMER COLLEAGUE MOVED TO GRAB MY CHEST. I ASKED HER TO NOT DO THAT AND SHE ASKED WHAT I'D DO IF SHE DID?
WE WERE IN A WORK ENVIRONMENT AND EVERYONE LOOKED LIKE THEY WERE CHEERING HER ON. SHE GAVE ME THIS SMACK AND I TOLD HER THAT THIS IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND SINCE THE LAW DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ME I'D DO TWICE TO HER WHATEVER SHE DOES. THERE WAS WILD LAUGHTER OF MOCKERY (AT ME) IN THE OFFICE, AND THIS RUBBISH WOMAN MADE THE WORST MISTAKE OF HER LIFE BY GOING FOR MY NIPS.

ME WEY DON CRAZE BEFORE?

BEFORE COMPLETING HER MISSION I'VE GIVEN HER BOOBS A HUGE DOUBLE SQUEEZE. THE OFFICE BECAME SILENT. HER FELLOW WOMEN AND IDIOTIC SIMPS CAME FOR ME... "DON'T YOU KNOW SHE'S A WOMAN, WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?". I SAID "DON'T Y'ALL KNOW THAT I'M A MAN. SO IT'S OKAY THAT SHE WAS CHEERED ON, BUT NOW THAT IT'S MY TURN.. IT'S THE WORST CRIME? E BE LIKE HEAD DE PAIN UNA FOR THIS PLACE". I MOVED AWAY ONCE WITH SHOULDERS HELD HIGH. CCTV CAMERAS DEY EVERYWHERE SO NOTHING DE SUP

THE GIRLS THAT SMACKED MY BUTT GOT A SMACK BACK INSTANTLY. I HAVE NO SHAME NOR ENDURANCE. SINCE I CANNOT DO THAT TO THEM THEY DON'T HAVE TO DO THAT TO ME. IT'S GROSSLY UNJUST THAT WOMEN WILL ANNOUNCE THAT THEY'RE BEING SEXUALIZED BUT WILL GO ON TO SEXUALIZE ANY MAN OF THEIR CHOICE.

SO MY GUYS IF THEY TRY TO SEXUALIZE YOU, ESPECIALLY PUBLICLY, GIVE THEM BACK. GIRLS IN MY DEPARTMENT BACK IN COLLEGE WILL "PLAYFULLY" GRAB YOUR BALLS AND TELL YOU THEY'RE SURE YOU ENJOYED IT . GUY, GIVE THEM BACK LEFT AND RIGHT. I DON'T SUPPORT SEXUAL HARASSMENT OF ANY GENDER AND SINCE THE LAW ONLY FAVORS WOMEN AT ALL TIMES, YOU HAVE TO FAVOR YOURSELF O.. GIVE THEM BACK. DON'T BE A "REAL MAN" BECAUSE REAL MEN ARE LOSERS.

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A SHORT TIME AGO A FORMER COLLEAGUE MOVED TO GRAB MY CHEST. I ASKED HER TO NOT DO THAT AND SHE ASKED WHAT I'D DO IF SHE DID?
WE WERE IN A WORK ENVIRONMENT AND EVERYONE LOOKED LIKE THEY WERE CHEERING HER ON. SHE GAVE ME THIS SMACK AND I TOLD HER THAT THIS IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND SINCE THE LAW DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ME I'D DO TWICE TO HER WHATEVER SHE DOES. THERE WAS WILD LAUGHTER OF MOCKERY (AT ME) IN THE OFFICE, AND THIS RUBBISH WOMAN MADE THE WORST MISTAKE OF HER LIFE BY GOING FOR MY NIPS.

ME WEY DON CRAZE BEFORE?

BEFORE COMPLETING HER MISSION I'VE GIVEN HER BOOBS A HUGE DOUBLE SQUEEZE. THE OFFICE BECAME SILENT. HER FELLOW WOMEN AND IDIOTIC SIMPS CAME FOR ME... "DON'T YOU KNOW SHE'S A WOMAN, WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?". I SAID "DON'T Y'ALL KNOW THAT I'M A MAN. SO IT'S OKAY THAT SHE WAS CHEERED ON, BUT NOW THAT IT'S MY TURN.. IT'S THE WORST CRIME? E BE LIKE HEAD DE PAIN UNA FOR THIS PLACE". I MOVED AWAY ONCE WITH SHOULDERS HELD HIGH. CCTV CAMERAS DEY EVERYWHERE SO NOTHING DE SUP

THE GIRLS THAT SMACKED MY BUTT GOT A SMACK BACK INSTANTLY. I HAVE NO SHAME NOR ENDURANCE. SINCE I CANNOT DO THAT TO THEM THEY DON'T HAVE TO DO THAT TO ME. IT'S GROSSLY UNJUST THAT WOMEN WILL ANNOUNCE THAT THEY'RE BEING SPECIALIZED BUT WILL GO ON TO SOCIALIZE ANY MAN OF THEIR CHOICE.

SO MY GUYS IF THEY TRY TO SEXUALIZE YOU, ESPECIALLY PUBLICLY, GIVE THEM BACK. GIRLS IN MY DEPARTMENT BACK IN COLLEGE WILL "PLAYFULLY" GRAB YOUR BALLS AND TELL YOU THEY'RE SURE YOU ENJOYED IT . GUY, GIVE THEM BACK LEFT AND RIGHT. I DON'T SUPPORT SEXUAL HARASSMENT OF ANY GENDER AND SINCE THE LAW ONLY FAVORS WOMEN AT ALL TIMES, YOU HAVE TO FAVOR YOURSELF O.. GIVE THEM BACK. DON'T BE A "REAL MAN" BECAUSE REAL MEN ARE LOSERS.

mrfizy:
Gender equality is a tale of the tortoise challenging the cheetah to a race and asking the cheetah to slow down for it to win.
Even when the cheetah enables the tortoise winning,it doesn't really makes the tortoise the winner.

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A SHORT TIME AGO A FORMER COLLEAGUE MOVED TO GRAB MY CHEST. I ASKED HER TO NOT DO THAT AND SHE ASKED WHAT I'D DO IF SHE DID?
WE WERE IN A WORK ENVIRONMENT AND EVERYONE LOOKED LIKE THEY WERE CHEERING HER ON. SHE GAVE ME THIS SMACK AND I TOLD HER THAT THIS IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND SINCE THE LAW DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ME I'D DO TWICE TO HER WHATEVER SHE DOES. THERE WAS WILD LAUGHTER OF MOCKERY (AT ME) IN THE OFFICE, AND THIS RUBBISH WOMAN MADE THE WORST MISTAKE OF HER LIFE BY GOING FOR MY NIPS.

ME WEY DON CRAZE BEFORE?

BEFORE COMPLETING HER MISSION I'VE GIVEN HER BOOBS A HUGE DOUBLE SQUEEZE. THE OFFICE BECAME SILENT. HER FELLOW WOMEN AND IDIOTIC SIMPS CAME FOR ME... "DON'T YOU KNOW SHE'S A WOMAN, WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?". I SAID "DON'T Y'ALL KNOW THAT I'M A MAN. SO IT'S OKAY THAT SHE WAS CHEERED ON, BUT NOW THAT IT'S MY TURN.. IT'S THE WORST CRIME? E BE LIKE HEAD DE PAIN UNA FOR THIS PLACE". I MOVED AWAY ONCE WITH SHOULDERS HELD HIGH. CCTV CAMERAS DEY EVERYWHERE SO NOTHING DE SUP

THE GIRLS THAT SMACKED MY BUTT GOT A SMACK BACK INSTANTLY. I HAVE NO SHAME NOR ENDURANCE. SINCE I CANNOT DO THAT TO THEM THEY DON'T HAVE TO DO THAT TO ME. IT'S GROSSLY UNJUST THAT WOMEN WILL ANNOUNCE THAT THEY'RE BEING SPECIALIZED BUT WILL GO ON TO SOCIALIZE ANY MAN OF THEIR CHOICE.

SO MY GUYS IF THEY TRY TO SEXUALIZE YOU, ESPECIALLY PUBLICLY, GIVE THEM BACK. GIRLS IN MY DEPARTMENT BACK IN COLLEGE WILL "PLAYFULLY" GRAB YOUR BALLS AND TELL YOU THEY'RE SURE YOU ENJOYED IT . GUY, GIVE THEM BACK LEFT AND RIGHT. I DON'T SUPPORT SEXUAL HARASSMENT OF ANY GENDER AND SINCE THE LAW ONLY FAVORS WOMEN AT ALL TIMES, YOU HAVE TO FAVOR YOURSELF O.. GIVE THEM BACK. DON'T BE A



"REAL MAN" BECAUSE REAL MEN ARE LOSERS.

mattfeuter:
This advise is extreme. . .

There are simpler ways of saying No.

Life no hard reach like that. . .

G0LANHEIGHTS:

You get bad mouth chai

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6897563/lady-flogs-fiance-cane-after#108540344

Martinez39s:
Funny enough, she is spreading her legs for someone else. A woman can be cheating on her man without remorse and still be so aggrieved when she catches her man cheating.

Lightway:



What you did was totally wrong. Why will you squeeze her breast just because she touched your nipples. It seems you’re taking the redpill to the extreme levels.

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A SHORT TIME AGO A FORMER COLLEAGUE MOVED TO GRAB MY CHEST. I ASKED HER TO NOT DO THAT AND SHE ASKED WHAT I'D DO IF SHE DID?
WE WERE IN A WORK ENVIRONMENT AND EVERYONE LOOKED LIKE THEY WERE CHEERING HER ON. SHE GAVE ME THIS SMACK AND I TOLD HER THAT THIS IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT AND SINCE THE LAW DOESN'T CARE ABOUT ME I'D DO TWICE TO HER WHATEVER SHE DOES. THERE WAS WILD LAUGHTER OF MOCKERY (AT ME) IN THE OFFICE, AND THIS RUBBISH WOMAN MADE THE WORST MISTAKE OF HER LIFE BY GOING FOR MY NIPS.

ME WEY DON CRAZE BEFORE?

BEFORE COMPLETING HER MISSION I'VE GIVEN HER BOOBS A HUGE DOUBLE SQUEEZE. THE OFFICE BECAME SILENT. HER FELLOW WOMEN AND IDIOTIC SIMPS CAME FOR ME... "DON'T YOU KNOW SHE'S A WOMAN, WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?". I SAID "DON'T Y'ALL KNOW THAT I'M A MAN. SO IT'S OKAY THAT SHE WAS CHEERED ON, BUT NOW THAT IT'S MY TURN.. IT'S THE WORST CRIME? E BE LIKE HEAD DE PAIN UNA FOR THIS PLACE". I MOVED AWAY ONCE WITH SHOULDERS HELD HIGH. CCTV CAMERAS DEY EVERYWHERE SO NOTHING DE SUP

THE GIRLS THAT SMACKED MY BUTT GOT A SMACK BACK INSTANTLY. I HAVE NO SHAME NOR ENDURANCE. SINCE I CANNOT DO THAT TO THEM THEY DON'T HAVE TO DO THAT TO ME. IT'S GROSSLY UNJUST THAT WOMEN WILL ANNOUNCE THAT THEY'RE BEING SPECIALIZED BUT WILL GO ON TO SOCIALIZE ANY MAN OF THEIR CHOICE.

SO MY GUYS IF THEY TRY TO SEXUALIZE YOU, ESPECIALLY PUBLICLY, GIVE THEM BACK. GIRLS IN MY DEPARTMENT BACK IN COLLEGE WILL "PLAYFULLY" GRAB YOUR BALLS AND TELL YOU THEY'RE SURE YOU ENJOYED IT . GUY, GIVE THEM BACK LEFT AND RIGHT. I DON'T SUPPORT SEXUAL HARASSMENT OF ANY GENDER AND SINCE THE LAW ONLY FAVORS WOMEN AT ALL TIMES, YOU HAVE TO FAVOR YOURSELF O.. GIVE THEM BACK. DON'T BE A "REAL MAN" BECAUSE REAL MEN ARE LOSERS.

Martinez39s:
To make something clear, PrinxArthur1's reply wasn't bad, but I just suggested what I thought would have been a better response. Notice that I PREFERRED silence and snobbery because personally I have zero tolerance for stupidity and nonsense and I have strict boundaries, and we should all imbibe this. In case you think my response is harsh, you can opt for silence and snobbery.

That being said, my advice on how he should have responded if he really wanted to reply isn't extreme. Understand that her question, a question from a grown adult, reeks of a disgusting sense of entitlement and the arrogant and impertinent confidence of someone who has gained familiarity with prixarthur and thinks she has "seen him finish." (anyway she said he usually goes to her place, and I will wager that that's where the attitude is coming from. You never can tell if there is a way prinxarthur relates with her that gives her such audacity, or maybe she is just like that; only prinxarthur knows). Such is inappropriate and to have the guts to shove it in his face is highly disrespectful and a slap to his face, if he has strict boundaries on not putting up with nonsense. It doesn't matter if it is a śhit test or not.

To even do it confidently and remain rude and remorseless after prinxarthur's reply shows that there are strict boundaries he has to enforce in how he deals with her; it shows her regard and manners (towards him) are not sufficient and she has to be put in her place immediately and sharply. For such a rude and entitled folk, silence and snobbery or a harsh verbal stab (if you wish to respond) is okay to put her in her place so she will think twice when trying to pull such stunt next time. People who respect and place value on themselves have strict boundaries on who or what they tolerate and none of them will put up with anyone who can shove such nonsense in their faces.

Never be polite or gentlemanly to an unworthy and shameless woman. Never be polite or gentlemanly to a woman who lacks manners and has the audacity to shove nonsense in your face. Be cold and show no pity in putting women in their place if need be. Many of us will want to enter serious relationships and get married in future; for such men, it is best and important they get used to setting boundaries and putting women in their place if need be, even if it gets them offended or seems too harsh. Without these, your manliness and frame in your dealings with women are questionable and will be found wanting. This should be deduced from a red pill lens. In fact, all must have these qualities and get used to them. It is common sense.

Of course my advice should be followed with discretion. However, I am sure you get the drift.
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Finally, I know life can be hard for some single mothers and they are trying to survive and take care of their kids. However, the right thing should be done. If you want to ask someone a favour, do it politely and respectfully knowing fully well that no one owes you and your child anything. If your fellow man was this rude, entitled and disrespectful, would you pity him in how you would treat his fuçk up? Even after she shoved her entitlement and rude behaviour in his face, she didn't realise her mistake after his reply. She didn't even understand what she did wrong and why he was be angry, yet she kept on being rude and showed no remorse. SMH. Is such worthy of any consideration or pity?

I have little tolerance for nonsense. From my experiences with people, men and women, I learnt from an early age to have strict boundaries. Some people deserve it hot sometimes. Don't let people do you anyhow.

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I HAVE NEVER CALLED MYSELF A "REDPILLER", AND WHAT HAPPENED BACK THEN ON THAT DAY HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THE REDPILL. ON A GOOD DAY I'M A LOVERBOY SIMP BUT INJUSTICE, DECEIT AND MANIPULATION ARE SOME OF THE THINGS I DETEST WHOLEHEARTEDLY.

I'M SORRY BUT YOUR EPISTLE IS TRASH. IF YOU TOUCH A WOMAN SEXUALLY, SHE CAN GO ON AND HIT YOU ANYHOW AND ANYWHERE WHILE RAINING INSULTS ON YOU. REVERSE THE CASES AND MOST MEN WOULD SMILE AND WALK AWAY WHEN SEXUALLY HARASSED. I AM NOT MOST MEN. I'D USUALLY WARN FEMALES TO NOT TOUCH ME LIKE THAT BUT ON THE TIMES THAT THEY DID, HITTING AND ABUSING THEM WASN'T THE RESORT BUT I GAVE THEM EXACTLY WHAT THEY GAVE ME. THIS TREATMENT ACTUALLY MAKES WOMEN AVOID YOU. 3 POINTS IN THE BAG!

YOU MAY CALL IT WHATEVER YOU WANT. I CALL IT SELF-DEFENSE. THAT I'M A MAN DOESN'T GIVE ANYBODY FREE PASS TO MY BODY. I'M NOT HAVING IT. FORGET YOUR REAL MAN SHĮT OR REDPILLING STATUS SOMETIMES BECAUSE WHEN THEY GO LOW YOU HAVE TO GO LOWER TO SHOW THAT 2 CAN PLAY.

PrinxArthur1:
i saw your take on issue , lol,I am still in control of the relationship ,everything is not Gbas gbos, sometimes corny man die corny man bury am

larryking540:

bro take that guy advice ,that's the best advice you can get ,the only leverage you will have over a woman that tryies to carry out sexual abuse on you is provided there is a cctv camera filming the act ,then u are save but if there is non ,a woman can raoe you and still say you raped her or you took advantage of him if things don't go as planned later in future , remember the case of that pastor and timi wife ,be careful bro ,,,the people signing women's rights ,womens privileges aren't female's they are male's in govt office and presidential position .....

haven't you heard of cases both parties get drug and they go home have a sweet fun at night and when it's day break ,the lady makes an out cry you raped her ,one more thing never touch a women when she is drunk , even though she gives you a Mouth Action ,with a cowgirl style at night,when it's day break ,she will say u raped her trust me bro ,men are in jail because of cases like this .

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I MENTIONED PUBLICLY AND CCTV IN MY INITIAL POST. LEARN TO READ AND UNDERSTAND.
ALSO, WITHOUT EVIDENCE, IN THIS NIGERIA, THERE'S HARDLY ANYTHING FOR HER AGAINST YOU IN COURT, UNLESS ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

I SEE MORE MEN OF LITTLE WIT TRYING TO LET ME KNOW THAT I HAVE TO CLAP FOR WOMEN WHEN THEY TRY TO HARASS ME SEXUALLY.

I REPEAT WHAT I HAVE SAID. IF THE WOMEN AT YOUR WORK OR SCHOOL LIKE TO TOUCH YOU INAPPROPRIATELY THE BEST WAY TO STOP THEM IS BY MAKING PHYSICAL CONTACT, ESPECIALLY WHEN PUBLICLY/WHERE THERE ARE CAMERAS. UNLESS YOU DON'T WANT THEM TO STOP. WOMEN DON'T RESPECT "STOP". AND REPORTING THE CASES IS MOSTLY FRUITLESS BECAUSE NO ONE WILL BELIEVE YOU. IF SHE TOUCHES YOU AND YOU TOUCH HER LIKE THAT SHE'D BE TOO ASHAMED/UNCOMFORTABLE TO DO IT ANOTHER TIME (UNLESS SHE'S SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU AND ACTUALLY WANT MORE THAN THAT). THIS IS AN EXPERIMENT THAT HAS BEEN PROVEN SUCCESSFUL BY I AND MANY OTHERS.

GOOD LUCK TAKING NONSENSE FROM PEOPLE.

Winnerly:
https://www.nairaland.com/ilekokonit/posts

This guys ordeal made me teary eyed. For those who want to marry, read

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I MENTIONED PUBLICLY AND CCTV IN MY INITIAL POST. LEARN TO READ AND UNDERSTAND.
ALSO, WITHOUT EVIDENCE, IN THIS NIGERIA, THERE'S HARDLY ANYTHING FOR HER AGAINST YOU IN COURT, UNLESS ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

I SEE MORE MEN OF LITTLE WIT TRYING TO LET ME KNOW THAT I HAVE TO CLAP FOR WOMEN WHEN THEY TRY TO HARASS ME SEXUALLY.

I REPEAT WHAT I HAVE SAID. IF THE WOMEN AT YOUR WORK OR SCHOOL LIKE TO TOUCH YOU INAPPROPRIATELY THE BEST WAY TO STOP THEM IS BY MAKING PHYSICAL CONTACT, ESPECIALLY WHEN PUBLICLY/WHERE THERE ARE CAMERAS. UNLESS YOU DON'T WANT THEM TO STOP. WOMEN DON'T RESPECT "STOP". AND REPORTING THE CASES IS MOSTLY FRUITLESS BECAUSE NO ONE WILL BELIEVE YOU. IF SHE TOUCHES YOU AND YOU TOUCH HER LIKE THAT SHE'D BE TOO ASHAMED/UNCOMFORTABLE TO DO IT ANOTHER TIME (UNLESS SHE'S SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU AND ACTUALLY WANT MORE THAN THAT). THIS IS AN EXPERIMENT THAT HAS BEEN PROVEN SUCCESSFUL BY I AND MANY OTHERS.

GOOD LUCK TAKING NONSENSE FROM PEOPLE.